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  • Anatomy of an Affair

  • How Affairs, Attractions, and Addictions Develop, and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them
  • By: Dave Carder
  • Narrated by: Tom Parks
  • Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (133 ratings)

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Anatomy of an Affair

By: Dave Carder
Narrated by: Tom Parks
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When it comes to adultery, never say, "It won't happen to me."

Just when you think your marriage is safe from adultery is when you may be the most vulnerable. With eye-opening stories, clinical insights, and up-to-date data, Dave Carder reveals what adulterers learned the hard way - and what they want the rest of us to know to save us the pain. Dave Carder, counselor and author of the best-selling Torn Asunder (100,000 in print), is a sought-after expert on issues of adultery. Here he helps you make your marriage adultery-proof by showing you:

  • How attractions can lead to affairs
  • Ways you may be vulnerable to affairs
  • The common ingredients of adultery
  • How to restore intimacy to your marriage
  • How to make wise, protective decisions
  • Marriage is too sacred to be taken casually

Affairs are a very real threat, and they can destroy lives and families. For this reason, Anatomy of an Affair should be on every church leader's and marriage counselor's required book list, and in the lives of every married couple.

©2017 eChristian (P)2017 eChristian
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Affairs are more than sex

This book is the first book that I have ever read that discussed the emotional and addictive parts of an affair. I found David Carter’s ideas extremely enlightening. This book, if followed, could save someone a lot of grief.

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Excellent book

Helpful for understanding affairs & addictions & identifying ways to proactively insulate yourself/relationship from it for life

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Simply Awesome

I believe audio books need to be easy to listen to, even to necessary mundane details, as well as contain captivating stories to keep our attention. This book offers both at a very high level. Simply awesome!

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Love this book!

I read it twice! It is a wonderful, insightful book on how to deal with close calls in your marriage.

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Excellent read

I couldn’t stop listening and I’ll actually buy a hard copy. It was quite an eye opener and learnt a lot. I’ll recommend it to my wife and friends.

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A great listen

Easily digestible content that makes sense in understanding how and when affairs happen. I would suggest this to anyone who is getting married to avoid the disaster and destruction of a relationships when affairs happen.

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Excellent book

The title had me unsure if I wanted to read this, but the description made me interested. I really enjoyed it for such a sensitive subject. Very informative and relatable. Lots of useful exercises that I can’t wait to do with my husband to learn more about ourselves, each other and to help protect our marriage. Highly recommend.

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Never say, “It won’t happen to me.”

This is a Great and informative book for married couples to read about the warnings of close call relationships that could lead to an affair!

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Very good!

It explains amazingly the different kind of affairs. Why people cheat and the link between family or origin and infidelity. it also gives tips to avoid the affair. Sadly, you do not read it until you already have a BROKEN HEART.

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Every couple should read this

I wish I would’ve had this book many years ago...Must read for ALL couples.

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