
The Struggle Is Real
Getting Better at Life, Stronger in Faith, and Free from the Stuff Keeping You Stuck
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"It just shouldn't be this hard!"
Raise your hand if you've ever had a day where everything that could go wrong does go wrong - you lock your keys in the car while it's running, lose control with your kids, make a mistake at the office that results in hours more work. And just when you think not one more thing could possibly happen ... well, fill in the blank.
The struggle is real, friends. It may not be major stuff. Lives are not on the line here. But it makes us feel awful... and then we feel guilty for stressing when other people have "real" problems that are so much more serious.
Yet the fact remains: we live in a world that often feels harder than we think it should be. And so it can be easy to believe the stories we tell ourselves - that we're doing it wrong, that we'll be stuck in this place forever, that God doesn't love us. We struggle to practice gratitude, to make godly choices, and to live our daily lives with confidence and contentment. So what can we do?
Join popular Bible teacher and counselor Nicole Unice to discover why the struggle is real... and what to do about it. Nicole offers practical tools to help you navigate the daily ups and downs, and ways to rewrite your struggle into a new, God-centered life story. The Struggle Is Real is an invitation to take the hard, hurtful, and confusing moments and turn them into opportunities to grow in wisdom, strength, and joy.
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- Lisa Brittain
- 04-10-21
outstanding
surrender to Christ to allow Him to help us re-write our stories is key crucial to experiencing the abundant life of which Christ intends us to live on earth as it is in heaven! amen. amen.
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- Eva S.
- 10-01-22
very emotional
made me laugh, cry and realize that it's ok to not have all together all the time.
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- macinc
- 08-30-19
Life Changing
Nicole Unice made simple the perils of daily choices and options using Christ as the pendellum balancer. How we see, review and comprehend experiences can extend living joyfully. Turn your hurt into help for those on the journey of faith and clarity, as well as purpose. I completed this book affirmed that every experience or encounter should be about strengthening my personal walk with God, on His terms, for the bettering of all around me. I enjoyed with a group and was BLESSED working together with "the Struggle is Real" - I can speak for all of us, our 6-weeks study was life changing. Highly recommended
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- Michelle Eremich
- 11-30-21
great book
loved the whole book thanks it helped me a lot with personal struggles that I'm going through today
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- CarolineWade
- 10-30-24
Real Life
I've read a lot of books on self-development, shifting our thoughts, and creating new stories. I am a licensed counselor and have a lot of training for helping people through this also. But I love how this book takes you on the journey using God's word as reference. I will be recommending this book to my Christian clients.
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- Double K
- 09-10-18
Must read!
I listened to this after having read the book. It’s like you are getting a personal one on one teaching from Nicole. By listening and reading, it allowed the rich lessons to sink in further. Highly recommended!
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- Ron S.
- 05-21-21
Great Book
This is a book that will get many listens. It spoke to me right where I am today.
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- Paula
- 01-06-21
I needed this
It’s always good to know that I’m not alone in this fight for my mind. I felt the words you wrote in these pages. Because I too find it hard to express my feelings ,as a Christian the world is looking and they always want you to be happy and they are watching your failures,but I to was ashamed to express my inner feeling because I read the Bible almost every day . I asked the “why questions “ ........ Apart from the Bible this book has become a favorite thanks you for sharing
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- Michelle
- 11-03-22
Resting Asured
This book is full of life and truth! Want to listen again soon because there is so much in such simplicity that I desire to take roots from! Blessings and Grace!
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- Lisa Johns
- 05-08-24
Book contains powerful tools for life change
I think Nicole does a good job of breaking down the struggles we face and why we can't seem to find the freedom we desire and then a process finding it.
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