
The New Rules of Attachment
How to Heal Your Relationships, Reparent Your Inner Child, and Secure Your Life Vision
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Dr. Judy Ho
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Dr. Judy Ho
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Discover a revolutionary approach to attachment theory that teaches listeners how to heal their inner child to change their anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachment style in relationships, friendships, at work, and home—perfect for fans of How to Do the Work, Polysecure, and Amir Levine’s Attached.
Did you know that attachment style impacts more than romantic relationships? As it turns out, most of us are thinking about Attachment Theory all wrong, and triple board-certified clinical and forensic neuropsychologist Dr. Judy Ho is here to set the record straight.
Grounded in the science of attachment, Dr. Judy’s game-changing approach shows that our attachment style impacts every aspect of our lives: friendships, career, goal setting, and, critically, our sense of self. Moreover, we can all learn to become securely attached—no matter what attachment style we developed in childhood—meaning that we can reclaim our ability to feel safe, loved, and capable of achieving the life we’ve always wanted.
Through Dr. Judy’s innovative program, listeners will learn to identify their attachment style, recognize their core needs and wounds, and implement evidence-based practical tools to heal their inner child as they develop the secure attachment we all need to thrive.
Listeners will also benefit from:
- A new attachment style quiz to identify your attachment style in all areas of life.
- A personalized approach that allows you to start making positive change today.
- More than two dozen transformative exercises to support your journey to healing.
With warmth, authority, and a bias to action, The New Rules of Attachment is a call to achieving unconditional self-love and a meaningful, joyful life.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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"Dr. Judy Ho's The New Rules of Attachment is a compass for your personal revolution. Brace yourself for a bold departure from the ordinary. Unearth your attachment style, mend old wounds, and redefine the game with quizzes and exercises that pack a punch. This book is your invitation to a life of self-love and authentic connections—a must-read for those ready to rewrite their story."—Jessica Baum, LMHC, Author of Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love
“The exercises in The New Rules of Attachment will be a significant breakthrough for those of us who want to finally release our childhood wounds, traumas and dysfunctional adult behaviors. You will love yourself even more with your new-found sense of well-being.”—John Assaraf, New York Times Best Selling Author, CEO and Founder of MyNeuroGym.com
“In this must-read book, Dr. Judy Ho navigates the intricate realm of attachment styles, illuminating a path to self-transformation. Ultimately, her book serves as a guide to help us embark on a journey towards a more empowered, fulfilling, and joyous life, while redefining our own potential and understanding of self.’”—Dr. Nita Landry, MD, OB-GYN, author of Dr. Nita's Crash Course for Women: Better Sex, Better Health, Better You
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- Adri
- 04-18-25
Great information!
Very helpful, great information from a knowledgeable, respectable doctor. Lots of great exercises, too. Her narration was great. For some reason, I had a difficult time holding my attention at times. Unfortunately, I can't say why that is. I'm super grateful the author covered disorganized attachment, which is what I've been. I get discouraged at times where I still struggle, but this section helped me realize how much progress I've made. I will listen again and would recommend it to others.
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- Agustina Pickens
- 05-10-25
Tools for life
I've watched Judy Ho on Court TV and knew that her book would be educational and insightful. It did not disappoint. Judy is deep and straight to the point. She has a way of taking a complex topic and breaking it down to where it has an impact. I am new to this topic of attachment styles and her examples were super helpful. I feel that what I have learned, along with the exercises and resources, will help me discover more of my authentic self. Thank you, Judy Ho, for writing this book.
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