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Narrated by:
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Valerie Gilbert
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By:
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Bianca Clovis
About this listen
Deployments are hard on military couples. This audiobook discusses 11 of the most common mistakes that couples make during deployment and how to prevent them. Mistakes include:
- Overspending before a deployment
- Lack of communication
- Not seeking help for depression and anxiety
This audiobook was written by a former military spouse whose marriage ended 13 months after a deployment. Bianca Clovis is devoted to helping other military families avoid the mistakes she and her soldier husband made.
©2014 Bianca Clovis (P)2014 Bianca ClovisListeners also enjoyed...
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- Amor
- 07-06-18
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It was very helpful. I happy I found this book. I will tell my military wife's group about this book.
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- Josh J.
- 08-21-18
Irrelevant to the majority
The writer of this book married after only knowing her husband a few months and was only married a short time prior to the deployment. This book was not at all relevant to myself or the military wives I know. If you are looking for advise on how to handle deployments and you have an established marriage keep looking!
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