
Red Flags, Green Flags
Modern Psychology for Everyday Drama
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Dr Ali Fenwick
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Dr Ali Fenwick
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Discover the tools to identify healthy and toxic behaviours in all areas of life and separate the red flags from the green, from TikTok psychologist Dr Ali Fenwick @moderndaypsychologist
In an increasingly fast-paced world, equally fast decision-making skills are seen as a strength. When we are constantly presented with so many options to choose from, a quick and dirty decision doesn't always seem like a bad thing.
When it comes to things we don't like in friends, family, work, or relationships we are often fast to judge and label them as red flags.
What we don't realise, however, is that this mindset is causing us to lose our ability to manage difficult situations. Decisions taken in the heat of the moment can also prevent us from achieving a greater understanding of ourselves.
Professor of Organisational Behaviour and Innovation Dr Ali Fenwick is here to guide you through critical life situations, providing you with the knowledge to unpack the psychology behind each one and ultimately make the best and healthiest decisions about dating, relationships, friends, family, work, wellbeing, and success.
Red Flags, Green Flags is here to help you break this cycle of unhealthy behaviour by equipping you with the tools to identify the good and the bad signs in your life, show you what these signals say about people and, more importantly, what they say about you.
©2024 Dr Ali Fenwick (P)2024 Penguin AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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- Cate Murphy
- 06-27-24
Excellent mix of behavioral science & real-life application
Dr. Fenwick’s book is engaging and a wonderful read for those who need a place to start their own personal healing and accountability journey. The science was spot on and the real-life application is fun! Highly recommend for individuals and small groups that want to learn to work together.
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- nadya
- 12-01-24
More Awareness on the kind of relationships
I love this book I highly recommend it give you awareness on the kind of relationships you are in the signs and everything it applies for all kind of people in your life not just lover and the psychology behind it is insane love it thank you.
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- Christian
- 04-17-24
Very informative book
I thoroughly enjoyed Dr. Ali Fenwick’s Red Flags, Green Flags. He explains in clear details red flags and green flags to be on the lookout for when it comes to dating, relationships and in the workplace as well as the proper way of navigating them. It’s a very interesting read that can help everyday people understand and navigate situations we typically find ourselves in. Highly recommend!
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- Suelen oliveira
- 05-29-24
Great insights
Great eye opening, bringing clarity about the modern dating culture, well explained and easy to understand. Wish more chapters in details haha
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- Anonymous User
- 04-22-25
Superfluous and reptitive
Very disappointing! The same shallow ideas repeated on loop! No depth or analysis! One could expect more from a book authored by a professor!
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- Kindle Customer
- 11-13-24
Too "bad"
Maybe the author is following societies lead, but I'm headed in a different direction. A serious topic that was presented through too much crass language. It cheapened the entire presentation and made it difficult to take Mr. Fenwick seriously. Unfortunate. I didn't bother to finish listening.
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