
Wired for Love (Second Edition)
How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
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Stan Tatkin
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Every person is wired for love differently—with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and routines, making it possible to neurologically prime the brain for greater love and connection and fewer conflicts. This go-to guide will show you how.
Drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this highly anticipated second edition of Wired for Love presents cutting-edge research on how and why love lasts, and offers ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship. This fully revised edition also includes new guidance on how to manage disagreements, as well as new exercises to help you create a sense of safety and security, establish healthy conflict ground rules, and deal with the threat of the third—any outside source which threatens the harmony in your relationship, including in-laws, alcohol, children, and affairs.
By using simple gestures and words, you'll learn to put out emotional fires and help your partner feel appreciated and loved. You'll also discover how to move past a "warring brain" mentality and toward a more cooperative "loving brain." Most importantly, you'll gain a better understanding of the complex dynamics at work behind love and trust in intimate relationships.
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Is it possible to find love again after a breakup, death, or divorce? At the end of a relationship, it can sometimes feel like the end of the world. Devastation, loneliness, and bitterness are some emotions that exist due to a breakup, a divorce, or the loss of a loved one. But in this compassionate guide, Dr. John Gray expresses that you will survive and tells you how to find love again.
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everyone should read
- By Nicole Smythe on 03-06-18
By: John Gray
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Relationship Rx
- By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Length: 8 hrs and 28 mins
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Why do couples fight? With Relationship Rx, renowned psychotherapist Stan Tatkin offers couples in crisis a prescription for understanding the deeper issues underlying their conflicts. Drawing from his Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT), Tatkin unpacks common causes of relationship challenges with humor and compassion. Filled with practical tools, insightful commentary on sample conflict dialogues, and an in-depth exploration of what really makes for a secure relationship, this program will help couples restore and sustain the love that brought them together.
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Excellently balanced for both the avid learner, unsuspecting dunce
- By James B. on 07-18-18
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Loving an Avoidant Partner
- Understand Dismissive Attachment Style to Bridge Emotional Distance and Create a Secure Relationship
- By: Krista Cantell
- Narrated by: Jennifer Perez
- Length: 4 hrs and 46 mins
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Introducing "Loving an Avoidant Partner," a groundbreaking guide that takes you deep into the enigmatic maze of an avoidant person's inner world like never before. Armed with remarkable insights, you'll decode the guarded secrets and fears of your elusive partner, shattering the barriers that have kept you apart.
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nothing new
- By Dr. P. R. Carnley on 07-06-25
By: Krista Cantell
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The 5 Apology Languages
- The Secret to Healthy Relationships
- By: Gary Chapman, Jennifer Thomas
- Narrated by: Bill A. Jones, Jenna Rose Stein
- Length: 4 hrs and 42 mins
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Even in the best of relationships, we mess up. We say and do things we deeply regret later on. So we need to make things right. But just saying you’re sorry isn’t enough. That’s only the first step on the road to restoration. In The 5 Apology Languages, Gary Chapman, the number one New York Times best-selling author of the 5 Love Languages®, partners with Jennifer Thomas to help you on the journey toward restored relationships.
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Duplicate of previous title
- By Mike on 11-04-24
By: Gary Chapman, and others
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The Psychology of Human Sexuality
- By: Justin J. Lehmiller
- Narrated by: Daniel Henning
- Length: 24 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
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The Psychology of Human Sexuality is a comprehensive guide to major theoretical perspectives on human sexuality and the vast diversity of sexual attitudes around the world, with topics including anatomy, gender and sexual orientation, sexual behaviors, sexual difficulties and solutions, sex work, and pornography. Written from a sex-positive perspective with material that is inclusive and respectful of a diverse audience, the text includes cutting edge research on the origins of sexual orientation and gender identity, as well as new treatments for sexually transmitted infections and diseases.
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Exceptionally Comprehensive!
- By Robert Cooper on 08-17-24
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Emotional Inheritance
- A Therapist, Her Patients, and the Legacy of Trauma
- By: Galit Atlas
- Narrated by: Galit Atlas
- Length: 9 hrs and 3 mins
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The people we love and those who raised us live inside us; we experience their emotional pain, we dream their memories, and these things shape our lives in ways we don’t always recognize. Emotional Inheritance is about family secrets that keep us from living to our full potential, create gaps between what we want for ourselves and what we are able to have, and haunt us like ghosts.
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Underwhelmed
- By (((((((0))))))) on 05-12-22
By: Galit Atlas
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Vertical Marriage
- The One Secret That Will Change Your Marriage
- By: John Driver - contributor, Dennis Rainey - foreword, Barbara Rainey - foreword, and others
- Narrated by: Ann Wilson, Dave Wilson, Dennis Rainey
- Length: 6 hrs and 41 mins
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As founders of a multicampus church and marriage coaches with 30 years of experience, Dave and Ann share the hard-earned but easy-to-apply biblical principles that ensure a strong marriage. Written in a funny and highly relatable dialogue between both husband and wife, Vertical Marriage will guide you toward building a vibrant relationship at every level including communication, conflict, intimacy, and romance - though Dave is still figuring that last one out.
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Learned so much!
- By Linda Sue on 02-07-19
By: John Driver - contributor, and others
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The Morning Mind
- Use Your Brain to Master Your Day and Supercharge Your Life
- By: Dr. Rob Carter III, Kirti Salwe Carter MBBS MPH
- Narrated by: Wayne Campbell
- Length: 5 hrs and 48 mins
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Unleash positive thinking and productive imagination and flip negative thoughts and behaviors into a lifetime to improve every aspect of your life - each morning, one day at a time.
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Just Brillant Love structural positive examples
- By Carter R on 01-22-19
By: Dr. Rob Carter III, and others
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People Fuel
- Fill Your Tank for Life, Love, and Leadership
- By: John Townsend
- Narrated by: John Townsend
- Length: 6 hrs and 14 mins
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We all need more energy, the vitality that helps us stay motivated, focused and productive in life. We know we receive energy from good nutrition, along with working out, adequate sleep and maintaining positivity. But there is another major source for the energy we need: having the right kinds of relationships with others. Not the ones that drain us, but the ones that refuel us.
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Started off great - then it got religious
- By Amazon Customer on 08-05-19
By: John Townsend
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Transcending Trauma
- Healing Complex PTSD with Internal Family Systems Therapy
- By: Frank G. Anderson
- Narrated by: Brian Arens
- Length: 8 hrs and 26 mins
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Hope and light are on the horizon to help clients overcome the challenges of healing and releasing the pain of relational trauma. The highly acclaimed Transcending Trauma explores a unique, compassionate, and evidence-based approach to resolving complex and dissociative trauma. In this transformative audiobook, Frank Anderson, MD, masterfully details an IFS path to therapy that allows clients to access their inherent capacity for healing — called self-energy — while also helping them welcome, as opposed to manage, the extreme emotions frequently associated with trauma.
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Highly Recommend
- By Summer Peterson on 02-28-22
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Do the Hard Things First
- How to Win Over Procrastination and Master the Habit of Doing Difficult Work (Bulletproof Mindset Mastery Series)
- By: Scott Allan
- Narrated by: Joe Hempel
- Length: 5 hrs and 11 mins
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Are you living in chaos because you keep putting off important tasks until the last minute? Do you feel disorganized at home and at work? Are you experiencing feelings of anxiety, frustration, and helplessness because of all your unfinished projects? If so, it's time to break the procrastination habit and rewire your difficult work habits.
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I feel attacked! lol
- By Alexis B on 03-24-22
By: Scott Allan
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Healing for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
- Increase Resilience, Nurture Healthy Relationships, and Reclaim Your True Self
- By: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrated by: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Length: 5 hrs and 42 mins
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If you grew up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent, you may have lingering feelings of anger, loneliness, betrayal, or abandonment. This breakthrough audio course was created to help you revive your self-confidence and sense of self, value your own needs, and move forward in your life. Your instructor, Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD, has dedicated her professional life to helping adult children of emotionally immature parents (ACEIPs). She speaks to you from the heart with a warm, empathetic tone as she takes you on a journey of self-discovery and transformation.
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Good contents, but not actually a book per se
- By Eric Tivers on 06-12-25
I encourage anyone who is suffering from conflict, no matter how small or big, to take the time to read, or listen to, this book.
This is not a self-help book. This is a book that shares years of experience by a mental health provider on couples issues whether they be straight or gay young or old. my only regret, is that I did not find this decades ago.
I can only hope with the tools that I've learned here that I can make endroads to remedy what is wrong in my life.
This book brought into focus the inadequacies I had as a husband of 37 years.
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Good stuff
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The helpful tips to working things out with my partner and understanding why we do what we do and how to try and correct it.
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Worth every minute
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Great relationship tool
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Really helpful book
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The incredibly precise insight and advice.
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