
Stepmonster
A New Look at Why Real Stepmothers Think, Feel, and Act the Way We Do
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Narrated by:
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Cris Dukehart
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By:
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Wednesday Martin
About this listen
What makes stepmothering so hard? And why are we, as people and a culture, so hard on stepmothers? How can we make it easier?
Stepmonster is a truly unique and groundbreaking book for women with stepchildren, men with kids who repartner, adult stepchildren, and anyone who cares about them. It is a comprehensive, cross-cultural, research-based reconsideration of stepfamily dynamics - from the perspective of the stepmother. How does she think, act, and feel, and why? Part no-holds-barred memoir of stepmothering in the trenches, part analysis of why stepmothering is tough and steps women with stepkids can take to thrive, Stepmonster has been hailed as "the thinking woman's guide to stepmothering" and "life altering", igniting conversations, controversy, and changes in how we perceive and experience stepmothering.
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Blended Family - A Guide for Stepparents
- Seven Unsuspecting Attitudes that Are Seriously Toxic to Stepfamilies
- By: Andrea Campbell
- Narrated by: Bonnie Trost
- Length: 1 hr and 27 mins
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If you are a stepparent, you may know how challenging a role it can be. It takes more than the will to make it work. Stepparents must apply a range of skills to keep their families together, and they have to be prepared to be flexible in the process.
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Great Information
- By Natasha on 07-29-24
By: Andrea Campbell
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Surviving and Thriving in Stepfamily Relationships
- What Works and What Doesn’t
- By: Patricia L. Papernow
- Narrated by: Chloe Cannon
- Length: 8 hrs and 18 mins
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Surviving and Thriving in Stepfamily Relationships draws on current research, a wide variety of clinical modalities, and 30 years of clinical work with stepfamily members to describe the special challenges stepfamilies face. The book presents the concept of "stepfamily architecture" and the five challenges it creates, and delineates three different levels of strategies - psychoeducation, building interpersonal skills, and intrapsychic work - for meeting those challenges in dozens of different settings.
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Wow!
- By Cash on 06-17-21
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Blend
- The Secret to Co-Parenting and Creating a Balanced Family
- By: Mashonda Tifrere, Alicia Keys - foreword
- Narrated by: Mashonda Tifrere, Alicia Keys, Swizz Beatz
- Length: 5 hrs and 26 mins
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In January 2010, founder of ArtLeadHer Mashonda Tifrere and music producer Swizz Beatz finalized their divorce. When Swizz married award-winning singer/songwriter Alicia Keys, a new dynamic was born - three adults who loved and were deeply committed to raising Mashonda and Swizz's four-year old son Kasseem. In Blend, Tifrere draws on the insights they gained from their journey as well as advice from family therapists, parenting experts, and other blending families, to provide an invaluable resource for blended families.
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This book is a truly a Gift.
- By sydney on 10-10-18
By: Mashonda Tifrere, and others
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The Stepmoms' Club
- How to Be a Stepmom without Losing Your Money, Your Mind, and Your Marriage (A Parenting Self-Help Book to Create Happy Blended Families)
- By: Kendall Rose
- Narrated by: Kim Handysides
- Length: 5 hrs and 47 mins
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You've met the partner of your dreams and have gotten your happily ever after, but now you've taken on a new role: stepmom. And you have no idea what you signed up for. Or maybe you've been a stepmom for a while now, but things are getting you down. Who do you turn to for help? Where is the stepmothering support group that'll give you the advice you need? A book for all the ins and outs of having a blended family? Who actually gets how hard being a stepmom can be?
By: Kendall Rose
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Co-Parenting with a Toxic Ex
- What to Do When Your Ex-Spouse Tries to Turn the Kids Against You
- By: Amy E. Baker PhD, Paul R. Fine
- Narrated by: Vanessa Daniels
- Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
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In Co-Parenting with a Toxic Ex, a nationally recognized parenting expert offers you a positive parenting approach to dealing with a hostile ex-spouse. You'll learn to avoid the most common mistakes of co-parenting, how to avoid "parental alienation syndrome", and effective techniques for talking to your children in a way that fosters an open and honest response. In addition, you'll learn how to protect your children from painful loyalty conflicts between you and your ex-spouse.
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Not Helpful For Me
- By Catherine Conklin on 11-05-17
By: Amy E. Baker PhD, and others
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Untrue
- Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free
- By: Wednesday Martin
- Narrated by: Wednesday Martin
- Length: 10 hrs and 3 mins
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From the number-one New York Times best-selling author of Primates of Park Avenue, a bold, timely reconsideration of female infidelity that will upend everything you thought you knew about women and sex. In Untrue, feminist author and cultural critic Wednesday Martin takes us on a bold, fascinating journey to reveal the unexpected evolutionary legacy and social realities that drive female faithlessness, while laying bare our motivations to contain women who step out.
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Interesting, Not Regrettable, But Kinda Angry Feminist-y
- By Bree Dirkmaat on 03-21-19
By: Wednesday Martin
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I Hear You
- The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships
- By: Michael S. Sorensen
- Narrated by: Michael S. Sorensen
- Length: 2 hrs and 45 mins
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What if making one tweak to your day-to-day conversations could immediately improve every relationship in your life? In this three-hour, conversational listen, you'll discover the whats, whys, and hows of one of the most valuable (yet surprisingly little-known) communication skills - validation.
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Life-Changing
- By katalley90 on 04-12-19
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- Carol Iannessa
- 04-07-22
Brilliant & validating
after listening to this book I am 100% done receiving information and advice from people who have no experience and or education in step parenting. I am moving into acceptance of the way the relationships are with my stepchildren and plan to focus on my marriage and my own happiness.
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- Phillips
- 06-20-24
Love that this made me feel seen.
Not only did I enjoy this book but I learned a lot. I liked it so much that I actually just ordered a hard copy so I can skim through it, highlight some things, and refer back to it.. probably for the rest of my life.
Great information, I’m a step daughter, a biological mother and also a step mother.
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- Allie Leaper
- 04-16-21
An absolute must read for stepmothers
I’ve been a stepmother for almost six years, and was still struggling with my feelings. This book validated everything I felt, and helped guide the family to a more healthy life. I highly recommend!
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- Anna
- 10-23-19
exactly what I needed
this book is so amazing, it explains in a very simple way the way the stepchildren might feel and the fact that is ok to feel the way we do.
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- Cassie
- 08-26-17
An absolute must read!
If you are anywhere on the step family spectrum you should sincerely read this book! I feel that it has changed my life!
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- Miss B
- 02-11-25
Authenticity by use of personal experiences
Very real talk which touches on those difficult to have conversations. The personal and authentic expression given is both refreshing & reassuring for someone struggling or trying to navigate through this journey. It also helps those outside get insight on how it is to be on the inside of these situations.
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- Justine McCreary
- 11-17-19
Deep, emotional, life changing
I couldn't stop listening to this book. I've had struggles myself as a step-mom, as most do. This book picked apart my soul and gave me insights into my own life that I may have never realized on my own. I plan to listen to this book again and again as well as recommending it for any and all to read! Thank you Wednesday 💜
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- Megan
- 08-18-21
Totally truthful!
I have been a stepmom for 10+ years.... this is crazy accurate!!! if you are in a new relationship where you'd become a stepmom read this first...please!! I wish I would have!!!
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- kenny
- 07-27-22
I loved it
This book was everything I didnt know I needed. I've been a stepmother for over 10 years, and this book really "gets" the thoughts and feelings that are hard to explain except for those who are fellow stepmoms!
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- Krishonda Torres
- 05-10-19
She said a mouthful...
The Book I wish I had when I became a stepmom that puts stepmothers on center stage for once.
Looking at their feelings, their thoughts and their lives as a Separate Entity, a woman, not a martyr, not a maid, not a villain, not someone who should have KNOWN what they were getting into, but a person, a human being worthy of the same love she gives to the father or partner she has made the choice to come alongside of and make a life with.
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