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Babies Are Not Pizzas: They're Born, Not Delivered!

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One in three births is traumatic.

It doesn’t have to be that way.

Rebecca planned to give birth at the hospital affiliated with her university, where she was an award-winning nurse researcher finishing her doctoral degree. But hospital practices and policies that were more than 20 years out of date left her with complications that seemed preventable. Worst for Rebecca, her healthy baby was whisked off to a nursery right away. She spent the first few hours after birth begging to see her own baby!

A few years later and pregnant again, Rebecca put her research skills to work and examined the hard evidence on what went wrong with her first childbirth experience.

She discovered shocking truths that not only impact millions of families every year, but would change the entire course of her life.

Embark on a journey with Rebecca as she exposes the stark realities of institutional care during childbirth and reveals inspirational solutions for parents and professionals alike.

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Very inspiring book for parents and birth professionals

This book chronicles Dr. Rebecca Dekker’s inspiration and drivers behind the founding of Evidenced Based Birth. This is a wonderful book for anyone who believes in patient autonomy during pregnancy and birth or wants to learn how to focus on patient-centered care! I decided to listen to her book instead of read it, since I really enjoy her podcast.

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Hospital birth?

If you plan on having your baby in a hospital this is a MUST READ!!!!

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Informative

Loved the historical context Rebecca gave for “how we got here” in obstetrical culture. I also loved the psychological and hospital-political framework she gave for how this culture of obstetrical violence survives and thrives. I appreciate Rebecca telling her story, though I was caught off guard of how memoir-like it was. I’m not sure I was entirely interested in those aspects. I appreciate her and all the work she’s done for evidence based maternal care!

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Informative & empowering

Anyone who is expecting or planning to have children should read this book. I learned that I can and should advocate for myself as a patient. I learned about options during childbirth that I had no idea existed. I wish all doctors and midwives would read this book as well.

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A must read for all L & D Nurses

As an L & D nurse I can honestly say that this book was eye opening. While I knew that

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Fabulous Read

Absolutely loved it. when I was done, I wanted more. Rebecca thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story in such a teachable manner.

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Tears of satisfaction and fulfillment

Before even getting to the ending recommendations, I planned on sharing this book with new clients. I’m currently a doula and a student midwife, and I’m a mom, and there were so many moments in which tears welled at the beauty shared as well as at the unjust stories told. The reader gets a sense of what it’s like “out there” in the “wild west” of western medicalized birth...even a sense of how things can be different.

Rebecca beautifully weaves evidence and research with personal stories and stories of others’ needing to be shared. The result is moving towards more holistic care for families, viewing mothers as humans, and greater capacity to facilitate the birth experience in a way that supports happy, healthy, whole humans transitioning into this world...and maybe one day applying such care and evidence to transitioning out of it...but that’s my own spin. 😊

Thank you, Rebecca, for putting so much time and effort into this composition. It’s moving.

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Very engaging, couldn't stop listening!

This book was not only informative and engaging, but also very touching. Some of the stories were heart-breaking and moving, while others were inspiring and invigorating. Being 7 months pregnant with my second baby, I wanted to find a book that would help empower me in my birth experience, instead of making me feel helpless in labor and delivery as I did with my first baby. This book taught me a lot about obstetric abuse, hospital culture and the history of midwifery before the practice of Obstetrics was founded. It taught me about my rights as a patient and informed consent, and also taught me about the hospital hierarchy and the reasons behind why hospitals don't use evidence based care.
Great read! 5 stars!

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An absolute must read (or listen)!

This book is for everyone, not just for those in the medical field or prospective mothers. This book made me laugh and cry. It left me shocked and horrified at how cruel and barbaric modern medical culture is. I walked away with a greater understanding and motivation to encourage change.

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Informative, enlightening, and well written!

As birth worker for the last 5 years, I have read a lot of books on childbirth. This one stands out in many ways. Dr. Dekker is eloquent, honest, and brings so much information to light. I appreciate how many subjects within the birth world she touches on ie: systemic racism in medical care, compassion fatigue and secondary trauma. I highly recommend this book to any parents giving birth for the first time, or looking to improve their next birth experience. I will be recommending this book to all my clients from here on out.

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