Why Can't I Just Enjoy Things?
A Comedian's Guide to Autism
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Pierre Novellie
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Pierre Novellie
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'Outstanding, I want to press it into the hands of every newly diagnosed person' Fern Brady
'Like a Martian's guide to living on Earth. Funny, enlightening and gobsmacking' Frank Skinner
'A hilarious, crystal-clear guide to autism' Phil Wang
'An illuminating and joyously entertaining book' Daily Express
Why were the other kids at school obsessed with Britney Spears instead of The Goon Show?
Why don't people ever say what they mean?
And... Why is everyone chewing so loudly?
Comedian Pierre Novellie was on stage when a heckler suggested he was autistic. Usually, this disruption would be water off a duck's back but two things made this heckler different: first, he was himself autistic. Second, he turned out to be absolutely right.
This random encounter led to a diagnosis of autism at the age of 31 that unravelled his world, explained his struggles and answered questions that had bothered him for his entire life.
At once a hilarious and insightful journey through autism and neurodivergence, an entertaining explainer for the uninitiated and observational comedy for the neurodiverse, this is the perfect read for anyone who has ever asked themselves: why can't I just enjoy things?
The audiobook includes an exclusive Q&A with comedian and BudPod co-host, Phil Wang.
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- OliviaL
- 12-07-24
Amazing
This book was so well written. And Pierre’s description of social behaviors and other things was so clear and logical - it was a pleasure to read. Also, this book helped me a lot more in my autistic journey because Pierre and I have some similarities in the way we experience - and don’t experience - certain things. I despair about the differences I feel from other autistic people but this has helped me.
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- Helle
- 11-03-24
I've listened 4 times it is so good
I found this book right at the time I suspected my boyfriend and my self of being autistic. it was a revelation and a troubleing realisation was cushioned by the humor and good nature of this book.
The audio is great too, I could listen to this also to go to sleep, it is soothing. thanks alot for your contribution.
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- Sky S.
- 11-21-24
It me, the book
what a wonderful book. I'm sending it to everyone I know so I don't have to repeat the same things over and over.
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