Why Is My Child in Charge?
A Roadmap to End Power Struggles, Increase Cooperation, and Find Joy in Parenting Young Children
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Randye Kaye
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Claire Lerner
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Through stories from her practice, Claire Lerner shows parents how making critical mind-shifts - seeing their children's behaviors through a new lens - empowers parents to solve their most vexing childrearing challenges. This process puts parents back in the driver's seat, where they belong, and where their children need them to be.
Why Is My Child In Charge? picks up where other books have left parents hanging. Most parenting books offer solutions that sound good on paper but don't work in practice. They are aspirational rather than achievable, or they offer one-size-fits-all approaches that don't meet the needs of an individual child. They can compound parents' feelings of frustration and thus can be counterproductive. Case by case, Claire unpacks the individualized process she guides parents through to solve the most common challenges such as throwing tantrums in public; delaying bedtime for hours; refusing to participate in family mealtimes; and resisting potty training. Employing a relatable storytelling approach, Claire elucidates: the faulty mindsets that pose obstacles to parents seeing the situation more objectively; the essential mind-shifts that enable parents to quickly identify the root causes of the problem; and the development of an action plan tailored to each unique child and family.
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By: Elaine Taylor-Klaus, and others
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Toddler Discipline for Every Age and Stage
- Effective Strategies to Tame Tantrums, Overcome Challenges, and Help Your Child Grow
- By: Aubrey Hargis
- Narrated by: Courtney Patterson
- Length: 3 hrs and 58 mins
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Toddlers are constantly changing, and they can easily become overwhelmed by it all. When faced with the meltdowns that toddlers are famous for, it can be difficult to know which toddler discipline techniques will best help your child grow into a stronger, kinder person. Toddler Discipline for Every Age and Stage delivers essential toddler discipline tools for dealing with day-to-day difficulties, and supporting your toddler as they learn the important lessons that will set them up for success.
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Succinct and easy to use
- By Diana on 09-29-20
By: Aubrey Hargis
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The Kazdin Method for Parenting the Defiant Child
- By: Alan Kazdin
- Narrated by: L. J. Ganser
- Length: 10 hrs and 44 mins
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Most child-behavior books are filled with advice that sounds reasonable, fits with what parents already believe about child-rearing, and isas Dr. Kazdin proves guaranteed to fail. The Kazdin Method for Parenting the Defiant Child makes available to parents for the first time Dr. Kazdins proven program, one backed up by some of the most long-term and respected research devoted to any therapy for children.
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Same old same old
- By Amazon Customer on 10-26-10
By: Alan Kazdin
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Simplicity Parenting
- Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids
- By: Kim John Payne, Lisa M. Ross
- Narrated by: Arthur Morey
- Length: 9 hrs and 54 mins
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From internationally renowned family consultant Kim John Payne comes an eloquent guide that seeks to help parents reclaim for their children the space and freedom that all kids need for their individuality to flourish.
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A worthwhile listen for new parents
- By Kathy K on 07-30-12
By: Kim John Payne, and others
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Zero to Five
- 70 Essential Parenting Tips Based on Science (and What I’ve Learned So Far)
- By: Tracy Cutchlow
- Narrated by: Xe Sands
- Length: 4 hrs and 59 mins
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Pregnancy? Newborn baby? Partway through parenthood with a toddler or preschooler? No matter your stage, I'm guessing you could use more calm, more confidence. You could listen to dozens of parenting books on pregnancy, baby sleep, picky eaters, child psychology, child development, potty training, and discipline. Or you could listen to Zero to Five: 70 Essential Parenting Tips Based on Science.
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Exceptional, a confluence of logic and love.
- By Matthew Puddicombe on 03-21-19
By: Tracy Cutchlow
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Parenting Without Power Struggles
- Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids While Staying Cool, Calm, and Connected
- By: Susan Stiffelman
- Narrated by: Susan Stiffelman
- Length: 8 hrs and 36 mins
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While most parenting programs are designed to coerce kids to change, Parenting Without Power Struggles does something innovative, showing you how to help your children awaken their natural instincts to cooperate, rather than employing threats or bribes, which inevitably fuels their resistance. By staying calm and being the confident "captain of the ship" your child needs, you will learn how to parent from a place of strong, durable connection, and you'll be better able to help your kids navigate the challenging moments of growing up.
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Highly recommended.
- By Nothing really matters on 10-13-13
By: Susan Stiffelman
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Hunt, Gather, Parent
- What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans
- By: Michaeleen Doucleff
- Narrated by: Michaeleen Doucleff
- Length: 11 hrs and 11 mins
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In Hunt, Gather, Parent, Doucleff sets out with her three-year-old daughter in tow to learn and practice parenting strategies from families in three of the world’s most venerable communities: Maya families in Mexico, Inuit families above the Arctic Circle, and Hadzabe families in Tanzania. She sees that these cultures don’t have the same problems with children that Western parents do.
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I wish they had a professional narrator
- By Anonymous User on 03-26-21
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Oh Crap! Potty Training
- Everything Modern Parents Need to Know to Do It Once and Do It Right
- By: Jamie Glowacki
- Narrated by: Meredith Mitchell
- Length: 8 hrs and 4 mins
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Let Jamie Glowacki show you how potty training is done. Her six-step, proven process to get your toddler out of diapers and onto the toilet has already worked for 10s of thousands of kids and their parents.
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Very snarky and anti-parent
- By Katrina on 01-25-16
By: Jamie Glowacki
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The Connected Child
- Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family
- By: Karyn B. Purvis, David R. Cross, Wendy Lyons Sunshine
- Narrated by: Anna Crowe
- Length: 6 hrs and 49 mins
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The adoption of a child is always a joyous moment in the life of a family. Some adoptions, though, present unique challenges. Welcoming these children into your family - and addressing their special needs - requires care, consideration, and compassion.
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Incredibly helpful
- By Amazon Customer on 08-12-21
By: Karyn B. Purvis, and others
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The Confident Parent
- A Pediatrician's Guide to Caring for Your Little One - Without Losing Your Joy, Your Mind, or Yourself
- By: Dr. Jane Scott, Stephanie Land
- Narrated by: Susan Boyce
- Length: 8 hrs and 17 mins
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We've all heard the complaint from parents: They're more overwhelmed than ever before - juggling demands on their time as well as conflicting advice from family, friends, frenemies, and "experts" on how to achieve parental perfection, or risk jeopardizing their little one's future happiness. Pediatrician Jane Scott has seen this parental anxiety up close, and in The Confident Parent she shares advice on how to cut through the confusion.
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Read by a computer
- By Megan Ormston on 11-14-18
By: Dr. Jane Scott, and others
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Master the Daily Battles of Parenting Toddlers
- Stay Calm, Raise Happy and Caring Children, and Have More Fun as a Family
- By: Anna Andersen
- Narrated by: Joni Abbott
- Length: 56 mins
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Fed up with the constant arguing and feeling like you can't get ahead of your three-year-old's constantly changing wants, needs, and opinions? Would you love to have a pause button when your little one is throwing a tantrum at the supermarket? Do you find yourself losing your temper when your kids misbehave and no matter how many times you remind them, they just keep doing the things you want them to stop doing?
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Fun and Informative
- By Frazier on 01-26-16
By: Anna Andersen
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Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours
- By: Kevin Leman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 7 hrs and 10 mins
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We have seen the enemy . . . and they are small. If anyone understands why children behave the way they do, it's psychologist and best-selling author Dr. Kevin Leman. Equipping you with seven principles of Reality Discipline, this father of five shows you how to get kids to do what you want them to do, foil finicky eaters, turn off temper tantrums, and minimize sibling rivalries, use authority and decisiveness to show your kids you're not a pushover, and know when to take the little buzzards by the beak.
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Life Saver for you and your kid!
- By Amber on 09-21-10
By: Kevin Leman
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Overcoming Oppositional Defiant Disorder
- A Two-Part Treatment Plan to Help Parents and Kids Work Together
- By: Gina Atencio-MacLean PsyD
- Narrated by: Tiffany Morgan
- Length: 4 hrs and 23 mins
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Parenting a child with oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) is difficult, stressful, and often overwhelming. Overcoming Oppositional Defiant Disorder is the first child psychology book that sets you up for success by recognizing that taking care of your child starts with taking care of yourself.
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Need more specifics
- By Lee on 05-14-24
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- jessie
- 05-13-24
Worth the time
I learned so much. Tons of good info with multiple examples. Each chapter was a new topic, so you could potentially skip to your problem area.
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- Sanzibar
- 08-15-22
straight to the point
filled with real life scenarios you'll relate to accompanied by important mindset shifts, a positive discipline approach
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- Gaya
- 07-25-23
One of the best books out there
I've read many parenting books and if I had to pick one, I'd say this is the best. Why? Because is actually works. Other books contain some useful tips, but also some that are either unrealistic (basically assuming parents are tireless unendingly empathetic people) or tricks to assert control (which sometimes work but can also majorly backfire making the situation worse and you feel like a bad parent). This book is sensible and practical. The narration is indeed a bit robotic, not super bad but could be better. It's still very much worth the listen!
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- matt d
- 03-19-22
Robotic performance Good content
I agree with other reviewers. The author is brilliant but the delivery is robotic.
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- Nik
- 02-24-24
Very different, in that is explains how parents need to change their way of thinking
This book was very helpful in that it describes the common mental mistakes that parents do, and how a change in the way the think can bring significant serenity and permanent solutions in their kid's problems
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- Anonymous User
- 10-18-21
I wish the author had narrated
I downloaded this because I heard the author on a podcast and thought she was great. I just can’t get pass the narration. It sounds computer-generated and I would have much preferred the author narrating. The content is great otherwise.
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- EA
- 06-18-24
Great parenting book but horrible narration.
I would read this book if I had a do over. The substance is great, but the narrator sounds like bad robo spam from the '90s. It took away from my enjoyment of the book and made me dread listening. Regarding substance, the book has a lot of similarities to Good Inside by Beck Kennedy. I found this book much more concise. It also provides valuable and practical examples of the guidance.
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