
You Don't Have to Learn Everything the Hard Way
What I Wish Someone Had Told Me
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Erin deWard
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Aunt Laya Saul
About this listen
You Don't Have to Learn Everything the Hard Way covers a lot of topics that teens need and want to learn about, from sensitive areas like sexual abuse, pain, and hard times, to issues like understanding how to deal with peer pressure and making the right choice about drugs. These are the topics that teens asked Aunt Laya to write about. They also asked for inspiration and ideas about goals, life changes, and sex.
Laya Saul does not shy away from any topic that can empower a young adult. She gives teens the tools to meet life's trials head-on! Like a favorite aunt, Laya Saul encourages her listeners to use challenges as stepping-stones. Although it was written with teens in mind, the book is finding its way into the hands of listeners spanning generations! The wisdom is practical, timeless, and helpful. Each chapter is written in bite-sized portions and packed with ideas, stories, quotes, and questions for introspection.
Inspiring, motivating, comforting, and helpful, You Don't Have to Learn Everything the Hard Way is sought after by teens and the adults in their lives who want them to succeed. It is a great gift to be tucked under the pillow of your favorite teen, or enjoyed together to open discussions or bond. This book has become a beloved reference to return to over and over.
Contains mature themes.
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