
Parent Yourself First
Raise Confident, Compassionate Kids by Becoming the Parent You Wish You'd Had
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Bryana Kappadakunnel
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A fresh, no-nonsense parenting guide that shows you how to become a great parent (even if you didn’t have one yourself).
Many of us didn’t have a perfect childhood. But it’s never too late (or too early!) to transform into the parent you were always meant to be—grounded, present, intentional, compassionate, and confident. In Parent Yourself First, licensed marriage and family therapist Bryana Kappadakunnel argues that the secret to successful parenting is to UN-learn the wounded patterns you grew up with and create new ways to connect with your child. Parenting from a place of connection may feel unlike anything you experienced as a child or what you thought parenting was meant to be. But the results can be remarkable—and transformative.
As the founder of the popular Conscious Mommy community on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok, Kappadakunnel explains that your upbringing is probably impacting your parenting style in ways you don’t even fully recognize, from how you manage your own emotions to how you connect with your kids in their vulnerable moments. In Parent Yourself First, she shares powerful stories from the families she’s counseled and practical tools for managing common parenting woes like tantrums and defiance. Her promise: You can break free of past patterns that no longer serve you and liberate your soul from old traumas and wounds.
Everyone has baggage. But it’s your responsibility to make sure your baggage doesn’t become your child’s problem. Healing yourself allows you to truly connect with your child; understand their needs; and guide them to live the happy, authentic life that they deserve.
©2025 Bryana Kappadakunnel (P)2025 Penguin AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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"Parent Yourself First is not only thought provoking and insightful, it is warm, hopeful, and practical. This book is a cycle breaker's almanac, it helps parents heal from the pain of their past and create a present and future reality that their children won't have to heal from."—Eli Harwood, author of Raising Securely Attached Kids
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Importance of Boys EI
- By Good/Bad Reviews on 12-01-24
By: Lionel Mcmann
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Becoming Attached
- First Relationships and How They Shape Our Capacity to Love
- By: Robert Karen PhD
- Narrated by: Adam Barr
- Length: 26 hrs and 14 mins
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Becoming Attached tells the story of the hundred-year quest to understand what children need and what constitutes good parenting. In this expanded and fully updated edition, psychotherapist and journalist Robert Karen chronicles the origin of a groundbreaking idea—attachment theory—and its impact on the fields of developmental psychology, psychiatry, and psychoanalysis.
By: Robert Karen PhD
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Mind Your Body
- A Revolutionary Program to Release Chronic Pain and Anxiety
- By: Nicole J. Sachs LCSW, John Stracks MD - foreword
- Narrated by: Nicole J. Sachs LCSW, John Stracks MD
- Length: 9 hrs and 31 mins
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At a time when chronic pain and other conditions have reached epidemic proportions, and the medical model is coming up short for so many, Mind Your Body shares the evidence-based practices that can help deliver listeners from hopelessness to freedom. Psychotherapist and leading mind-body clinician Nicole Sachs teaches listeners about mind-body medicine—which helped her overcome her own debilitating pain and dark prognosis—and how to turn inward using her revolutionary JournalSpeak practice.
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This knowledge saved my life - do not dismiss this!!
- By Meredith Nutrition on 02-05-25
By: Nicole J. Sachs LCSW, and others
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Punishment-Free Parenting
- The Brain-Based Way to Raise Kids Without Raising Your Voice
- By: Jon Fogel, Tina Payne Bryson - foreword
- Narrated by: Jon Fogel, Tina Payne Bryson
- Length: 5 hrs and 56 mins
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Every parent has had that painful moment of messing up and seeing that they need help if they are going to raise happy, emotionally healthy kids. For Jon Fogel, that moment came after yelling at his son and realizing he was making the same mistakes his own parents made. He knew something had to change; he needed to understand and redirect his own emotions. That realization put Fogel on a path toward wholeness: understanding himself, learning about the brain, naming his emotions.
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Way too much microphone feedback
- By Cameron Hetzler on 03-31-25
By: Jon Fogel, and others
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Raising Securely Attached Kids
- Using Connection-Focused Parenting to Create Confidence, Empathy, and Resilience
- By: Eli Harwood
- Narrated by: Eli Harwood, KJ Althoff, Te Anna Brown, and others
- Length: 8 hrs and 5 mins
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Therapist and wildly popular attachment research expert Eli Harwood (a.k.a. Attachment Nerd) illuminates attachment theory as foundational to the only parenting approach proven to have a lasting impact.
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PRACTICAL & POIGNANT
- By marley on 10-16-24
By: Eli Harwood
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The Way of Play
- Using Little Moments of Big Connection to Raise Calm and Confident Kids
- By: Tina Payne Bryson, Georgie Wisen-Vincent
- Narrated by: Tina Payne Bryson, Georgie Wisen-Vincent
- Length: 6 hrs and 8 mins
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Most parents understand that free, unstructured playtime is great for children’s development. What they may not know is that playful interaction with parents is also a powerful way for kids to cultivate healthy emotional development and resilience. Kids often want their parents to play with them, but many parents don’t know how to play or see it only as an (often boring) way to kill time. Playing with your kids doesn’t have to mean enrolling in countless parent-and-me classes or getting on all fours and making toy car sounds; the little daily moments together can make the most impact.
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Straightforward and easy to listen
- By Amazon Customer on 03-27-25
By: Tina Payne Bryson, and others
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Parenting Boys' Emotions
- Teaching Emotional Management for Boys and Raising Emotionally Intelligent Boys Aged 3-12 Years
- By: Lionel Mcmann
- Narrated by: Adam Lofbomm
- Length: 3 hrs and 18 mins
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The boy he is will shape the man he will become give the special boy in your life a chance to be confident, responsible and socially adept without waiting another day! The gender roles are constantly changing, but some qualities are key to success across the board. Even though the world is more diverse and accepting, boys still have a few hills to climb when it comes to being in tune with their emotions.
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Importance of Boys EI
- By Good/Bad Reviews on 12-01-24
By: Lionel Mcmann
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Becoming Attached
- First Relationships and How They Shape Our Capacity to Love
- By: Robert Karen PhD
- Narrated by: Adam Barr
- Length: 26 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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Becoming Attached tells the story of the hundred-year quest to understand what children need and what constitutes good parenting. In this expanded and fully updated edition, psychotherapist and journalist Robert Karen chronicles the origin of a groundbreaking idea—attachment theory—and its impact on the fields of developmental psychology, psychiatry, and psychoanalysis.
By: Robert Karen PhD
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Mind Your Body
- A Revolutionary Program to Release Chronic Pain and Anxiety
- By: Nicole J. Sachs LCSW, John Stracks MD - foreword
- Narrated by: Nicole J. Sachs LCSW, John Stracks MD
- Length: 9 hrs and 31 mins
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At a time when chronic pain and other conditions have reached epidemic proportions, and the medical model is coming up short for so many, Mind Your Body shares the evidence-based practices that can help deliver listeners from hopelessness to freedom. Psychotherapist and leading mind-body clinician Nicole Sachs teaches listeners about mind-body medicine—which helped her overcome her own debilitating pain and dark prognosis—and how to turn inward using her revolutionary JournalSpeak practice.
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This knowledge saved my life - do not dismiss this!!
- By Meredith Nutrition on 02-05-25
By: Nicole J. Sachs LCSW, and others
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Raising Good Humans
- A Mindful Guide to Breaking the Cycle of Reactive Parenting and Raising Kind, Confident Kids
- By: Hunter Clarke-Fields MSAE, Carla Naumburg PhD
- Narrated by: Jennifer Gilmour
- Length: 5 hrs and 37 mins
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With this book, you’ll find powerful mindfulness skills for calming your own stress response when difficult emotions arise. You’ll also discover strategies for cultivating respectful communication, effective conflict resolution, and reflective listening. In the process, you’ll learn to examine your own unhelpful patterns and ingrained reactions that reflect the generational habits shaped by your parents, so you can break the cycle and respond to your children in more skillful ways.
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Great Book About Parenting and Teaching Kindness!
- By Ma P on 09-11-20
By: Hunter Clarke-Fields MSAE, and others
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Very Intentional Parenting
- How to Raise Empowered Kids
- By: Destini Ann Davis
- Narrated by: Destini Ann Davis
- Length: 6 hrs and 36 mins
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Too many parenting books are heavy on the clinical advice, but way too light on practical strategies and everyday inspiration. Isn't it time for a parenting book that is both practical and inspirational? Destini Ann Davis is a working mom who has read dozens of parenting books and made all the typical parenting mistakes before realizing that in order to have a peaceful, positive relationship with her kids, she first needed to have a peaceful, positive relationship with herself. Very Intentional Parenting features a fresh, down-to-earth approach from someone you can relate to.
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Big fan of this book!
- By Amanda Merritt on 05-31-23
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How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids
- A Practical Guide to Becoming a Calmer, Happier Parent
- By: Carla Naumburg PhD
- Narrated by: Patricia Rodriguez
- Length: 6 hrs and 23 mins
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Stop the yelling, lose the guilt, and become a calmer, happier parent. Drawing on evidence-based practices, here is an insight-packed and tip-filled plan for how to stop the parental meltdowns. Its compassionate, pragmatic approach will help listeners feel less ashamed and more empowered to get their, ahem, act together instead of losing it.
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Good content written poorly
- By Red Beard on 09-01-20
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The Disengaged Teen
- Helping Kids Learn Better, Feel Better, and Live Better
- By: Jenny Anderson, Rebecca Winthrop
- Narrated by: Jenny Anderson, Rebecca Winthrop
- Length: 11 hrs and 9 mins
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A shocking majority of teens are disengaged from school, simultaneously bored and overwhelmed. This is feeding an alarming teen mental health crisis. As kids get older and more independent, parents often feel powerless to help. But fear not, there are evidence-backed strategies to guide them from disengagement to drive, in and out of school. For the past five years, award-winning journalist Jenny Anderson and the Brookings Institution’s global education expert Rebecca Winthrop have been investigating why so many children lose their love of learning in adolescence.
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Hard conversations made easier!
- By Sarah M. on 03-18-25
By: Jenny Anderson, and others
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Mindmasters (Anna Caputo version)
- The Data-Driven Science of Predicting and Changing Human Behavior
- By: Sandra Matz
- Narrated by: Anna Caputo
- Length: 6 hrs and 8 mins
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Columbia Business School professor Sandra Matz reveals in fascinating detail how big data offers insights into the most intimate aspects of our psyches and how these insights empower an external influence over the choices we make. This can be creepy, manipulative, and downright harmful, with scandals like that of British consulting firm Cambridge Analytica being merely the tip of the iceberg.
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boring redundant
- By Linda Mueller on 02-21-25
By: Sandra Matz
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How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen
- A Survival Guide to Life with Children Ages 2-7
- By: Joanna Faber, Julie King
- Narrated by: Heather Alicia Simms, Michele Pawk, Candace Thaxton, and others
- Length: 10 hrs and 8 mins
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What do you do with a little kid who...won't brush her teeth...screams in his car seat...pinches the baby...refuses to eat vegetables...runs rampant in the supermarket? Organized according to common challenges and conflicts, this book is an essential emergency first-aid manual of communication strategies, including a chapter that addresses the special needs of children with sensory processing and autism spectrum disorders.
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The message is great but the narration and writing style cringey
- By Elliott Family on 07-23-19
By: Joanna Faber, and others
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The Power Pause
- How to Plan a Career Break After Kids—and Come Back Stronger Than Ever
- By: Neha Ruch
- Narrated by: Neha Ruch
- Length: 7 hrs and 32 mins
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"So, what do you do?" When Neha Ruch had to answer this seemingly innocent question for the first time after leaving her corporate job to care for her infant son, she drew a shameful blank. She couldn’t find the words to describe this new stage of life she’d just embarked on. How, then, was she to navigate this identity shift? Frustrated, Ruch embarked on a mission to rebrand the stay-at-home mother for a new generation of women who don’t want to leave their ambition behind just because they decide to pause or change their careers post-kids.
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If you want anyone else to respect, honor and to value your choice to stay home, it begins with you.
- By Lindsay Mayuga on 03-29-25
By: Neha Ruch
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Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child
- The Heart of Parenting
- By: John Gottman PhD
- Narrated by: Roy Worley
- Length: 8 hrs and 4 mins
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Based on 20 years of research at the University of Washington studying parent-child interactions, award-winning research psychologist John Gottman and his team have developed Emotion Coaching - a technique parents can use to teach their children self-awareness and self-control and to foster good emotional development. This proven technique has demonstrated a positive effect on children's physical health, academic achievement, and emotional well-being.
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My parenting philosophy, in writing!
- By Dave on 03-03-21
By: John Gottman PhD
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Raising Mentally Strong Kids
- How to Combine the Power of Neuroscience with Love and Logic to Grow Confident, Kind, Responsible, and Resilient Children and Young Adults
- By: Daniel G. Amen M.D., Charles Fay Ph.D
- Narrated by: Jim Frangione
- Length: 11 hrs and 17 mins
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In a time when so many children and young adults seem to be struggling, parents are looking for help in bringing up mentally healthy kids who are equipped to thrive. Finally, evidence-based help is now available for overwhelmed parents who are trying their best but feel like they’re falling short.
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Some good points within an unhelpful delivery
- By circle_a on 04-26-24
By: Daniel G. Amen M.D., and others
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The Power of Showing Up
- How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired
- By: Daniel J. Siegel MD, Tina Payne Bryson PhD
- Narrated by: Daniel J. Siegel MD, Tina Payne Bryson PhD
- Length: 7 hrs and 27 mins
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One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, showing up for your child might sound like a tall order. But as best-selling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, it doesn’t take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence.
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Great Educators
- By Bored on 02-26-21
By: Daniel J. Siegel MD, and others
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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
- How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
- By: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrated by: Marguerite Gavin
- Length: 6 hrs and 50 mins
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In this breakthrough book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents' emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you'll learn how to create positive new relationships so you can build a better life.
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Astonishing information.
- By K J Sunflower on 07-20-16
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Good Inside
- A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
- By: Becky Kennedy
- Narrated by: Becky Kennedy
- Length: 9 hrs and 55 mins
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Over the past several years, Dr. Becky Kennedy—known to her followers as “Dr. Becky”—has been sparking a parenting revolution. Millions of parents, tired of following advice that either doesn’t work or simply doesn’t feel good, have embraced Dr. Becky’s empowering and effective approach, a model that prioritizes connecting with our kids over correcting them. Parents have long been sold a model of childrearing that simply doesn’t work. From reward charts to time outs, many popular parenting approaches are based on shaping behavior, not raising humans.
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Sounds Wonderful, Does Not Work
- By R. Humphrey on 01-08-23
By: Becky Kennedy
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- Andrea
- 03-18-25
A must read for parents
Great book, well done, very insightful - was worried about length which may result in redundant info/saying the same thing over and over like got it the first time. Mid way through already applying concepts and seeing improvements with my relationship with my kids. A must read for parents.
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- EMPN
- 03-31-25
A warm hug for your soul
This parenting book is more like a therapy book, a self awareness class, with insights and tools that will help your personal life and, then of course, your parenting experience. Definitely a book to read more than once, and reflect upon each chapter!
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