Wired for Love
A Neuroscientist's Journey Through Romance, Loss, and the Essence of Human Connection
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From the world’s foremost neuroscientist of romantic love comes a personal story of connection and heartbreak that brings new understanding to an old truth: better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
"This highly accessible audiobook is not only a love story, but also an exploration of the bizarre functions of the brain that create physical and emotional connections between human beings." -AudioFile on Wired for Love
At thirty-seven, Dr. Stephanie Cacioppo was content to be single. She was fulfilled by her work on the neuroscience of romantic love—how finding and growing with a partner literally reshapes our brains. That was, until she met the foremost neuroscientist of loneliness. A whirlwind romance led to marriage, to sharing an office at the University of Chicago. After seven years of being inseparable at work and home, she lost her beloved husband following a devastating battle with cancer.
In Wired for Love, Dr. Stephanie Cacioppo tells not just not just a science story, but also a love story. She shares revelatory insights into how we fall in love, and why; what makes love last; and how we process love lost—all grounded in cutting-edge findings in brain chemistry and behavioral science. Woven through it all is her moving personal story, from astonishment, to unbreakable bond, to grief and healing. Her experience and her work enrich each other, creating a singular blend of science and lyricism that’s essential reading for anyone looking for connection.
A Macmillan Audio production from Flatiron Books.
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For more than three decades, Dr. John Bargh has been responsible for the revolutionary research into the unconscious mind, research that informed best sellers like Blink and Thinking Fast and Slow. Now, in what Dr. John Gottman said "will be the most important and exciting book in psychology that has been written in the past 20 years", Dr. Bargh takes us on an entertaining and enlightening tour of the forces that affect everyday behavior while transforming our understanding of ourselves in profound ways.
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Political jab
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Elation, mood swings, sleeplessness, and obsession - these are the tell-tale signs of someone in the throes of romantic passion. In this revealing new book, renowned anthropologist Helen Fisher explains why this experience - which cuts across time, geography, and gender - is a force as powerful as the need for food or sleep.
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Key message.
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Why are some people so quick to recover from a setback while others wallow in despair? Why are some people so highly attuned to others that they seem psychic, while other people put both feet in it over and over again? Why are some people always up and others always down? In this hotly anticipated book, award-winning, pioneering neuroscientist Richard J. Davidson answers these questions by offering an entirely new model of our emotions - their origins, their power, and their malleability.
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In The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and will Determine the Fate of the Human Race, George Washington University professor and psychiatrist Daniel Z. Lieberman, MD, and Georgetown University lecturer Michael E. Long present a potentially life-changing proposal: Much of human life has an unconsidered component that explains an array of behaviors previously thought to be unrelated, including why winners cheat, why geniuses often suffer with mental illness, why nearly all diets fail, and more.
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Brain Rules (Updated and Expanded)
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In the New York Times bestseller Brain Rules, Dr. John Medina, a molecular biologist, shares his lifelong interest in how the brain sciences might influence the way we teach our children and the way we work. In each chapter, he describes a brain rule - what scientists know for sure about how our brains work - and then offers transformative ideas for our daily lives. Medina’s fascinating stories and infectious sense of humor breathe life into brain science.
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Dear Publishers . . .
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More often than not, our own mental obstacles are holding us back from the joy, fulfillment, and meaning that we all crave, but by retooling our perspectives, we gain the ability to see the path toward the life we truly desire. Charlie Harary, business executive, professor, speaker, and radio host, combines the wisdom of science, spirituality, and personal growth in practical and understandable terms so you can take the life you have and make it the life you want.
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A great reminder of what's important
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Entertaining story with some quick neuroscience
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The 7 Laws of Magical Thinking
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In this witty and perceptive debut, a former editor at Psychology Today shows us how magical thinking makes life worth living. Psychologists have documented a litany of cognitive biases and explained their positive functions. Now, Matthew Hutson shows us that even the most hardcore skeptic indulges in magical thinking all the time - and it's crucial to our survival. Drawing on evolution, cognitive science, and neuroscience, Hutson shows us that magical thinking has been so useful to us that it's hardwired into our brains.
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Highly enjoyable
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- Carole Sue Taylor
- 08-24-22
an exploration into being human
this book is so relatable. in love or wanting to be loved or in the aftermath of a great love, this is and encouraging and courageous exploration of the science behind our greatest emotion. it is also the story of one woman's personal experience with love.
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- Amazon Customer
- 08-28-22
Inspiring, educational and touching
Beautifully written- very touching and inspiring. I cried while listening to Dr. Cacioppo 's story. I love how she was able to combine and relate all of the research on love and loneliness with her personal story. And I agree that the opposite to loneliness is love :)
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- Amazon Customer
- 10-21-22
loved this book
excellent book with a very insightful look at the science behind love and loneliness mixed with the authors own captivating love story. definitely recommend.
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- Nancy Campasano
- 04-17-23
True meaning of Love
I now have an understanding of the true meaning of love.
Some of us have had true love, have lost it, and have found it again in other forms.
Beautiful book.
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- Julie McAdoo
- 08-29-24
Good book for widowed
This is a good book for widowed people who want to better appreciate how their relationship to their late partner came to be and why it is so painful when it ends in death, and how the process of recovering from the worst pain of grief and loss can play out. I am a widow, and felt like the book well described all the stages of the love relationship with my late spouse. I would like for the author to explore what it is like for widows who do find another mate after losing their first. That is an interesting experience and one that figures prominently in many widows minds as they rebuild their lives. Many choose not to find another partner, many want to find another partner, and some people feel socially pressured in one of those two directions but are unsure what they want. I think this author’s life story would make her a great person to look into this specific situation.
Interesting and helpful book!
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- william
- 05-07-22
Life altering scientific love story
This book is expansive: greatly expands are knowledge of the brain, love ,loss and the pain of losing love. Also how we must the vagaries of life and not let fear prevent from experiencing joy! Absolutely mind rewiring and life acceptance.This is a must read about life , love and acceptance.
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- Molly Severns
- 12-23-22
The Science and Reality of Love
Beautifully written and narrated story. The science is fascinating and pairs perfectly with the underlying story of love and loss and life after. Already planning a second listen so I can take a few notes.
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- Kate Martin
- 05-27-22
This could have been an essay
This was disappointing - the science was interesting but overall, there was not enough material for a book. I did not find the insights from the author’s personal story to be new. Would not recommend.
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- Edmund
- 08-27-22
Did not finish
I was hoping for an update to Helen Fisher's book Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love from 2004, but Wired for Love is not even that good. Way too much about the author. She gives the misguided impression that no one studied this topic until she got in the lab. The neuroscience is not new.
Her study of pregnenolone and social isolation, when completed, may be of interest.
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