
The Sweet Spot
The Pleasures of Suffering and the Search for Meaning
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Narrated by:
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Sean Patrick Hopkins
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Paul Bloom
About this listen
From the author of Against Empathy comes a different kind of happiness book, one that shows us how suffering is an essential source of both pleasure and meaning in our lives.
Why do we so often seek out physical pain and emotional turmoil? We go to movies that make us cry, or scream, or gag. We poke at sores, eat spicy foods, immerse ourselves in hot baths, run marathons. Some of us even seek out pain and humiliation in sexual role-play. Where do these seemingly perverse appetites come from?
Drawing on groundbreaking findings from psychology and brain science, The Sweet Spot shows how the right kind of suffering sets the stage for enhanced pleasure. Pain can distract us from our anxieties and help us transcend the self. Choosing to suffer can serve social goals; it can display how tough we are or, conversely, can function as a cry for help. Feelings of fear and sadness are part of the pleasure of immersing ourselves in play and fantasy and can provide certain moral satisfactions. And effort, struggle, and difficulty can, in the right contexts, lead to the joys of mastery and flow.
But suffering plays a deeper role as well. We are not natural hedonists - a good life involves more than pleasure. People seek lives of meaning and significance; we aspire to rich relationships and satisfying pursuits, and this requires some amount of struggle, anxiety, and loss. Brilliantly argued, witty, and humane, Paul Bloom shows how a life without chosen suffering would be empty - and worse than that, boring.
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- 01-01-22
A great listen, but not too much of added value
This audiobook was hugely enjoyable, because I am very much interested in the topic and it has provided a good summary of theories on what makes people happy. However, it did not go much further beyond that. There is too little of added value provided beyond summarising (perfectly, though) ideas of others.
The narrator is excellent. For the first time I looked up on what else he is narrating, intending to pick a book based on a narrator and not on the content.
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- todd scarborough
- 07-01-22
We cannot be reminded enough!!
The Sweet spot, the Goldilock zone, the flow state is the best state in which to live. We must be ever present to be able to stay in it. When we do amazing things happen. We live life to the fullest. As with Arithmetic, English and History, learning how to live in this Flow State should be taught as a mandatory class in high school. Well done Mr. Bloom and you as well Mr. Hopkins.
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- E.M.
- 02-22-23
Balance the Risk with Reward
Paul Bloom hits the nail on the proverbial head with his lucid and well supported approach to appreciating the pain in the process as a compliment to the level of satisfaction with the outcome.
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- Zuzana
- 12-01-21
Very pretty - and somewhat empty
The premise of this book is that "it will tell you what you didn't know you already knew". This is on the nose. I don't recall much new that I learned from it. BUT, the writing is GREAT, there's plenty research cited, the arguments are sound and the narration is top notch. The pig was completely satisfied, Socrates not so much.
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- faith
- 11-12-21
Great insights ! Great narrator
This is a very erudite deep work the author who dissects the issues with studies and examples. I would have loved to hear a little bit more of the commentary and insights. I did seem to get lost in the studies and maybe a little frustrated as the writer tried to conclude at the end of the chapter with multiple points of view which seemed a little confusing as it was done how scientists do..a little reluctant to make clean conclusions. Maybe the author was trying to find a sweet spot in trying to land the arguments. I would have appreciated more directness like Nassim Nicholas Taleb not as bold but a little more. This is a great piece of work so I have no qualms in recommending but this is not for every one. Great narrator.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-26-23
An interesting insight into the human nature
An excellent and scientific based assessment of our brain’s most annoying feature: the like for suffering.
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- Wayne
- 11-06-21
Intriguing
Professor Paul Bloom presents lots to contemplate while elaborating with data and logic on his claim that suffering is essential to both pleasure and meaning in our lives. I cannot recall prior to The Sweet Spot ever before listening to a book a second time immediately after finishing it. Sean Patrick Hopkins does an excellent job f narrating this fascinating book.
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- KellysHero718
- 05-06-23
Couldn't Finish It
I tried awfully hard to like this book, as I have a general sense that the author's position is correct, but the book is mostly anecdotal drivel rather than science or anything like it. Greta Thunberg was one of the first "experts" quoted and I never got past that, despite trying. A pox on it.
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- Gayle Scroggs, PhD, PCC
- 11-17-21
Why do we suffer gladly?
Bloom relies on data, anecdotes, common sense, and persuasion to make the case for multiple motivations for what we chose to suffer. While some of his conclusions won't surprise you, the details can be fascinating and even quirky.
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