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The Girls Who Went Away

The Hidden History of Women Who Surrendered Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe v. Wade

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The Girls Who Went Away

By: Ann Fessler
Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
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In this deeply moving and myth-shattering work, Ann Fessler brings out into the open for the first time the astonishing untold history of the million and a half women who surrendered children for adoption due to enormous family and social pressure in the decades before Roe v. Wade. An adoptee who was herself surrendered during those years and recently made contact with her mother, Fessler brilliantly brings to life the voices of more than 100 women as well as the spirit of those times, allowing the women to tell their stories in gripping and intimate detail.

©2006 Ann H. Fessler (P)2016 Tantor Adoption & Fostering Americas Gender Studies Parenting & Families Relationships Social Sciences Women Adoption Inspiring Thought-Provoking Heartfelt

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"Fessler recounts her own journey to find and reunite with her birth mother in this heartrending look at the untold story of American women compelled to surrender their children." ( Booklist)

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it was an intense emotional book. it put words to some of the struggles I had in my heart that I didn't have words for before. it opened my heart to the women who suffer in silence. it gave me a new perspective on my birthmom and my brothers birthmom.

wow....I am an adoptee and a birthmom

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A wonderful book about what the baby snatch era was really like. The book is based on facts, but it is also gripping. Easy to follow. Worth every minute of my time. A must read for anyone who works in the adoption triad.

A fantastic read!

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I am glad I read this. I'm adopted. I hope to find my biological mother.

This is a good book to read if you are adopted.

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I am not close to anyone who is adopted, or who gave up a baby, but having listened to this book I feel a great compassion for people on both sides of the situation. Previously I assumed the stance of adoption being a great solution for all concerned, but having had three children of my own I now can't imagine having given one up to the unknown. The coercion that these girls went through, when they were incredibly vulnerable already, is amazing, and the thought of living with this the rest of your life is torturous. Thank you, Ann Fessler, for bringing this to light, for letting those living with it know that they are not alone, and those of us on the outside become aware of how multi-faceted adoption really is.

Greatly Increased My Understanding and Compassion

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If you have any connection to adoption in your family during the 1960’s this book is a must read. It touched me so deeply. Highly recommend!

Just incredible

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An amazing topic covered well through so many individual perspectives. This story makes the case for how far we have come as a society and how far we are being threatened fo regress but the current administration.

Profound and emotional stories.

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I absolutely loved this book. I was captivated throughout. One of the best books I have read.

An Amazing Book

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A must read for all adoptees of the 50's, 60's and 70's. I wish this book had been around when I met my BM in 1984. I would have understood her life so much better.

A must read for all adoptees

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Only the sadness and empathy for what so many people suffered because of the callous societal practices.

Important history

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I found this book very insightful and now better understand what my grandma went through giving away her first born. I never understood the social pressures she experienced until now. My mom had me as a teen and also experienced family rejection from it. The book was a little bit long for me but I’m sure the book is perfect length for someone more so affected by this topic.

Accidentally found this and glad I did!

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