Can I See Your Hands
A Guide to Situational Awareness, Personal Risk Management, Resilience and Security
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The title of this audiobook, Can I See Your Hands, refers to one of the key outcomes of this audiobook - being able to tell whether or not people want to cause us harm. To put it very simply, if you can see someone's hands and they are not concealing them, holding a weapon or positioning to strike you, one's levels of trust and confidence can increase. This simple example can serve as a reminder to all of us in many of the complex moments we have to deal with, and difficult decisions we have to make, in everyday life.
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The revised and updated edition of Lt. Col. Dave Grossman's modern classic about the psychology of combat, hailed by the Washington Post as "an illuminating account of how soldiers learn to kill and how they live with the experiences of having killed". In World War II, only 15 to 20 percent of combat infantry were willing to fire their rifles. In Korea, about 50 percent. In Vietnam, the figure rose to more than 90 percent. The good news is that most soldiers are loath to kill.
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The Power of Awareness
- And Other Secrets from the World's Foremost Spies, Detectives, and Special Operators on How to Stay Safe and Save Your Life
- By: Dan Schilling
- Narrated by: Dan Schilling
- Length: 7 hrs and 6 mins
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In his empowering book, Dan Schilling shares how to identify and avoid threats using situational awareness and intuition just like the pros. Told with wit and wisdom, this compelling guide uses harrowing stories from Dan's special operations career and those of other experts to outline six easily implemented rules you can apply anywhere to improve your personal safety.
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Good information but a miss on delivery possibly
- By HonestBuyer on 04-30-23
By: Dan Schilling
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Spotting Danger Before It Spots You
- Build Situational Awareness to Stay Safe
- By: Gary Dean Quesenberry, Lt. Col. Dave Grossman (ret.)
- Narrated by: Gary Dean Quesenberry
- Length: 4 hrs and 13 mins
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Continuing on the path of The Gift of Fear (Gavin deBecker) Spotting Danger Before It Spots You is geared towards the average citizen who at any moment could find themselves faced with a violent encounter but may lack the training needed to detect the situation early or react to it appropriately.
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great book beyond awareness
- By Theresa S. on 03-20-24
By: Gary Dean Quesenberry, and others
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Seal Survival Guide
- A Navy Seal's Secrets to Surviving Any Disaster
- By: Cade Courtley
- Narrated by: R.C. Bray
- Length: 9 hrs and 47 mins
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Former Navy SEAL and preeminent American survivalist Cade Courtley delivers step-by-step instructions anyone can master in this user-friendly guide. From random shootings to deadly wildfires to terrorist attacks, the reality is that modern life is unpredictable and dangerous. Don't live in fear or rely on luck. Learn the SEAL mindset: Be prepared, feel confident, step up, and know exactly how to survive any life-threatening situation.
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If I was a Navy seal I could totally do this.
- By colleen on 03-31-15
By: Cade Courtley
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Left of Bang
- How the Marine Corps’ Combat Hunter Program Can Save Your Life
- By: Patrick Van Horne, Jason A. Riley
- Narrated by: Danny Campbell
- Length: 5 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
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You walk into a restaurant and get an immediate sense that you should leave. You are about to step onto an elevator with a stranger, and something stops you. You interview a potential new employee who has the résumé to do the job, but something tells you not to offer the position. These scenarios all represent "left of bang", the moments before something bad happens.
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Easier to follow when read
- By Chris Hutchinson on 04-29-16
By: Patrick Van Horne, and others
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Facing Violence
- Preparing for the Unexpected
- By: Rory Miller, Barry Eisler
- Narrated by: Danny Campbell
- Length: 8 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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Rory Miller's Facing Violence: Preparing for the Unexpected includes seven elements that must be addressed to bring self-defense training to something approaching complete. These elements are: legal and ethical implications, violence dynamics, avoidance, counter-ambush, breaking the freeze, the fight itself, and the aftermath. Training that dismisses any of these areas leaves you vulnerable.
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Very realistic views on violence
- By Bluegrass on 01-06-18
By: Rory Miller, and others
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On Killing
- The Psychological Cost of Learning to Kill in War and Society
- By: Lt. Col. Dave Grossman
- Narrated by: Lt. Col. Dave Grossman
- Length: 10 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
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The revised and updated edition of Lt. Col. Dave Grossman's modern classic about the psychology of combat, hailed by the Washington Post as "an illuminating account of how soldiers learn to kill and how they live with the experiences of having killed". In World War II, only 15 to 20 percent of combat infantry were willing to fire their rifles. In Korea, about 50 percent. In Vietnam, the figure rose to more than 90 percent. The good news is that most soldiers are loath to kill.
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Adam G
- By Mattie on 05-20-10
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The Power of Awareness
- And Other Secrets from the World's Foremost Spies, Detectives, and Special Operators on How to Stay Safe and Save Your Life
- By: Dan Schilling
- Narrated by: Dan Schilling
- Length: 7 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
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In his empowering book, Dan Schilling shares how to identify and avoid threats using situational awareness and intuition just like the pros. Told with wit and wisdom, this compelling guide uses harrowing stories from Dan's special operations career and those of other experts to outline six easily implemented rules you can apply anywhere to improve your personal safety.
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Good information but a miss on delivery possibly
- By HonestBuyer on 04-30-23
By: Dan Schilling
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Spotting Danger Before It Spots You
- Build Situational Awareness to Stay Safe
- By: Gary Dean Quesenberry, Lt. Col. Dave Grossman (ret.)
- Narrated by: Gary Dean Quesenberry
- Length: 4 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
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Continuing on the path of The Gift of Fear (Gavin deBecker) Spotting Danger Before It Spots You is geared towards the average citizen who at any moment could find themselves faced with a violent encounter but may lack the training needed to detect the situation early or react to it appropriately.
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great book beyond awareness
- By Theresa S. on 03-20-24
By: Gary Dean Quesenberry, and others
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Seal Survival Guide
- A Navy Seal's Secrets to Surviving Any Disaster
- By: Cade Courtley
- Narrated by: R.C. Bray
- Length: 9 hrs and 47 mins
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Former Navy SEAL and preeminent American survivalist Cade Courtley delivers step-by-step instructions anyone can master in this user-friendly guide. From random shootings to deadly wildfires to terrorist attacks, the reality is that modern life is unpredictable and dangerous. Don't live in fear or rely on luck. Learn the SEAL mindset: Be prepared, feel confident, step up, and know exactly how to survive any life-threatening situation.
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If I was a Navy seal I could totally do this.
- By colleen on 03-31-15
By: Cade Courtley
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Left of Bang
- How the Marine Corps’ Combat Hunter Program Can Save Your Life
- By: Patrick Van Horne, Jason A. Riley
- Narrated by: Danny Campbell
- Length: 5 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
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You walk into a restaurant and get an immediate sense that you should leave. You are about to step onto an elevator with a stranger, and something stops you. You interview a potential new employee who has the résumé to do the job, but something tells you not to offer the position. These scenarios all represent "left of bang", the moments before something bad happens.
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Easier to follow when read
- By Chris Hutchinson on 04-29-16
By: Patrick Van Horne, and others
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When Violence Is the Answer
- Learning How to Do What It Takes When Your Life Is at Stake
- By: Tim Larkin
- Narrated by: Tim Larkin
- Length: 6 hrs and 59 mins
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In this essential new book, self-protection expert and former military intelligence officer Tim Larkin changes the way we think about violence in order to save our lives. By deconstructing our assumptions about violence - its morality, its function in modern society, how it actually works - Larkin unlocks the shackles of our own taboos and arms us with what we need to know to prevent, prepare for, and survive the unthinkable event of life-or-death violence.
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Excellent book on when violence is the only answer
- By GC on 09-20-17
By: Tim Larkin
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The Ultimate Survival Medicine Guide
- Emergency Preparedness for Any Disaster
- By: Joseph Alton MD, Amy Alton ARNP
- Narrated by: Matthew Boston
- Length: 9 hrs and 4 mins
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This book is written by America's top medical preparedness experts: Joe Alton, MD, and Amy Alton, ARNP. Their mission: to put a medically prepared person in every family for when medical help is not on the way. Using decades of medical experience, they address, in plain language, dozens of medical issues associated with surviving disasters and epidemics. The Altons also discuss the medical supplies needed to become a medical asset to your family and community as well as alternative and natural strategies for when pharmaceuticals aren't available.
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very informative
- By jlm on 03-26-20
By: Joseph Alton MD, and others
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Prepper's Home Defense
- Security Strategies to Protect Your Family by Any Means Necessary
- By: Jim Cobb, Jerry Ahern - foreword
- Narrated by: Matthew Boston
- Length: 5 hrs
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Does your disaster preparation plan include security measures? When civilization fails and the desperate masses begin looting, they will come for your food, water, and life-sustaining supplies. This book tells you how to implement a complete plan for operational security and physical defense.
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One point of contention
- By Elainie Hudson on 02-18-23
By: Jim Cobb, and others
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On Combat
- The Psychology and Physiology of Deadly Conflict in War and in Peace
- By: Dave Grossman, Loren W. Christensen
- Narrated by: Dave Grossman
- Length: 18 hrs and 41 mins
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On Combat looks at what happens to the human body under the stresses of deadly battle and the impact on the nervous system, heart, breathing, visual and auditory perception, memory - then discusses new research findings as to what measure warriors can take to prevent such debilitations so they can stay in the fight, survive, and win. A brief, but insightful look at history shows the evolution of combat, the development of the physical and psychological leverage that enables humans to kill other humans, followed by an objective examination of domestic violence in America.
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Just what I needed.
- By Jonah on 03-21-17
By: Dave Grossman, and others
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Violence of Mind
- Training and Preparation for Extreme Violence
- By: Varg Freeborn
- Narrated by: Varg Freeborn
- Length: 8 hrs and 42 mins
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A book covering the topic of self-defense from a shocking, firsthand perspective. The subjects of criminal violence, self-defense, lethal force, mindset, firearms training, and concealment have never been introduced so comprehensively in one place.
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Awesome Book!!
- By Scott on 02-16-21
By: Varg Freeborn
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Be a Hero
- The Essential Survival Guide to Active-Shooter Events
- By: John Geddes, Alun Rees, Don Mann - foreword
- Narrated by: Simon Mattacks
- Length: 3 hrs and 59 mins
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It's never going to be you. Then one day you hear the clatter of automatic fire at the mall. You have been drawn into the chaos and terror of an active shooter event. What do you do? Who do you turn to? Be a Hero is the essential guide to terrorist attacks that will help you survive. Former Special Air Service terror expert John Geddes will explain how to cope with a life-threatening event.
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Great book
- By Amazon Customer on 07-06-19
By: John Geddes, and others
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Concrete Jungle
- A Green Beret's Guide to Urban Survival
- By: Clay Martin
- Narrated by: Richard Cefalos
- Length: 4 hrs and 16 mins
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As cultural war clouds gather, cities are becoming the flashpoint. In this volume, retired Special Forces soldier Clay Martin teaches you how to survive it. A multi-tour GWOT veteran and Special Forces Advanced Urban Combat instructor, as well as long time prepper and competitive shooter, Clay brings a different type of skill set to the party. From laying in supplies to siege proofing your apartment building, this volume answers the questions other experts cannot.
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Invaluable
- By Ed S on 09-21-22
By: Clay Martin
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The Warrior Poet Way
- A Guide to Living Free and Dying Well
- By: John Lovell
- Narrated by: John Lovell, Rebekah Lovell
- Length: 7 hrs and 46 mins
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There is a war on masculinity, and everywhere we look—on every front we hold sacred—we can see the painful reminders of this collapsing order. The chaos and crisis we are experiencing today should be a signal for men everywhere to rise up; to fight to preserve our way of life by once again walking the ancient paths. But this isn’t a journey that need be taken alone.
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It’s so good that I bought both Audible and ebook versions
- By NotACat on 07-17-23
By: John Lovell
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The Sniper Mind
- Eliminate Fear, Deal with Uncertainty, and Make Better Decisions
- By: David Amerland
- Narrated by: Jonathan Cowley
- Length: 11 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
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Snipers are exceptional. The trained sniper is a complex fusion of hard skills such as weapons knowledge, situational awareness, knowledge of ballistics and physics, and soft skills such as emotional stability, empathy, and a stoic acceptance of the hardships associated with a particular set of circumstances. There are countless instances where a single sniper, embarking on a secret mission, would have to improvise, operate beyond any hope of support, and yet still manage to carry out the mission and get back home unharmed.
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Very good listen, a wealth of information.
- By Bill on 01-23-20
By: David Amerland
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The Big Bloody Book of Violence
- The Smart Person's Guide for Surviving Dangerous Times: What Every Person Must Know About Self-Defense
- By: Kris Wilder, Lawrence Kane
- Narrated by: Kris Wilder
- Length: 12 hrs and 52 mins
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We could whine about how we live in dangerous times nowadays, but let's face it, all throughout history ordinary people have been at risk of violence in one way or another. Abdicating personal responsibility by outsourcing your safety to others might be the easy way out, but it does little to safeguard your welfare. In this book you'll discover what dangers you face and learn proven strategies to thwart them.
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Not for snowflakes!
- By Phillip on 07-23-23
By: Kris Wilder, and others
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Unmasking the Social Engineer
- The Human Element of Security
- By: Christopher Hadnagy, Paul F. Kelly, Paul Ekman
- Narrated by: Christopher Hadnagy
- Length: 5 hrs and 20 mins
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Unmasking the Social Engineer: The Human Element of Security focuses on combining the science of understanding nonverbal communications with the knowledge of how social engineers, scam artists, and con men use these skills to build feelings of trust and rapport in their targets. The author helps listeners understand how to identify and detect social engineers and scammers by analyzing their nonverbal behavior. Unmasking the Social Engineer shows how attacks work.
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Loved
- By vrukav6 on 07-24-23
By: Christopher Hadnagy, and others
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The Gift of Fear
- Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence
- By: Gavin de Becker
- Narrated by: Gavin de Becker
- Length: 12 hrs and 50 mins
- Unabridged
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These days, no one in America feels immune to violence. But now, in this extraordinary, groundbreaking book, the nation's leading expert on predicting violent behavior unlocks the puzzle of human violence and shows that, like every creature on earth, we have within us the ability to predict the harm others might do us and get out of its way. Contrary to popular myth, human violence almost always has a discernible motive and is preceded by clear warning signs.
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Decent book severely undermined by last chapter.
- By zachary on 11-01-22
By: Gavin de Becker
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- Jarrod
- 02-11-21
Helps get you in the right mindset.
This puts you in the mindset of “I’m not going to be victimized.” The practices mentioned at simple and the presentation is easy to understand. Great listen and it’s quick.
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- Mike
- 06-08-20
Great Knowledge for Self Protection.
Great information. The author definitely had done his research well. I recommend you listen to this book.
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- Steve Dietrich
- 09-17-20
Awesome
Great exploration of recognizing danger and maintaining situational awareness. Highly recommended companion to Gift of Fear .
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- Monica Rodriguez
- 11-25-23
The breakdown of the topics
I liked the way the information was presented and made digestible. I will definitely be able to employ the information and skills to improve my personal self defense
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- D&L
- 12-27-20
Can I see your hands
The book had a lot of useful information how ever I think this one should be read not listened to.
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- Anthony
- 03-08-21
Surprisingly good
I found this very interesting and consumable. I can switch off if a book isn't resonating with me and I was captivated through the entire book. I made a note to revisit this again in six months. While some of it may seem obvious.... when it is presented with anecdotal evidence I found it really enjoyable and relatable.
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- B. Visher
- 04-30-23
Not what I thought it would be
The information was basic, there was a point i almost stopped the book when the author began blaming violence on Video Games & Movies. I had access to both and turned out fine (Without a Criminal Record)
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- Joe Breze
- 10-11-20
Well thought and extremely helpful.
Enjoyed the book and the information strsight to the point. By the end of the book, I became more aware to the things in my life that were a vulnerability, and how to make myself a harder target. Well done book.
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- Mahto Fast Horse
- 06-04-22
Fascinating
I wish everyone could read this book. The world would e a safer place if they did.
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- Dan & Lisa
- 11-13-24
Wanted to like it more...
I discovered the author while he was interviewed in a podcast. Seemed legit and he actually captured my attention. Decided to purchase his book since he was referencing material from it. I've read Grossman's books and have met him in person so I figured I'd give Schneider a shot. I wanted to like it. Yes, many references to Gavin de Becker and yes, a lot of the material seemed to be repeated in the book (which can sometimes be helpful if someone is trying to retain the knowledge) but the part that I couldn't get past was the narrator's voice and presentation. I did purchase the book without being an Audible subscriber so there was nothing I could do in regards to returning it and that's on me. Now I'm familiar with previewing a potential purchase and getting the hang of being an Audible subscriber. So, overall, good book, good useful material, but hands down for me on the narration.
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