
Becoming the Pastor's Wife
How Marriage Replaced Ordination as a Woman's Path to Ministry
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As a pastor's wife for twenty-five years, Beth Allison Barr has lived with assumptions about what she should do and who she should be.
In Becoming the Pastor's Wife, Barr draws on that experience and her expertise as a historian to trace the history of the role of the pastor's wife, showing how it both helped and hurt women in conservative Protestant traditions. While they gained an important leadership role, it came at a deep cost: losing independent church leadership opportunities that existed throughout most of church history and strengthening a gender hierarchy that prioritized male careers.
Barr examines the connection between the decline of female ordination and the rise of the role of pastor's wife in the evangelical church, tracing its patterns in the larger history (ancient, medieval, Reformation, and modern) of Christian women's leadership. By expertly blending historical and personal narrative, she equips pastors' wives to better advocate for themselves while helping the church understand the origins of the role as well as the historical reality of ordained women.
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- Calling the Church to Reclaim Kingdom Values over the American Dream
- By: Steve Bezner, Beth Moore - foreword
- Narrated by: James R. Cheatham
- Length: 7 hrs and 28 mins
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The American church faces a discipleship crisis. Instead of following the values of Jesus, many Christians are chasing after what our culture prizes: power, money, and political influence. In Your Jesus Is Too American, Baptist pastor Steve Bezner invites Christians to rediscover what Jesus treasured and incorporate those kingdom values into the church's witness. Bezner shows that Jesus's vision of discipleship points the way toward a different way of being in the world.
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Love thy neighbor
- By carrie lee on 04-05-25
By: Steve Bezner, and others
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Households of Faith
- Practicing Family in the Kingdom of God
- By: Emily Hunter McGowin
- Narrated by: Emily Hunter McGowin
- Length: 7 hrs and 46 mins
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A Holistic Vision of Family in God's Kingdom. The Christian world tends to have a blueprint for what families should look like, and these models of the family can be hard to live up to. In some circles, picture-perfect families are idealized and even idolatrized. Many Christians have a gnawing sense that this "traditional family" model is problematic or outdated. But is there an alternative way of understanding family that's neither idolatrous nor revisionist? Theologian Emily McGowin casts a holistic vision for what family can be in light of God's kingdom.
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Let's Consider Jesus
- By Ron McGowin on 02-08-25
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A Jewish Paul
- The Messiah's Herald to the Gentiles
- By: Matthew Thiessen
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
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What was the apostle Paul's relationship to Judaism? How did he view the Jewish law? How did he understand the gospel of Jesus's messiahship relative to both ethnic Jews and gentiles? These remain perennial questions both to New Testament scholars and to all serious Bible readers. Respected New Testament scholar Matthew Thiessen offers an important contribution to this discussion. A Jewish Paul is an accessible introduction that situates Paul clearly within first-century Judaism, not opposed to it.
By: Matthew Thiessen
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The Anti-Greed Gospel
- Why the Love of Money Is the Root of Racism and How the Church Can Create a New Way Forward
- By: Malcolm Foley
- Narrated by: Terrence Kidd
- Length: 6 hrs and 7 mins
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Racism is not about hate and ignorance. It's about greed. And it always has been. Black Christian historian Malcolm Foley explores this idea in The Anti-Greed Gospel, showing how the desire for power and money—what some call "racial capitalism"—causes violence and exploitation. Foley reviews the history of racial violence in the United States and connects the killings of modern-day Black Americans to the history of lynching in America.
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Profoundly relevant and inspiring
- By cindy ann perron on 03-13-25
By: Malcolm Foley
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Strange Religion
- How the First Christians Were Weird, Dangerous, and Compelling
- By: Nijay K. Gupta
- Narrated by: Nijay K. Gupta
- Length: 6 hrs and 48 mins
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The first Christians were weird. Just how weird is often lost on today's believers. Within Roman society, the earliest Christians stood out for the oddness of their beliefs and practices. They believed unusual things, worshiped God in strange ways, and lived a unique lifestyle. They practiced a whole new way of thinking about and doing religion that would have been seen as bizarre and dangerous when compared to Roman religion and most other religions of the ancient world.
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misleading title
- By Travis M. Stockwell on 03-24-24
By: Nijay K. Gupta
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Saving Face
- Finding My Self, God, and One Another Outside a Defaced Church
- By: Aimee Byrd
- Narrated by: Aimee Byrd
- Length: 6 hrs and 35 mins
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Saving Face is a meditation on the divine face, and the meaning we get from the faces of others as we are trying to find our own. Deeply personal and contemplative, this book originated in a time of rising from disillusionment while still aching for a church. Today the church is in a state of transition. We see many leaving and deconstructing from harm, hypocrisy, abuse of power, and the absence of Christ and his love. It is a time of revealing. But Christ is not absent.
By: Aimee Byrd
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Women and the Gender of God
- By: Amy Peeler
- Narrated by: Amy Peeler
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
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While many Christians would readily affirm this truth, the widely held assumption that the Bible depicts a male God persists—as it has for centuries. This misperception of Christianity not only perniciously implies that men deserve an elevated place over women, but also compromises the glory of God by making God appear to be part of creation, subject to it and its categories, rather than in transcendence of it.
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thought provoking book
- By Martin Homan on 08-11-24
By: Amy Peeler
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The Exvangelicals
- Loving, Living, and Leaving the White Evangelical Church
- By: Sarah McCammon
- Narrated by: Sarah McCammon
- Length: 8 hrs and 2 mins
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Growing up in a deeply evangelical family in the Midwest in the ‘80s and ‘90s, Sarah McCammon was strictly taught to fear God, obey him, and not question the faith. Persistently worried that her gay grandfather would go to hell unless she could reach him, or that her Muslim friend would need to be converted, and that she, too, would go to hell if she did not believe fervently enough, McCammon was a rule-follower. But through it all, she was plagued by fears and deep questions as the belief system she'd been carefully taught clashed with her expanding understanding of the outside world.
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Multiple Reasons
- By Meghan Smith on 03-30-24
By: Sarah McCammon
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A Year of Biblical Womanhood
- How a Liberated Woman Found Herself Sitting on Her Roof, Covering Her Head, and Calling Her Husband 'Master'
- By: Rachel Held Evans
- Narrated by: Amanda Opelt, Daniel Evans
- Length: 10 hrs and 24 mins
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A Year of Biblical Womanhood is an exercise in scriptural exploration and spiritual contemplation. What does God truly expect of women, and is there really a prescription for biblical womanhood? Come along with Evans as she looks for answers in the rich heritage of biblical heroines, models of grace, and all-around women of valor.
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What is the thesis?
- By Tayo Oyinda on 09-20-20
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The Sin of Empathy: Compassion and Its Counterfeits
- By: Joe Rigney
- Narrated by: Joe Rigney
- Length: 3 hrs and 53 mins
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When you reject the sin of empathy, you reject the manipulation of the media, the manipulation of family and friends, and most importantly, the manipulation of your own heart.
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So relevant for the church and society.
- By me.too on 04-12-25
By: Joe Rigney
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Safe Church
- How to Guard Against Sexism and Abuse in Christian Communities
- By: Dr. Andrew J. Bauman
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 5 hrs and 35 mins
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If the past few years have taught us anything, it's that by and large the church has failed women. From sexual abuse scandals involving high-profile pastors, to decades-long systemic cover-ups of sexual harassment and mistreatment, to harmful theology that has driven women to leave the church and find community elsewhere, it's clear that something is broken. If we want to fix it, it's time we start listening.
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Let’s do better in the church
- By Autumn masker on 04-15-25
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- Fred La Plante
- 03-26-25
History of Women in Pastoral Ministry
I love this book. I have always believed women were essential in leading the Church, but my knowledge of women's place in leading the Church was limited. In the years since my training in church history, I have learned more about women in ministry, but Dr. Barr has helped me put the final touches to my understanding of the role in the Christian Church. Paul said there was no difference between male and female, and Jesus gave the most significant message of his resurrection to women. I am thankful for her research and presentation of that research to help the modern Church realize what the Church down through the ages has known and lived, and hopefully put into practice how we allow everyone to use God's calling in their lives in the life of the Church. Thank you, Dr. Barr, for such a great gift to us!
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- kim case
- 04-16-25
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I enjoyed this journey through women in ministry historically, and the thesis that the pastor’s wife as an evangelical Christian woman’s current route to ministry. As a pastor’s wife outside of the SBC, it still resonated. Thank you for openings this conversation further.
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- karen gray
- 03-23-25
Rich history of women’s struggles
I appreciate all her work to bring us the struggles our sisters have had in working and serving in evangelical spaces. Thank you for penning this and May God continue to give you the courage to add to the pile of good women being to the world !
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