
When the Church Harms God's People
Becoming Faith Communities That Resist Abuse, Pursue Truth, and Care for the Wounded
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Diane Langberg
About this listen
Internationally recognized psychologist Diane Langberg has come face to face with the crushing trauma of sexual abuse, trafficking, domestic abuse, and rape—and its cover-up.
Even more tragic, she has encountered it all within Christian communities and the church.
As a highly respected trauma scholar and psychologist working in the United States and around the world for more than fifty years, she envisions a better way.
In When the Church Harms God's People, Langberg unveils what she has learned about how churches cause harm and why Christian communities often foster unhealthy leaders who end up hurting rather than protecting God's people. She also offers hope for the future, describing how churches can reflect Christ not just in what they teach but also in how they care for themselves and others.
This book is an invaluable tool for leaders and laypeople alike who want to help the church resist abuses of power and become a safe place for survivors.
©2024 Diane Langberg (P)2024 eChristianListeners also enjoyed...
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A Church Called Tov
- Forming a Goodness Culture That Resists Abuses of Power and Promotes Healing
- By: Scot McKnight, Laura Barringer
- Narrated by: Michael Beck
- Length: 7 hrs and 16 mins
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What is the way forward for the church? Tragically, in recent years, Christians have gotten used to revelations of abuses of many kinds in our most respected churches―from Willow Creek to Harvest, from Southern Baptist pastors to Sovereign Grace churches. Respected author and theologian Scot McKnight and former Willow Creek member Laura Barringer wrote this book to paint a pathway forward for the church.
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Mostly good, but has a major issue
- By T.J. on 11-30-21
By: Scot McKnight, and others
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On the Threshold of Hope
- Opening the Door to Healing for Survivors of Sexual Abuse
- By: Diane Mandt Langberg PhD
- Narrated by: Nan McNamara
- Length: 5 hrs and 52 mins
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On the Threshold of Hope offers hope and healing to men and women who have been traumatized by sexual abuse. Dr. Langberg's insights and the quotations from many survivors assure listeners that they are not alone and that Christ, the redeemer, can heal their deep wounds. Through stories, Scripture, questions, and encouragement, Dr. Langberg walks with survivors on the road to healing through Christ's love and power.
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Great soft healing.
- By Mary from Texas on 07-24-24
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When Religion Hurts You
- Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion
- By: Laura E. Anderson PhD
- Narrated by: Laura E. Anderson PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 59 mins
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Dr. Laura Anderson takes an honest look at a side of religion that few like to talk about. Drawing from her own life and therapy practice, she helps listeners understand what religious trauma is and isn't, and how high-control churches can be harmful and abusive, often resulting in trauma. She shows how elements of fundamentalist church life—such as fear of hell, purity culture, corporal punishment, and authoritarian leaders—can cause psychological, relational, physical, and spiritual damage.
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Harmed by Church of Christ beliefs
- By Bryan Wade on 04-14-24
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Something's Not Right
- Decoding the Hidden Tactics of Abuse - and Freeing Yourself from Its Power
- By: Wade Mullen
- Narrated by: Wade Mullen
- Length: 4 hrs and 50 mins
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In his debut book, researcher and advocate Wade Mullen introduces us to the groundbreaking world of impression management - the strategies that individuals and organizations utilize to gain power and cover up their wrongdoings. Mullen reveals a pattern that accompanies many types of abuse, almost as if abusers are somehow reading from the same playbook. If we can learn to decode these evil methods - if we can learn the language of abuse - we can help stop the cycle and make abusers less effective at accomplishing destruction in our lives.
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Emotional and spiritual abuse matters
- By Adam Shields on 01-26-23
By: Wade Mullen
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Holy Hurt
- Understanding Spiritual Trauma and the Process of Healing
- By: Hillary L. McBride PhD
- Narrated by: Hillary L. McBride
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
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Clinical psychologist Hillary L. McBride sends a sincere and profound message: spiritual trauma is real and impacts us all. She also reassures us that we can remake ourselves and heal in its aftermath. McBride expertly and compassionately shows that acknowledging the impact of spiritual trauma in our lives allows us to begin to repair our wounds individually and collectively, experiencing reconnection with ourselves and others.
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Dandelion like courage for healing journey
- By Sero on 04-16-25
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Becoming the Pastor's Wife
- How Marriage Replaced Ordination as a Woman's Path to Ministry
- By: Beth Allison Barr
- Narrated by: Connie Shabshab
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
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As a pastor's wife for 25 years, Beth Allison Barr has lived with assumptions about what she should do and who she should be. In Becoming the Pastor's Wife, Barr draws on that experience and her expertise as a historian to trace the history of the role of the pastor's wife, showing how it both helped and hurt women in conservative Protestant traditions. While they gained an important leadership role, it came at a deep cost: losing independent church leadership opportunities that existed throughout most of church history and strengthening a gender hierarchy that prioritized male careers.
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Excellence
- By BB on 05-08-25
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The Marriage You Want
- Moving Beyond Stereotypes for a Relationship Built on Scripture, New Data, and Emotional Health
- By: Dr. Keith Gregoire, Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Narrated by: Dr. Keith Gregoire, Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 5 hrs and 50 mins
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Based on the findings of their meticulous research, Sheila Wray Gregoire and Dr. Keith Gregoire dispel the pervasive myths about what makes a happy marriage. Rather than relying on gender stereotypes, they look at what actually creates intimacy, emotional health, and connection, asking deeper questions that lead to real healing and growth in your relationship with your spouse.
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Excellent
- By Rowena on 06-16-25
By: Dr. Keith Gregoire, and others
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
- Creating a Marriage That's Both Holy and Hot
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 6 hrs and 46 mins
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Whether you're about to walk down the aisle or you've been married for decades, this revised and expanded edition of The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex by popular blogger and award-winning author Sheila Wray Gregoire will lead you on a wonderful journey of discovery toward the amazing sex life God designed you for.
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Wish I’d had this sooner
- By Amazon Customer on 05-26-23
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I've Got Questions
- The Spiritual Practice of Having It Out with God
- By: Erin Hicks Moon, Sarah Bessey - foreword
- Narrated by: Erin Hicks Moon
- Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins
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When your faith as you know it has been commodified, nationalized, scandalized, and rebranded beyond recognition, is it even possible to recover the "good" of Jesus from this cluster of epic proportions? Writer and podcaster Erin Moon has questions, and this book is her open letter for anyone who feels iffy, conflicted, or just downright devastated by this disconnect. With empathy, insight, and the therapy of memes and a good laugh, Erin maps out not a rigid prescription but an open-hearted pathway for you to reclaim what you once loved about your faith home and light a match to the rest.
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My honest thoughts…
- By Bryan on 06-17-25
By: Erin Hicks Moon, and others
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The Sex Talk You Never Got
- Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality
- By: Sam Jolman, John Eldredge
- Narrated by: Sam Jolman, John Eldredge
- Length: 8 hrs and 41 mins
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Men today are starved for sexual formation. They've been failed by parents, churches, and culture alike, leading to widespread shame, confusion, and brokenness in the area of sexuality. In The Sex Talk You Never Got, therapist Sam Jolman helps men reconnect their God-given sexuality with innocence, awe, and joy, and shows listeners how to celebrate--instead of struggle against--the gift of sexual desire.
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Un lugar seguro para hombres
- By Kindle Customer on 05-25-25
By: Sam Jolman, and others
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The Deep-Rooted Marriage
- Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight
- By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, Dr. Steve Call
- Narrated by: Dr. Dan B. Allender, Dr. Steve Call, Becky Allender, and others
- Length: 8 hrs and 20 mins
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Every relationship has its highs and lows, but we often don't know what to do with our "lows," or how we ended up there. What is creating friction, exacerbating our pain, and standing in the way of intimacy? More often than not, it is the stories of our past drifting into the present. But if we are willing to look at them closely, we will be able to write a new story for the future. With more than seventy years of therapeutic experience combined, Dan Allender and Steve Call demonstrate how God is inviting you and your partner to a wild faith journey with the hope of transformation.
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Insightful and practical.
- By K. Bryant on 05-21-25
By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, and others
this is a must read
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All in the Church need to hear
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This was written very well! Would recommend to every Christian as well as to every Therapist who deals with religious trauma.
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Eternal truth spoken in practical ways
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