Overcoming Codependency

If your life has been affected by addiction (yours or someone else's), abuse, trauma or toxic shaming, you may also be struggling with another invisible problem - codependency. Without your even being aware of the connection to the above issues, it has created additional life-long challenges such as endless guilt, anxiety, perfectionism, need to control, depression, a history of dysfunctional relationships and much more. This easy-to-understand, interactive book will reveal how codependency has sobotaged you, the lies it created in your beliefs and the truths that expose them.

Do you ever feel neglected and used when your efforts aren't acknowledged?You try your best to fix other people's problems with everything you have, whether it's your time, money, or resources, because you've been doing it your whole life, and you're used to it. You hardly say no to helping people because if you do, you feel incredibly guilty, and you don't want to "lose their love". You're always coming to the rescue, and you sacrifice yourself over and over again. Codependency is the "need to be needed". It's needing other people to need you.

Recovery from codependency starts here!… Licensed Clinical Social worker Hayley Kaplan understands codependency firsthand. In this workbook, she shares heartfelt, insightful excerpts from her memoir to assist others in their healing journeys. Each chapter is aimed at increasing your understanding, so you recognize that codependency, like other behaviors, is learned—and therefore can be changed. You’ll work towards building confidence and creating new, healthier habits through self-reflection exercises that will help you detect dysfunctional patterns and correct any maladaptive ...

If you're constantly feeling on edge, forever working to appease your spouse to little avail and feel like you're constantly being chipped away at with their abusive behavior, then I can understand how emotionally shattering it feels to live this way. If, in the same breath, it breaks your heart to even consider leaving them because you can't imagine life without them, then I can understand that feeling too - because I was trauma bonded to my abusive ex.

Written by Devin Blue, The Codependent Relationship takes the entire process of web entanglement and breaks it down to the very core; and then goes below the roots to expose the real foundation of how, why, where it all started, and what the processes are to finally remove it by helping yourself. The only way true self-help can be accomplished is to have a profound understanding of what it is that's causing the problems, obtaining the specific tools after identification, and finally implementing those customized tools to tackle the issue at its heart.

In this revised and updated edition of the original, groundbreaking book Overcoming Perfectionism: The Key to a Balanced Recovery, Smith describes the key differences between overt and covert perfectionism; the role early attachment, temperament, sibling relationships, and life circumstances play in developing this pattern; and how to shift toward a center of balance for a more fulfilling life.

1 in every 5 people struggle with crippling fear and anxiety in relationships. But with recent research into anxious attachment, there is new hope for a happier future. Have you been labeled needy, clingy, or demanding by a partner? Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells, questioning every word and action in your closest relationships? Do you find yourself constantly making the same dating or relationship mistakes over and over, wondering if you’re doomed to constantly struggle in relationships? These are all clear signs that you have an anxious attachment style.

La creciente demanda y dependencia de las sustancias que alteran el estado de animo es uno de los males mas alarmantes de nuestros tiempos. Desarrollamos adicciones de todo tipo: comida, alcohol, cafe, cigarro, medicinas, drogas, e incluso al trabajo y a las relaciones negativas. En este audiolibro el doctor Chopra nos ofrece una perspectiva diferente de las adicciones y un programa para reemplazar comportamientos adictivos por dicha y plenitud espiritual.

As a clinical psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients—and for herself—she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical and spiritual wellness that equips people with the interdisciplinary tools necessary to heal themselves. After experiencing the life-changing results herself, she began to share what she'd learned with others—and soon "The Holistic Psychologist" was born. Now, Dr. LePera is ready to share her much-requested protocol with the world.

If you find yourself constantly replaying negative thoughts and seeking clarity, this collection will guide you in transforming those spirals into a path of empowerment and growth Ever feel like your brain just won't shut up? Like you're stuck on a hamster wheel of worry and stress? If you're tired of second-guessing everything, and struggling to find peace, then How to Stop Overthinking is here to help. Imagine finally breaking free from your own thoughts, and overcoming your doubts and fears, so you can create a life you deserve. Bestselling author Layla Moon will help you achieve just ...

Jackson MacKenzie has helped millions of people in their struggle to understand the experience of toxic relationships. His first book, Psychopath Free, explained how to identify and survive the immediate situation. In this highly anticipated new audiobook, he guides listeners on what to do next - how to fully heal from abuse in order to find love and acceptance for the self and others. MacKenzie shares insights and tools for working through the protective self we've developed so that we can finally move on to live a full and authentic life.

Transform your avoidance into lasting affection in just 30 days – without losing your independence. Do you struggle to connect emotionally with others, fearing vulnerability and deeper intimacy? Are you constantly battling the urge to withdraw from relationships to protect yourself from potential pain? Do you yearn for healthy, secure relationships but don’t know where to start? If you nodded your head to any of these questions, know that you’re not alone.

For anyone struggling to break the cycle of addiction comes the groundbreaking approach from The Chopra Center, the world-renowned facility that has successfully helped thousands of people change their lives for the better. Chopra Center cofounder and medical director David Simon, M.D., and best-selling author and personal-growth expert Deepak Chopra outline their revolutionary approach - one that defies outmoded beliefs about recovery, particularly that people 'are' their addictions or that they are powerless to control them.

If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to a loved one's self-destructive behaviour, you may be codependent – and you may find yourself in this audiobook. A cultural phenomenon that has helped heal millions of readers, this modern classic holds the key to understanding codependency and unlocking its hold on your life.

In Addiction to Love, recovering love addict Susan Peabody explains the variety of ways this disorder plays out, from the obsessively doting love addict to the addict who can't disentangle from an unfulfilling, dead-end relationship. Peabody provides an in-depth and easy-to-follow recovery program for those suffering from this unhealthy and often dangerous addiction and explains how to create a loving, safe, and fulfilling relationship.

Most people give so much importance to their relationships, whether it's with their family, significant other, friends, or co-workers. Relationships bring people either the greatest joys or the greatest challenges in their lives. One of the greatest challenges in any relationship is codependency - that feeling of not being able to exist without the other person. Most romantic relationships fall prey to this kind of challenge. In most relationships, one's existence and validation is needed for the other person to feel happy and complete.

Love Without Growth: Overcoming Codependent Patterns and Escaping Unhealthy Relationships to Become a Better You is your transformative guide to finding self-love, setting healthy boundaries, and fostering meaningful, balanced relationships.

Hurtful criticism. Nasty "jokes". Angry outbursts for seemingly no reason. Verbal attacks toward your innocent comments. Stone-cold silent treatment. Manipulative actions to ensure you don't know if you're coming or going. Sound familiar? The phrase to summarize the above abhorrent treatment is narcissistic rage. The words "narcissistic" and "rage" are bad enough by themselves. When you merge them together, it becomes a force to be reckoned with; a volatile tornado that can emotionally destroy anything that dares enter its path.

In order to overcome a narcissistic relationship, there are two ways out: Be discarded for the final time from the narcissist, or go no contact and cut yourself away from your abuser. Neither option is pretty, and I can’t deny that both are painful. However, when you claim back your power by making the decision to go no contact, you give yourself the ability to leave the relationship with dignity, newfound self-respect, and the makings of a solid foundation to build your future on.