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Lessons from the New Science of Adolescence
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Malcolm Hillgartner
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A leading authority draws on new research to explain why the adolescent years are so developmentally crucial, and what we must do to raise happier, more successful kids.
Adolescence now lasts longer than ever before. And as world-renowned expert on adolescent psychology Dr. Laurence Steinberg argues, this makes these years the key period in determining individuals’ life outcomes, demanding that we change the way we parent, educate, and understand young people.
In Age of Opportunity, Steinberg leads listeners through a host of new findings - including groundbreaking original research - that reveal what the new timetable of adolescence means for parenting 13-year-olds (who may look more mature than they really are) versus 20-somethings (who may not be floundering even when it looks like they are). He also explains how the plasticity of the adolescent brain, rivaling that of years 0 through 3, suggests new strategies for instilling self-control during the teenage years. Packed with useful knowledge, Age of Opportunity is a sweeping book in the tradition of Reviving Ophelia, and an essential guide for parents and educators of teenagers.
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What made the experience of listening to Age of Opportunity the most enjoyable?
What a refreshing perspective on adolescence! The advances in neuroscience as explained by Dr Steinberg, have given us a new understanding of how our brains develop, which is fascinating in itself, but the development of the brain during adolescence in particular, explains why it is such a perilous but exciting time in our lives - why it is truly the age of opportunity. As someone on the brink of teen parenting this book was illuminating, invigorating - adolescents are on full throttle and brakes dont work - and liberating: like being handed a compass when you're lost. Highly recommended.The neuroscience guide to teen parenting
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A must-read for all parents of teens/pre-teens
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No problems with the book or content
Mislabeled
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Loved the scientific information which has been explained with lots of common sense.He has given the best scientific advice for parents,teachers and policy makers and policy enforcers.
Only spirituality (not religion)is missing which can help adolescents in self regulation.The book is read and presented in a very good manner.
Accurate insight into adolescent behavior.
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Would you listen to Age of Opportunity again? Why?
Gave me invaluable information about my teenager's brain and abilities.What other book might you compare Age of Opportunity to and why?
Like nothing I have ever read.Have you listened to any of Malcolm Hillgartner’s other performances before? How does this one compare?
This is the only one by this author I have read, but he is clearly an expert in his field.Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?
The author offers anectdotal stories that are so common to what we hear happening to teenagers everywhere and serve to prove his findings.Any additional comments?
This book helped me to understand the maturation process of my teenager and how to encourage him correctly.Important info for parents
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I especially appreciate the author pointing out our legal and socially inconsistent rules for the adolescent age group.
I liked it.
Actual probs & solutions concisely put together
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3rd time reading
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What made the experience of listening to Age of Opportunity the most enjoyable?
I work with adolescents in schools and Dr. Sternberg's book has been very helpful in understanding the range of issues they are dealing with. The neuroscience and the emerging humanity of kids.What was one of the most memorable moments of Age of Opportunity?
Dr. Sternberg tells stories, including of those closest to him, that explain the perils and opportunities of adolescence. One was about his own child, Ben. I won't spoil it. Get this book.if you think you know, think again
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Excellent work
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This book has made me better at understanding and engaging youth/young adults, a better leader, and a better father and uncle. I highly recommend this book for everyone and especially those who work with the 10-25 year old population in any setting.
This book gives you the research behind issues for our young people, brain development, and directions on how to minimize risks and increase protective factors. Great read!
Must Read for Parents, Educators, and Social Workers - Really Everyone
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