
The Asshole Pandemic
A Field Guide to ID’ing, Deleting, and Healing from Toxic Relationships
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The Asshole Pandemic: Break Free from Toxic and Abusive Relationships and Find the Love You Deserve
Are you tired of jumping from one toxic relationship to another? Do you find yourself drawn to unhealthy patterns and wondering why you keep attracting the wrong people? The Asshole Pandemic is your ultimate guide to recognizing toxic behaviors, breaking free from destructive cycles, and rediscovering your worth.
Finding a healthy relationship can feel as elusive as spotting Bigfoot. If you grew up in a toxic household or were never taught what a healthy relationship looks like, it’s no wonder red flags might go unnoticed. This book is here to change that.
Unlike other relationship advice books, The Asshole Pandemic is a refreshing mix of a book outlining how to identify toxic people so you no longer get in toxic relationships and a practical workbook. It’s raw, real, and straight to the point. You’ll learn to:
- Identify the different types of toxic people and how to avoid them.
- Recognize red flags and understand why certain behaviors confused you in the past.
- Set healthy boundaries and improve communication skills.
- Build self-awareness and confidence to navigate the dating world with clarity.
This book isn’t about fluff. It’s about giving you the tools to create a healthier life and relationships. The included workbook provides actionable exercises to help you discover your needs, heal from past wounds, and work toward finding the love you truly deserve.
Your moment of change starts here. It’s time to stop tolerating toxic people, take back your power, and rewrite your love story on your terms.
Take the first step toward a healthier, happier future. Scroll up and click Add to Cart to start your journey today!
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