You Can Change Other People
The Four Steps to Help Your Colleagues, Employees Even Family Up Their Game
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Peter Bregman
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Discover how to change the lives of the people around you
In You Can Change Other People, the world's number-one executive coach, Peter Bregman, and Howie Jacobson, PhD, share the Four Steps to help the people around you make positive change - even if they've been stuck for years.
The authors rely on over 50 years of collective professional experience to show you exactly what to say to influence those around you for the better. Changing the way you talk will stop you from being perceived as a critic, and turn you into a welcomed and effective ally. You'll learn how to:
- Disarm their defensiveness and increase their confidence to act
- Turn people's biggest problems into even bigger opportunities
- Ensure accountability and follow through without making them dependent on you
No one wants to be changed, but change and personal growth are critical to success, and more importantly, to a fulfilled life. You Can Change Other People is a must-listen for those who want to improve their impact with coworkers, family members, and everyone in between.
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- Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High
- By: Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and others
- Narrated by: Anna Fields
- Length: 4 hrs and 17 mins
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When stakes are high, opinions vary, and emotions run strong, you have three choices: avoid a crucial conversation and suffer the consequences; handle the conversation badly and suffer the consequences; or check out Crucial Conversations and discover how to communicate best when it matters most. Crucial Conversations gives you the tools you need to step up to life's most difficult and important conversations, say what's on your mind, and achieve the positive resolutions you want.
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Probably the worste nagging sounding narrator
- By Alexander on 09-27-21
By: Kerry Patterson, and others
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What Do You Really Want for Your Children?
- By: Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
- Narrated by: Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
- Length: 4 hrs and 12 mins
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Questioning thousands of parents and educators, Dr. Wayne Dyer learned firsthand what people really want for their children. They don't particularly want their kids to go to fancy schools, acquire riches, or live "the good life". They do want them to have personal integrity and high self-esteem, and to grow up with love and peace in their hearts. Children raised the Wayne Dyer way feel useful and needed. They are inner- rather than outer-directed. They live a stress-free life naturally, without resorting to drugs.
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Deaply helpful
- By Dominique on 04-28-15
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Managers as Mentors
- Building Partnerships for Learning (Third Edition)
- By: Chip R. Bell, Marshall Goldsmith
- Narrated by: Mark Peckham
- Length: 6 hrs and 34 mins
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Managers as Mentors is a rapid-fire listen and a provocative guide to helping associates grow and adapt in today’s tumultuous organizations. This new edition has been thoroughly revised and updated. As with previous editions there is a fictional case study of a mentor-protégé relationship running through the book, but this is augmented with six actual case studies of top CEOs who relate key mentoring experiences in their lives. This hands-on guide takes the mystery out of effective mentoring.
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Great tips and tools on mentoring
- By Hello on 01-14-23
By: Chip R. Bell, and others
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More Than a Boss
- Six Indispensable Leadership Tools For First-Time Managers
- By: Nick Brzozowski
- Narrated by: Joe Scalora
- Length: 3 hrs and 39 mins
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This is an audiobook about the basics. I won’t tell you how to become CEO or double your salary, but if your hope is to become the boss that you would have wanted, this is the audiobook for you.
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Wasn’t expecting a DEI push in this book but yet there it is in chapter 2. I will not be finishing it.
- By Jake Beard on 10-27-24
By: Nick Brzozowski
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Necessary Endings
- The Employees, Businesses, and Relationships That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Move Forward
- By: Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: Henry Cloud
- Length: 7 hrs and 15 mins
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While endings are a natural part of business and life, we often experience them with a sense of hesitation, sadness, resignation, or regret. But consultant, psychologist, and bestselling author Dr. Henry Cloud sees endings differently. He argues that our personal and professional lives can only improve to the degree that we can see endings as a necessary and strategic step to something better.
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A Good One
- By Philips Adeniyi on 03-26-12
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Die Empty
- Unleash Your Best Work Every Day
- By: Todd Henry
- Narrated by: Todd Henry
- Length: 5 hrs and 30 mins
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Most of us live with the stubborn idea that we'll always have tomorrow to do our most important and valuable work. We fill our days with frantic activity, bouncing from task to task, scrambling to make deadlines and chase the next promotion. But by the end of each day we're often left asking ourselves "did the work I do today really matter?" We feel the ticking of the clock, but we're stuck in first gear, unsure of the path forward and without a road map to guide us.
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Deeeeep sigh. And a tired one at that.
- By Oliver Nielsen on 12-25-13
By: Todd Henry
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Bring Your Whole Self to Work
- How Vulnerability Unlocks Creativity, Connection, and Performance
- By: Mike Robbins
- Narrated by: Mike Robbins
- Length: 5 hrs and 34 mins
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In today’s work environment, the lines between our professional and personal lives are blurred more than ever before. Whatever is happening to us outside of our workplace - whether stressful, painful, or joyful - follows us into work as well. We may think we have to keep these realities under wraps and act as if we “have it all together”. But as Mike Robbins explains, we can work better, lead better, and be more engaged and fulfilled if - instead of trying to hide who we are- we show up fully and authentically.
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Great insight! Be Real With Yourself & Others.
- By Mervin Brown on 02-14-19
By: Mike Robbins
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Power Listening
- Mastering the Most Critical Business Skill of All
- By: Bernard T Ferrari
- Narrated by: Sean Pratt
- Length: 5 hrs and 36 mins
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Listening is harder than it looks - but it's the difference between business success and failure. Nothing causes bad decisions in organizations as often as poor listening. But Bernard Ferrari, adviser to some of the nation's most influential executives, believes that such missteps can be avoided and that the skills and habits of good listening can be developed and mastered. He offers a step-by-step process that will help you become an active listener, able to shape and focus any conversation.
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Better listening made easy
- By Alejandro A. on 09-07-12
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The Myth of the Nice Girl
- Achieving a Career You Love Without Becoming a Person You Hate
- By: Fran Hauser, Jodi Lipper
- Narrated by: Fran Hauser
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
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In The Myth of the Nice Girl, Fran Hauser deconstructs the negative perception of "niceness" that many women struggle with in the business world. If women are nice, they are seen as weak and ineffective, but if they are tough, they are labeled a bitch. Hauser proves that women don't have to sacrifice their values or hide their authentic personalities to be successful.
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- By Cindy blunt on 12-04-18
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How Did That Happen?
- Holding People Accountable for Results the Positive, Principled Way
- By: Roger Connors, Tom Smith
- Narrated by: Lloyd James
- Length: 9 hrs and 53 mins
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Drawing on case studies, many from client companies, the authors show how to establish clear expectations and manage the unmet expectations that inevitably occur. And they offer a positive, principled way that engages hearts and minds. This book can help people at every level---from senior executives to front-line workers---enjoy greater productivity, profitability, and job satisfaction.
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HELP - How Can I Get The Lost Hours Back ?
- By Mike on 09-23-09
By: Roger Connors, and others
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- Anonymous User
- 10-13-21
great book, thank you!
Very enjoyable and helpful. A lot of information so, I will have to listen to it a couple of times, at least, as well as take notes.
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- A. Wilkes
- 08-01-22
Most Helpful Audio I’ve Ever Listened To
Don’t judge a book by its title! I think the title is unfortunate, because I think it will turn a lot of people off. It would have turned me away except for Howie’s interview on Rip Esselstyn’s podcast. When I tell people I am reading it (of course I don’t mention the subtitle, who does?) they look at me like there is something wrong with me. Haha. All that said, fantastic info. I bought the hard copy book and have my husband on board to read it with me.
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- Prakash
- 10-08-21
Great book! Practical and easily to action immediately
This book is one of the most impactful ones I have read. Peter and Howie do an amazing job of taking a complex topic, and not only simplifying it, but really making it practical. What I love about this book is that the authors do a masterful job of balancing deeply understanding peoples' emotions with providing actionable guidance that can help you to build the muscle to really understand others and enroll them in change. Highly recommend you to get this book and really practice the wisdom in it.
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- Daisy K
- 01-26-23
Healthy Conversations!
This is so well written and executed! Simple enough, laid out explanatory lists of questions and procedures that almost anyone can follow.
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Been looking for a book like this for a while
I’ve been looking for a book like this for a while it magically appeared.
The big aha (spoiler alert) is the subtle difference around change - the pivotal point being when they are ready / want to change.
This small but key point would change the entire dynamic and I am so grateful for the authors to write and publish this key point
I am sure it will make a huge difference and I can’t wait to try it out
Additionally the framework steps outlined in the book I look forward to seeing and trying them in action
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- Matt
- 01-12-22
Practical dos and don’ts for change partners
I enjoyed the practical perspectives and the threads of dialog with optional realistic pathways, and the reasons why they would or would not work. Recommended for any change leaders and professional coaches.
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- Nayyer
- 10-30-22
Doable!
Loved the book. Very practical and full of doable dialogs!
Thanks for enlightening the readers!
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- Ubaldo Luna
- 06-29-23
A must!
This is a must have for anyone looking to help, lead or coach other people to achieve realistic goals.
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- Anonymous User
- 03-16-23
Too repetitive
Wanted examples for relationships and family, but they just used the same work example over and over again
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