
I Wish I Knew This Before My Divorce
Ending the Battle Between Holding On and Letting Go
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About this listen
I wrote this book after 25 years of working with military couples in various stages of divorce. As a psychologist, the pressure was always on to find ways to help patients embrace the suck of separation and make tracks for firm ground.
In the military, you learn to adapt to pain and grow from it. During boot camp, pain teaches you to believe in yourself. Survival training uses pain to teach problem-solving. But how do you thrive when faced with the mother of all pain - an unwanted divorce? Has anyone developed training for that?
We have.
My husband, Joe Foster (best-selling author of In Movement There Is Peace) and I have collected hundreds of therapy cases where one person wanted a divorce and the other didn’t. To make it into this audiobook, the strategies had to prove successful in real people’s lives to create radical change. The result is an indispensable survival guide for people who don’t want to divorce and don’t know what to do about it.
Using true-life stories and daily practices, you’ll discover:
- Why your relationship slammed into a brick wall and what you can do about it
- The truth about what your spouse is really running away from (hint: it’s not you)
- What happened to your husband/wife and who that stranger is that’s posing as them
- Secrets to radical acceptance that help you stay in control no matter what your spouse throws at you
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2017 Elaine Orabona Foster (P)2018 Elaine Orabona FosterListeners also enjoyed...
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Gives you much to think about
- By Nadia on 06-07-10
By: Mira Kirshenbaum
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Better Apart
- The Radically Positive Way to Separate
- By: Gabrielle Hartley, Elena Brower
- Narrated by: Karen White
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
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While many of us may be better together, some of us can actually become better apart. What if you emerged from your divorce stronger and more resilient than ever before? Better Apart is the first book to apply the life-changing, healing wisdom of meditation and yoga, combined with practical advice, to help anyone going through the painful and seemingly intractable realities of divorce. Gabrielle Hartley and Elena Brower are warm and caring guides who can help you compassionately part from your partner.
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Like the book, hate the narrator
- By NicoleQ on 10-14-20
By: Gabrielle Hartley, and others
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If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late
- A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Staying Together
- By: James J. Sexton
- Narrated by: James J. Sexton
- Length: 8 hrs and 17 mins
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If You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late. James Sexton knows this. After dealing with over 1000 clients whose marriages have dissolved over everything from an ill-advised threesome with the nanny to the uneven division of carpool duties, he also knows all of the what- not-to-dos for couples who want to build - and consistently work to preserve - a lasting, fulfilling relationship. Described by former clients as a "courtroom gunslinger" and "the sociopath you want on your side", Sexton tells the unvarnished truth about relationships. These usually derive from dishonest communication.
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Mind blowing
- By Hollan Hawaii on 04-17-18
By: James J. Sexton
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Divorcing a Narcissist
- The Lure, the Loss, and the Law
- By: Supriya McKenna, Karin Walker
- Narrated by: Supriya McKenna
- Length: 13 hrs and 59 mins
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Separating or divorcing a narcissist or someone who has narcissistic traits can be a difficult, draining experience. This book is written for the spouse of such a personality to support them step by step through the legal process, as well as through the difficult emotional journey that they'll be undertaking. It will help you recognize narcissistic behavior, prime you on what challenges lie ahead, and provide practical insights on how to survive the process. It will also help you work with your lawyer so you can both understand the potential pitfalls.
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Excellent!
- By Roxanne F on 01-13-23
By: Supriya McKenna, and others
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The 10 Stupidest Mistakes Men Make When Facing Divorce
- And How to Avoid Them
- By: Joseph Cordell Esq.
- Narrated by: John McLain
- Length: 7 hrs and 14 mins
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Joseph Cordell, the founder of the nation's largest law firm focusing on men's divorce and the creator of DadsDivorce.com, has seen the consequences of the mistakes men make. Drawing upon the huge number of cases that Cordell & Cordell has handled, this book identifies the 10 most common mistakes that end up hurting men in divorce. Cordell demystifies the divorce process, explains what judges consider in making their final decisions, and lays out a road map for positive actions men can take to achieve the best possible outcome.
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Great book but not for Men in Gray Divorced
- By Phil on 12-03-19
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This Is Me Letting You Go
- By: Heidi Priebe
- Narrated by: Devon Sorvari
- Length: 2 hrs and 42 mins
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Letting go is not a process that comes naturally to us. In a world that teaches us to cling to what we love at all costs, there is an undeniable art to moving on - and it's one that we are constantly relearning. In this series of honest and poignant essays, Heidi Priebe explores the harsh reality of what it means to let go of the people and situations we love most - often before we are ready to - and how to embrace what comes next.
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Not for me
- By VMar on 06-16-19
By: Heidi Priebe
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Divorce for Dummies
- 3rd Edition
- By: John Ventura, Mary Reed
- Narrated by: Susan Hanfield
- Length: 16 hrs and 36 mins
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Getting divorced is almost never easy, but this practical, plain-English guide helps you get through the proceedings with a minimum of stress and expense. It shows you the latest changes in collaborative divorces, common law, and same-sex marriages, and even custody law - and how to work out the terms so you can begin building a fulfilling post-divorce life.
By: John Ventura, and others
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The Art of Letting Go
- By: Rania Naim, Skyla Child, Marisa Bagnato, and others
- Narrated by: Tanya Eby
- Length: 1 hr and 36 mins
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We often struggle to let some people go, especially when they made that decision. We question the universe, we question ourselves, and we question everyone around us but we never truly get our answers. Letting someone go takes time, patience, and commitment to actively stop ourselves from relapsing and thinking about that person again. The Art of Letting Go helps you understand why, how, and when you should let someone go so you can move on and never look back.
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Robotic voice-painful
- By Jessica Heizman on 01-14-21
By: Rania Naim, and others
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Rebuilding
- When Your Relationship Ends
- By: Bruce Fisher EdD, Robert Alberti PhD
- Narrated by: Joel Richards
- Length: 11 hrs and 5 mins
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If you are going through a painful breakup or divorce, you may feel like the life you once knew is crashing down around you. You need help to gather the pieces and "rebuild" yourself from the ground up. Rebuilding features Bruce Fisher's "divorce process rebuilding blocks", a proven-effective 19-step process for putting one's life back together after divorce.
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Amazing!
- By Sam Brothers on 10-11-17
By: Bruce Fisher EdD, and others
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Divorce for Men
- A Guide to Creating a Great Life After Divorce
- By: Karen Stewart
- Narrated by: Gina Rogers
- Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
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This guide to life after divorce for men will provide you a step-by-step, “how to” road map to help you with divorce and kids, divorce and finances, and the tools to lay the foundation for a great life. Maybe you have been left feeling confused and helpless after going through the process of a divorce, and you are not sure how to restart your life as a single man?
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Amazing listen, very informative
- By Anonymous User on 10-19-21
By: Karen Stewart
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Splitting, Second Edition
- Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- By: Bill Eddy LCSW JD, Randi Kreger
- Narrated by: Christopher Grove
- Length: 8 hrs and 16 mins
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Splitting is an essential legal and psychological guide for anyone divorcing a persuasive blamer: someone who suffers from borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and/or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). This second edition includes new information about antisocial personalities; expanded information about domestic violence, child abuse, alienation, and false allegations; how to approach protective orders and deal with child custody disputes; and a new chapter on how to successfully present your case to decision makers.
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Must read!
- By tara on 01-11-22
By: Bill Eddy LCSW JD, and others
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Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency 4 Books in 1
- Empath and Narcissist, Co-Parenting After Divorce, Covert Narcissism, Break Free from Toxic Relationships and Manipulation
- By: Mia Warren
- Narrated by: Robyn Green, J.L Berndt, Georgeann Haynes
- Length: 13 hrs and 8 mins
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Have you ever pondered what it is about narcissists that makes them so irresistibly attractive? Do you find yourself questioning your reality, crushed by emotional manipulation and gaslighting? Delve into this transformative four-book collection designed to guide empaths desiring liberation, survivors of narcissistic abuse on the path to recovery, and those seeking to unravel the tangled web of toxic relationships. This comprehensive guide provides the tools you need to tackle gaslighting, codependency, and emotional abuse head-on.
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Made me cry!
- By Tanya Dencklau on 03-06-25
By: Mia Warren
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Moms Moving On
- Real Life Advice on Conquering Divorce, Co-Parenting Through Conflict, and Becoming Your Best Self
- By: Michelle Dempsey-Multack MS CDS
- Narrated by: Michelle Dempsey-Multack MS CDS
- Length: 6 hrs and 44 mins
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We hear it all the time on the news. The divorce rates are rising. More children are being raised in split homes. But you didn’t think it would happen to you. Luckily, you’re not alone. Popular divorce coach Michelle Dempsey-Multack not only survived her own divorce but figured out how to move on with her life, just like you will, too. Now happily remarried with a blended family, she’s living proof that no matter which “firsts” you might be experiencing as you end your marriage, your best days are ahead.
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Mostly common sense & limited applicability
- By Katie C. on 09-09-23
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Should I Stay or Should I Go?
- A Guide to Knowing If Your Relationship Can - and Should - Be Saved
- By: Lundy Bancroft, JAC Patrissi
- Narrated by: Stephen R. Thorne
- Length: 13 hrs and 51 mins
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In this supportive and straightforward guide, Lundy Bancroft, the author of Why Does He Do That?, and communication specialist JAC Patrissi offer a way for women to practically take stock of their relationships and move forward, with or without their partners.
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Paradigm Shift
- By Sydnee Adams-Hancock on 04-08-16
By: Lundy Bancroft, and others
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- Nora Ann Bear Weber
- 04-19-21
DO IT YOU NEED IT
This book is EVERYTHING you need if you have just been left by your spouse. I have listened to it 4 times. It brings me back down to earth when I'm angry or sad. it has helped me not hate my husband and given me hope for myself either way. The reader is also great. his cadence is really good and calming
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- D. Slivs
- 08-26-21
Really good!
This book hits all the highs and lows of divorce and provides some great advice for dealing with it all.
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- lindsay larson
- 12-23-24
A great balanced viewpoint
I liked how this book gave insight on how both sides feel in a divorce. It was very digestible and offered a broader perspective.
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- KG
- 08-27-19
life saving
This is the best mindfulness book for those separated and divorced. The book teaches you how to control what you can, and how to find oneself again. I've listened to it over and over.
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- Tiffany
- 01-19-23
The best book I will read in 2023!
If you need advise for marriage, this book will help you get to answers to some of the questions your trying to answer for yourself.
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- Pura Vida Tribe 🌺
- 06-25-23
Very comforting
This has been encouraging in so many ways during the dark night of my soul.
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- Monica
- 08-19-20
A huge help!
This was fantastic for anyone going through a divorce, but especially those of us who are older. I’m gained a lot of insight and learned a lot about moving forward. I am now listening to it for the second time!
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- Morton
- 11-03-20
If considering, get it
This book is very helpful and useful. Highly recommend if you find yourself in this boat now.
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- curt dettman
- 09-24-24
lifesaver
Spot on and direct examples that can be applied and help an average person with this type of pain and suffering.
Your specific scenario differences can all be evaluated and reconciled through the methods and techniques given.
Using the workbook is a must to your introspective work and understanding - workbook is simple to download.
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- Alicia Mark
- 12-31-24
Worth my time👍🏽
I didn’t know what to expect but this was incredibly helpful and entertaining. I don’t think anyone on the verge of divorce will regret the time they take to go through this book.
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