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Rupert Farley
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Paul Gilbert
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Throughout history people have sought to cope with a life that is often stressful and hard. We have actually known for some time that developing compassion for oneself and others can help us face up to and win through the hardship and find a sense of inner peace. However in modern societies we rarely focus on this key process that underpins successful coping and happiness and can be quick to dismiss the impact of modern living on our minds and well-being. Instead we concentrate on 'doing, achieving' and having'. Now, bestselling author and leading authority on depression, Professor Paul Gilbert explains how new research shows how we can all learn to develop compassion for ourselves and others and derive the benefits of this age-old wisdom.
In this ground-breaking new book he explores how our minds have developed to be highly sensitive and quick to react to perceived threats and how this fast-acting threat-response system can be a source of anxiety, depression and aggression. He describes how studies have also shown that developing kindness and compassion for self and others can help in calming down the threat system: as a mother's care and love can soothe a baby's distress, so we can learn how to soothe ourselves. Not only does compassion help to soothe distressing emotions, it actually increases feelings of contentment and well-being. Here, Professor Gilbert outlines the latest findings about the value of compassion and how it works, and takes readers through basic mind training exercises to enhance the capacity for, and use of, compassion.
New audio available from 01 August 2018.
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If you suffer from depression you are far from alone. Depression is very common, affecting over 300 million people around the world. Written by Professor Paul Gilbert, internationally recognised for his work on depression, this highly acclaimed self-help book has been of benefit to thousands of people including sufferers, their friends and families and those working in the medical profession.
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very helpful
- By Oliver Dickie on 09-05-20
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The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion
- Freeing Yourself from Destructive Thoughts and Emotions
- By: Christopher K. Germer
- Narrated by: Stephen R. Thorne
- Length: 8 hrs and 43 mins
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Over his decades of experience as a therapist and mindfulness meditation practitioner, Dr. Christopher Germer has learned a paradoxical lesson: We all want to avoid pain, but letting it in and responding compassionately to our own imperfections are essential steps on the path to healing. This wise and eloquent book illuminates the power of self-compassion and offers creative, scientifically grounded strategies for putting it into action.
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Mmm-hmm
- By hoo haa on 10-06-17
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When Less Becomes More
- Making Space for Slow, Simple, and Good
- By: Emily Ley
- Narrated by: Emily Ley
- Length: 3 hrs and 27 mins
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In her newest audiobook, best-selling author and founder of Simplified Emily Ley brings a revolutionary exploration of how to live a life of more in a world that often overwhelms to the point of burnout. Emily empathizes with listeners in the throes of exhaustion and provides tools for nourishing their spirits and achieving a life where less becomes more.
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Review by a Kidless, Single, Late-Twenties Atheist
- By dani5 on 11-20-19
By: Emily Ley
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The Reality Slap
- How to Survive and Thrive When Life Hits Hard
- By: Russ Harris
- Narrated by: Dr. Russ Harris
- Length: 8 hrs and 14 mins
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If we live long enough, life will knock us around. Relationships will fail. Loved ones will die. Injury, illness and disease will all take their toll. Our suffering might seem unbearable at these times, but there is hope. The Reality Slap is a compassionate, wise and extremely practical guide to handling the anxiety, grief and suffering that inevitably follow such major life blows.
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Excellent
- By robert jaurequi on 03-11-23
By: Russ Harris
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Thinking 101
- How to Reason Better to Live Better
- By: Woo-kyoung Ahn
- Narrated by: Lessa Lamb
- Length: 7 hrs and 32 mins
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Psychologist Woo-kyoung Ahn devised a course at Yale called “Thinking” to help students examine the biases that cause so many problems in their daily lives. It quickly became one of the university’s most popular courses. Now, for the first time, Ahn presents key insights from her years of teaching and research in a book for everyone. She shows how “thinking problems” stand behind a wide range of challenges, from common, self-inflicted daily aggravations to our most pressing societal issues and inequities.
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Frustrating
- By Helloimkale on 04-27-23
By: Woo-kyoung Ahn
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Think Big, Act Small
- How America's Best Performing Companies Keep the Start-up Spirit Alive
- By: Jason Jennings
- Narrated by: Jason Jennings
- Length: 3 hrs and 44 mins
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Tradition says there are three ways to grow a company's revenue: fire up the sales team with empty promises, cut costs and downsize, or cook the books. But what if there's a better way, a way that nine amazingly profitable and well-run companies are already embracing.
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Great read, great content!
- By Jason DeLong on 07-30-21
By: Jason Jennings
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Mindwise
- Why We Misunderstand What Others Think, Believe, Feel, and Want
- By: Nicholas Epley
- Narrated by: Nicholas Epley
- Length: 6 hrs and 24 mins
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You are a mind reader, born with an extraordinary ability to understand what others think, feel, believe, want, and know. It's a sixth sense you use every day, in every personal and professional relationship you have. At its best, this ability allows you to achieve the most important goal in almost any life: connecting, deeply and intimately and honestly, to other human beings. At its worst, it is a source of misunderstanding and unnecessary conflict, leading to damaged relationships and broken dreams. How good are you at knowing the minds of others?
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Finally gave up - no real point
- By Thomas on 05-12-14
By: Nicholas Epley
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The Art of Making Memories
- How to Create and Remember Happy Moments
- By: Meik Wiking
- Narrated by: Meik Wiking
- Length: 4 hrs and 34 mins
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Memories are the cornerstones of our identity, shaping who we are, how we act, and how we feel. In his work as a happiness researcher, Meik Wiking has learned that people are happier if they hold a positive, nostalgic view of the past. But how do we make and keep the memories that bring us lasting joy? The Art of Making Memories examines how mental images are made, stored, and recalled in our brains, as well as the "art of letting go" - why we tend to forget certain moments to make room for deeper, more meaningful ones.
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Pineapple
- By Mary on 12-25-22
By: Meik Wiking
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Rethinking Positive Thinking
- Inside the New Science of Motivation
- By: Gabriele Oettingen
- Narrated by: Karen Saltus
- Length: 5 hrs and 30 mins
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Based on her groundbreaking research and large-scale scientific studies, Oettingen introduces a new way to visualize the future, called mental contrasting. It combines focusing on our dreams with visualizing the obstacles that stand in our way. In Rethinking Positive Thinking, Oettingen applies mental contrasting to three key areas of personal change - becoming healthier, nurturing personal and professional relationships, and performing better at work.
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Simply unimpressive
- By Jeff Fiske on 10-25-14
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Empty Out the Negative
- Make Room for More Joy, Greater Confidence, and New Levels of Influence
- By: Joel Osteen
- Narrated by: Joel Osteen
- Length: 2 hrs and 41 mins
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You were created to be filled with joy, peace, confidence, and creativity. But it's easy to go through life holding on to things that weigh you down - guilt, resentment, doubt, worry. When you give space to these negative emotions, they take up space that you need for the good things that move you toward your destiny. How much room are you giving to shame, to regret, to being against yourself? Whatever it is, it's too much. Life is too short for you to live bitter and discouraged, letting your circumstances hold you back.
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Definitely worth the buy!
- By Loving nurse 1978 on 11-16-20
By: Joel Osteen
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Win Your Inner Battles
- Defeat the Enemy Within and Live with Purpose
- By: Darius Foroux
- Narrated by: Darius Foroux
- Length: 2 hrs and 37 mins
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Do you want to change your career? Start a business? Stop losing sleep over a deadline? End your relationship? Or maybe, just live a fulfilling life? Everyone has goals and ambitions in life. But we often don't pursue our inner desires because of one thing: fear and a lack of self-confidence. In Win Your Inner Battles, I will show you how to destroy fear and live your life with a sense of purpose.
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So so
- By Cristina Wheeler on 03-31-25
By: Darius Foroux
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The Power of the Other
- The Startling Effect Other People Have on You, from the Boardroom to the Bedroom and Beyond - and What to Do About It
- By: Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: George Newbern
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
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Combining engaging case studies, persuasive findings from cutting-edge brain research, and examples from his consulting practice, Dr. Cloud argues that whether you're a Navy SEAL or a corporate executive, outstanding performance depends on having the right kind of connections to fuel personal growth and minimize toxic associations and their effects.
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Which Corner Are You In?
- By Jeffrey Wooten on 07-07-16
By: Henry Cloud
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ACT with Love (Second Edition)
- Stop Struggling, Reconcile Differences, and Strengthen Your Relationship with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
- By: Russ Harris
- Narrated by: Russ Harris
- Length: 9 hrs
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Picture-perfect storybook romances don't exist in real life. Couples fight. Feelings of love wax and wane through the years. So, how can you reignite passion and intimacy in your relationship, cultivate greater understanding and compassion between yourself and your partner, and bring the joy back to your love life? In this fully revised edition of ACT with Love, therapist and world-renowned ACT expert Russ Harris shows how developing psychological flexibility can help you and your partner strengthen your relationship.
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Good summary
- By Mark Pardue on 01-06-25
By: Russ Harris
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- Joe
- 10-10-15
Such a splendid book!
Such a humanistic master pease! And also, in my layman mind, a very exiting summary, at least for the large audience, of many evolvements in modern psychiatry. But before all a brilliant and convincing presentation emphasizing the importance of the compassionate perspective not only in the caring professions and the education sectors but in all functions of the public as well as the private spheres of society. Also very well written and not without some elegant humor and charming self irony.
When an audiobook stretches over many hours I am
sometimes inclined to fast forward; just a little. But never in this Masterpiece even if more than 20 hours of audio normally could feel like a long piece of listening. And indeed it was so long so that I just made up my mind to read it in e-book form, before I listen to it the second time.
The narration was also very good.
Johan Landsdorff
Helsinki
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- Mark A Walker
- 11-23-24
Deep understanding
Depth of field in understanding and investigation of compassion in action. Especially as relating to perspective and practices that can help us understand and practice this approach. Good story, helpful humor and great read.
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- Dorota
- 10-20-18
Longish, but well worth while
I found this discussion of compassion to be directed to the lay public: certainly people who have not given any thought to meditation or any other spiritual or mindful practice. It does offer a great, matter-of-fact perspective on the value of compassion, and many tools for making space for compassion in our minds and lives. I enjoyed listening to it, and plan to return to it in the future.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-11-20
best book ever
Most importent scripture for humanity,
I liston to it over and over, the wonderfull narrating helps me fall asleep in a compassionate mindset.
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- Amazon Customer
- 03-22-24
A wonderful book
Well-researched and written with heart. Paul Gilbert explains how we all just find ourselves here, with strange minds and unruly emotions, and how to begin to make sense of our predicament and treat ourselves and others with understanding and kindness. I loved the practical exercises, too. Great wisdom and warms in each chapter.
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- Anonymous User
- 02-02-24
The Compassionate mind
Great book that each person shoul read. Beautiful message to the world. Easy to understand, giving answers to most difficult questions.
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- Vickie
- 09-02-13
Like water for a thirsty wanderer
What did you love best about The Compassionate Mind?
The author's kindness and humor. He felt like a friend, helping me through difficult--but crucial--information that will help my life for years and years to come. I will always be grateful to him for this.
What was one of the most memorable moments of The Compassionate Mind?
A few things. When he mentioned other works by other authors (Napoleon Hill's "How to Win Friends and Influence People" which basically tells us to just LISTEN to each other; John Price's work; Mark Leary's book "The Curse of the Self"; and many more), I quite often took note of that for future looking into.
The author's book focuses on explaining complex ideas about self-compassion (and compassion for others) in easily-understood language, and to tell we the readers that we CAN attain this elusive and wonderful gift of self-compassion/other compassion.
The gold in this book, which was repeated in many different ways throughout the book (helping me to understand it from different angles and within different contexts), THE THEME UPON WHICH THIS BOOK IS WRITTEN, is that it isn't our fault that we are critical or judgmental toward ourselves or others, or might feel superior/inferior, OR that we suffer from anxiety, fear, anger, or depression. Further--and what really brings it home for me--is that it is natural to feel a sudden flood of anxiety, fear, or a feeling of anger or wanting to exact revenge. AND that, because of how our brains have evolved, it is also natural for us to ruminate on these momentary feelings for days, months, and even years. It is also natural to feel a wide spectrum of feelings. They are not the enemies. What IS important is being aware of them and dealing with them so they don't overtake your life (like my reference to rumination--which is only one example).
In a phrase, he wants us to "experience rather than self-judge/judge others"; to be kind, loving, self-compassionate/compassionate, and warm towards ourselves and others. His full chapters, coming at the subject from many angles, and his exercises teach us how to do this.
This is not a difficult, scientifically-slanted book, though it is grounded firmly in science. It is also not a spiritual book per se, though you can certainly come at it from that angle, should you enjoy that. It is just, plain and simple, a very, very practical book. It doesn't throw around any far-flinging (what I call) "woo-woo" terms which other books might. It's real. It's down to earth. It's usable in everyday life.
He gave hope to this reader.
I feel more hope now, after hearing this book (which I'll be restarting at the beginning as soon as I've finished the first go-through, and I'm going to listen to it again and again) than I have in three decades of anti-depressants, anti-anxiety meds, and therapies with dozens of philosophies and advice.
Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?
As others have stated, this book is very long. But it is, by no means, too long--for all of its in-depth coverage of vital (and in my view life-saving) information. There is nothing I would have edited out to cut down the length. I have been listening to it in 3-4 blocks of time. But you could easily listen to it in one-hour increments or full day's-worth segments of time.
Any additional comments?
Buy this book, and then let it wash over you, confront your prior attitudes and opinions, and amaze you. His book is tightly focused, well-planned and executed, and practical for novices and experienced alike! I'm going to look for more by this author.
As a side note: this book is written by a British author, and the audio book is read by a British narrator. However, as an American, I had no trouble understanding every single word. In addition, I didn't have to strain to hear every single word with ease--the tone was even in volume and cadence throughout the entire piece.
Buy this book. It will make you feel so much better and more hopeful about yourself and your world than you could have ever imagined. I think these ideas are going to make a huge difference in my life as I begin to orient my gaze toward its premises, exercises, and practical applications.
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- Napoleon
- 11-13-18
Amazing!
Excellent book on compassion towards others and more importantly yourself. The author does a great job of walking you through the process of internal growth. Definitely a must have, there aren't many books that effectively help you combat shame as this one.
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- Krister
- 11-24-22
Important, but a bit long
Covers some very important and useful topics in how to be more helpful to your self. Some very important observations, but the book is a bit long over all.
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- Scott
- 09-20-13
Boring, boring, boring
I kept waiting for an insight—any insight—that wasn't just ridiculously obvious to surface in this book. Maybe you don't already know that our minds evolved from a more primitive base that doesn't always serve us well. Maybe you've never heard how to meditate. So, okay, go ahead and give it a listen. Personally, I recommend "Buddhism Without Beliefs" instead. It's much shorter, and doesn't get lost in (really) elaboration.
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