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How an Autism Diagnosis Saved My Life
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Paige Layle
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Paige Layle
About this listen
Autism acceptance activist and TikTok influencer Paige Layle shares her deeply personal journey to diagnosis and living life autistically.
“For far too long, I was told I was just like everyone else. But knew it couldn’t be true. Living just seemed so much harder for me. This wasn’t okay. This wasn’t normal. This wasn’t functioning. And it certainly wasn’t fine.”
Paige Layle was normal. She lived in the countryside with her mom, dad, and brother Graham. She went to school, hung out with friends, and all the while everything seemed so much harder than it needed to be. A break in routine threw off the whole day. If her teacher couldn't answer “why” in class, she dissolved into tears, unable to articulate her own confusion or explain her lack of control.
But Paige was normal. She smiled in photos, picked her feet up when her mom needed to vacuum instead of fleeing the room, and earned high grades. She had friends and loved to perform in local theater productions. It wasn’t until a psychiatrist said she wasn’t doing okay, that anyone believed her.
In But Everyone Feels This Way, Paige Layle shares her story as an autistic woman diagnosed late. Armed with the phrase “Autism Spectrum Disorder” (ASD), Paige challenges stigmas, taboos, and stereotypes while learning how to live her authentic, autistic life.
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Critic reviews
“Paige Layle’s book will be especially helpful to provide insight for women diagnosed with autism later in life.”—Dr. Temple Grandin, author of Thinking in Pictures and Visual Thinking
"Paige’s heartfelt and honest account illustrates why first-hand storytelling is important for diving into the deep minds of autistic people.”—Jory Fleming, author of How to Be Human: An Autistic Man’s Guide to Life
"We are in the middle of a moment of self-discovery and awakening for many Autistic adults, particularly those from marginalized backgrounds. Paige Layle's But Everyone Feels this Way is an important contribution to this movement, and in its pages, I am certain many Autistics in search of understanding and a place within our growing community will see themselves.”—Dr. Devon Price, author of Unmasking Autism and Unlearning Shame
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The difference that being female makes to the diagnosis, life and experiences of an autistic person is hugely significant. In this second edition, Sarah Hendrickx combines the latest research with personal stories from girls and women on the autism spectrum to present a picture of their feelings, thoughts and experiences at each stage of their lives. Outlining the likely impact will be for autistic women and girls throughout their lifespan, Hendrickx surveys everything from diagnosis, childhood, education, adolescence, friendships and sexuality, to employment, pregnancy, parenting, and aging.
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How thorough the research was, and how correct the findings about Autism
- By Anonymous User on 05-27-25
By: Sarah Hendrickx, and others
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Against All Odds
- Katie Piper's The Unseen
- By: Ellie Goldstein, Katie Piper - foreword
- Narrated by: Lauren Windle
- Length: 5 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
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When Ellie Goldstein was first diagnosed with Down Syndrome, her mother was soon told that her new-born would amount to nothing. For 21 years and counting, Ellie Goldstein has been defying the odds and overcoming every hardship thrown at her. Told she wouldn't walk, Ellie has danced on mainstages. Told she wouldn't learn, she has gained a college education. And told not to dream, Ellie has gone on to become the first model with Down Syndrome to be photographed for Gucci and continues to change the face of fashion from the inside out in countless international campaigns.
By: Ellie Goldstein, and others
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I Overcame My Autism and All I Got Was This Lousy Anxiety Disorder
- A Memoir
- By: Sarah Kurchak
- Narrated by: Zura Johnson
- Length: 8 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
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Sarah Kurchak is autistic. She hasn’t let that get in the way of pursuing her dream to become a writer, or to find love, but she has let it get in the way of being in the same room with someone chewing food loudly and of cleaning her bathroom sink. In I Overcame My Autism and All I Got Was This Lousy Anxiety Disorder, Kurchak examines the Byzantine steps she took to become “an autistic success story”, how the process almost ruined her life, and how she is now trying to recover.
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encompassing
- By Nathaniel Rockarts on 03-15-21
By: Sarah Kurchak
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What I Mean When I Say I'm Autistic
- Unpuzzling a Life on the Autism Spectrum
- By: Annie Kotowicz
- Narrated by: Meredith Aleigha Wells
- Length: 3 hrs and 42 mins
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In this intimate and insightful mix of memoir and manifesto, Annie Kotowicz invites you inside the mind of an autistic woman, sharing the trials and triumphs of a life before and after diagnosis.
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Great info
- By Kel on 05-09-25
By: Annie Kotowicz
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The Autistic Survival Guide to Therapy
- By: Steph Jones
- Narrated by: Collette Byrne
- Length: 6 hrs and 57 mins
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In this candid, witty and insightful exploration into therapy, Steph Jones uses her professional and lived experiences as a late diagnosed autistic woman and therapist, as well as consulting therapists from across the world and tapping into the autistic community, to create the ultimate autistic survival guide to therapy. Steph confronts the statistics, inadequate practices and ableist therapists head on and poses the questions of how we can make therapy neurodivergence-affirming and how to create safe spaces for autistic individuals.
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Underrated Book
- By Steven Huynh on 04-20-24
By: Steph Jones
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Spectrum Women
- Walking to the Beat of Autism
- By: Barb Cook - editor, Dr Michelle Garnett - editor, Lisa Morgan - foreward, and others
- Narrated by: Emily Joyce, Vivien Carter
- Length: 9 hrs and 51 mins
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Barb Cook and 14 other autistic women describe life from a female autistic perspective, and present empowering, helpful and supportive insights from their personal experience for fellow autistic women. Michelle Garnett's comments validate and expand the experiences described from a clinician's perspective, and provide extensive recommendations. Autistic advocates including Liane Holliday Willey, Anita Lesko, Jeanette Purkis, Artemisia and Samantha Craft offer their personal guidance on significant issues that particularly affect women, as well as those that are more general to autism.
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It feels patronizing
- By M on 09-08-23
By: Barb Cook - editor, and others
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Love & Autism
- By: Kay Kerr
- Narrated by: Kay Kerr
- Length: 5 hrs and 49 mins
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Through the intimate writing of critically acclaimed autistic author Kay Kerr, Love & Autism presents an uplifting celebration of neurodivergent love, the search for it and a deeper look into the lives of autistic Australians.
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Probably an ok book for autistic teens/young adults
- By aninhaj on 07-13-24
By: Kay Kerr
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Aspergirls
- Empowering Females with Asperger Syndrome
- By: Rudy Simone
- Narrated by: Lucie McNeil
- Length: 7 hrs and 16 mins
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This is a must-have handbook written by an Aspergirl for Aspergirls, young and old. Rudy Simone guides you through every aspect of both personal and professional life, from early recollections of blame, guilt and savant skills to friendships, romance and marriage. Employment, career, rituals and routines are also covered, along with depression, meltdowns and being misunderstood.
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Oversimplified, basic, and gendered
- By Amazon Customer on 02-03-21
By: Rudy Simone
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Off the Spectrum
- Why the Science of Autism Has Failed Women and Girls
- By: Gina Rippon
- Narrated by: Catherine Bailey, Gina Rippon
- Length: 9 hrs and 3 mins
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In Off the Spectrum, cognitive neuroscientist Gina Rippon sheds light on how old ideas about autism leave women behind and how the scientific community must catch up. Generations of researchers, convinced autism was a male problem, simply didn’t bother looking for it in women, creating a snowball effect of biased research. Correcting a major scientific bias, Off the Spectrum provides a much-needed exploration of autism in women to parents, clinicians, and autistic women themselves.
By: Gina Rippon
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Fearlessly Different
- An Autistic Actor's Journey to Broadway's Biggest Stage
- By: Mickey Rowe
- Narrated by: Mickey Rowe
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
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My name is Mickey Rowe. I am an actor, a theatre director, a father, and a husband. I am also a man with autism. You think those things don’t go together? Let me show you that they do.
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Understanding the realities of disabled people
- By Lila on 03-24-22
By: Mickey Rowe
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Odd Girl Out
- By: Laura James
- Narrated by: Lucinda Clare
- Length: 8 hrs and 43 mins
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From childhood, Laura James knew she was different. She struggled to cope in a world that often made no sense to her, as though her brain had its own operating system. It wasn't until she reached her 40s that she found out why: Suddenly and surprisingly, she was diagnosed with autism. With a touching and searing honesty, Laura challenges everything we think we know about what it means to be autistic. Married with four children and a successful journalist, Laura examines the ways in which autism has shaped her career, her approach to motherhood, and her closest relationships.
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Narration is not my favorite
- By Linden on 03-01-21
By: Laura James
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Autism in Heels
- The Untold Story of a Female Life on the Spectrum
- By: Jennifer Cook O'Toole
- Narrated by: Jennifer O'Toole
- Length: 12 hrs and 39 mins
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This intimate memoir reveals the woman inside one of autism’s most prominent figures, Jennifer O'Toole. At the age of 35, Jennifer was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome, and for the first time in her life, things made sense. Now, she exposes the constant struggle between carefully crafted persona and authentic existence, editing the autism script with wit, candor, passion, and power. Her journey is one of reverse-self-discovery not only as an Aspie but - more importantly - as a thoroughly modern woman.
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Somewhat relatable but not really.
- By M Bond on 02-26-23
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Normal Sucks
- How to Live, Learn, and Thrive, Outside the Lines
- By: Jonathan Mooney
- Narrated by: Jonathan Mooney
- Length: 5 hrs and 1 min
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Jonathan Mooney blends anecdote, expertise, and memoir to present a new mode of thinking about how we live and learn - individually, uniquely, and with advantages and upshots to every type of brain and body. He explores the toll that being not normal takes on kids and adults when they’re trapped in environments that label them, shame them, and tell them, even in subtle ways, that they are the problem.
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Beautiful
- By Tasha on 09-30-19
By: Jonathan Mooney
Relatable
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Read by the author
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Life changing and FINALLY SEEN😭🥹
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Articulate and informative
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an awesome book!
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Honnest
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Very helpful perspective about growing up uniquely
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Open and honest about life as an autistic person. Hit home with a lot of my life
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Is definitely some point where I feel like more could've been done to wrap up the story and then Segway into the following story the book sort of follows a pattern of disconnectedness between the time jumps of one story to another from one time to the next. I feel like the author could've benefited by saying the story instead of writing it and then transferring it into words.
This is the only book I've completed went through, in years.
There were a lot of points I connected with and a lot that I did not. 80-20
I'm not making a real comment about the things that I'd like to say about things said in this book,
I used to think my ham had hair in it.
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This book is one of my personal favorites on ASD, absolutely a must read!
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