
Why Her?
6 Truths We Need to Hear When Measuring Up Leaves Us Falling Behind
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About this listen
If success is defined in the eye of the beholder, who are you letting behold your success?
Nicki Koziarz is confronting the comparison question: Why her?
Through two striving sisters in the Bible, Nicki uncovered six truths we need to hear when trying to measure up leaves you falling behind.
These six truths will help you:
- Stop staring at her success and find satisfaction in yours.
- Find contentment with your life without being complacent in who you are becoming.
- Gain godly wisdom to answer the Why Her silent question of your soul.
Someone will always be ahead. But that doesn’t mean you’re behind. Because Truth, like always, will set us free. And free women don’t have to measure up to anybody. Not even her.
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- Anonymous User
- 04-15-18
Love her transparency!!!
I would recommend this book and plan on listening to it again! She is so down to earth and genuine!
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- Christine Hellums
- 03-27-18
Loved it!
In the world of comparison, especially with women, it was amazing to hear a down to earth perspective on this subject. I love her simple six steps. It gives us a place to start in the battle of comparison.
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- Amazon Customer
- 04-17-18
Your life matters
Would you listen to Why Her? again? Why?
Absolutely. The author is so real, authentic and encouraging. She's the one reading the book, too, and does so incredibly naturally. You feel like you could just sit down and have a wonderful conversation with her.
What about Nicki Koziarz’s performance did you like?
She is so natural, so personal. Engaging. It's like you're visiting with a true friend.
Any additional comments?
I would highly recommend this book to anyone who struggles with feeling "not good enough"..."not enough" period. You were created to be YOU, not anyone else, by our God Who loves you and values you. The author brings that out in a personal, friendly, real way.
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- arlene Herring
- 03-21-19
I enjoyed this book
This is currently in our Women's Bible Study! This has been a great read or listen!! Highly recommended
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- FoxFam
- 05-12-18
Speaks directly to my heart and soul
Nicki Koziarz does an excellent job breaking down how some times comparison can be harmful and how to move forward.
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- AL
- 04-15-18
Great Read
If you could sum up Why Her? in three words, what would they be?
Honesty with yourself and avoid comparing yourself to others
What other book might you compare Why Her? to and why?
This book is very unique...Self help book with a Biblical foundation.
What about Nicki Koziarz’s performance did you like?
The honesty embraced while she was sharing difficult details about her private life.
Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?
Both. The book presents a powerful theme.
Any additional comments?
Nicki please keep writing. Thank you.
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- salvador carrillo
- 04-28-21
awesome book!
Loved it!
Things I have struggled with that I thought I was alone, she made since of them all and helped me understand, I am not alone.
Very pleasant understand and easy book and narration.
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- Joy Stephany
- 05-04-22
Great book!
Learned a lot; very helpful! Wish I would have had a book like this when I was like 12 yrs old. Highly recommend!
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- mommamia4
- 06-11-18
Truths Indeed
This book helped me understand some of my own struggles in relationships with other women. I’m 42 and still have much to learn but I’m grateful for an eye opening look. Now, to put into practice the truths I’ve learned.
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- SD
- 06-05-18
excellent
it's okay not to be okay . every women should read such great insight thanks.
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