Getting Over an Affair
Healing After Being Cheated on And Regaining Your Sense of Worth
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Rebekah Clarke
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The pain of being cheated on is an emotional trauma that's incredibly difficult to endure, let alone heal from. The shattering realisation that your partner has strayed and given themselves to another is heartbreaking. You think your life is over, you doubt you'll ever be happy again, and you just want things to go back to how they were before. Perhaps you wish you could go back in time and do something - anything - to stop the affair ever taking place. Maybe you’re praying that you’ll wake up one day and this is all one big horrible nightmare. The dark, painful feelings that we have to endure after discovering we’ve been cheated on are some of the worst days we’ll ever have to make it through. I know what you’re going through because I’ve also suffered the heartbreak of infidelity - but I also know what it feels like to come out of the other side.
From suffering a breakdown and neglecting myself and those around me, to now thriving and able to trust again, I know you can bounce back from this traumatic time. This book won’t offer judgement - I’m not here to tell you to leave the relationship nor am I an advocate for you to stay - but it will offer you the tools you need to heal. I’ll offer you my thoughts and advice based on my experiences, and I’ll give you a little glimpse of the pain I endured, too.
Throughout this book, I’ll cover the following:
- Why did your spouse cheat?
- The nasty effects a cheating spouse has on us.
- Coping strategies after discovering the infidelity.
- Building up your sense of worth.
- A non-judgemental commentary about the “should I leave the relationship or not” question you may be pondering.
- How to trust a new partner.
This book began as a little project for a website I was writing for, but as time went on, I decided it served best as a series of books that offer that same kind of comfort and actionable advice I needed when I endured the pain of infidelity.
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After the Affair
- Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
- By: Janis Abrahms Spring Ph.D., Michael Spring
- Narrated by: Janis Abrahams Spring Ph.D.
- Length: 2 hrs and 57 mins
- Abridged
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Many times infidelity is the death of a relationship - but an affair doesn't have to mean the end. Realistic ways of coping with pain, restoring self-esteem, and rebuilding trust and intimacy are available for the first time on audio in this guide by Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring. Dr. Spring is one of the few clinical psychologists in the US who specializes in infidelity. She offers original and proven strategies to those seeking guidance, sympathy, and solutions, laying to rest blame and recrimination and focusing instead on recovery.
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OW vs. Lover
- By Sculpturades on 01-27-16
By: Janis Abrahms Spring Ph.D., and others
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Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder
- The Six Stages of Healing
- By: Dennis C. Ortman PhD
- Narrated by: Paul Brion
- Length: 9 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
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The phrase "broken heart" belies the real trauma behind the all-too-common occurrence of infidelity. Psychologist Dennis Ortman likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and flashbacks. Dr. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. He also offers exercises to deepen recovery, such as guided meditations and journaling.
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Religious Slant Takes Away from Seriousness
- By Mr. Xtabay on 07-16-20
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Infidelity
- The Best Worst Thing that Could Happen to Your Marriage: The Complete Guide on How to Heal from Affairs
- By: Talal H Alsaleem LMFT
- Narrated by: Daan Stone
- Length: 5 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
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Infidelity: The Best Worst Thing That Could Happen to Your Marriage was written to help couples navigate their way to healing after experiencing the devastating impact of physical and emotional affairs. Listening to this book will allow you the opportunity to process the affair, assess the damage, and make an informed choice about the future of your relationship.
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night time bed story
- By BrownGuy78 on 09-20-22
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The Betrayal Bind
- How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst
- By: Michelle Mays LPC CSAT-S
- Narrated by: Sarah Welborn
- Length: 10 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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What happens when your partner, your primary person, in an instant, becomes a source of danger and pain? The Betrayal Bind introduces new language, concepts, and imagery to explore the crucial relational dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect to, yet connection is the key to healing.
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Sex With a Cheating Person?! NO!
- By Primetime on 12-19-23
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Not 'Just Friends'
- Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
- By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.D., Jean Coppock Staeheli
- Narrated by: Laural Merlington
- Length: 15 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
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Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.
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WORST to Read/Listen to if you are well past D Day
- By K on 02-04-17
By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.D., and others
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Questions to Ask a Cheater
- Questions to Ask a Cheating Spouse to Gain Closure and Heal Your Heart
- By: Rebekah Clarke
- Narrated by: Clare Radix
- Length: 1 hr and 15 mins
- Unabridged
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Talking to your partner after they’ve cheated is undeniably one of the toughest conversations you’ll ever have with them. You’ll be bubbling over with a ton of emotions - anger, upset, and frustration. The cheating partner will also have their own emotions to deal with - dread, uncertainty, and the shame of their actions.
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Thank you
- By Sam on 04-19-23
By: Rebekah Clarke
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After the Affair
- Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
- By: Janis Abrahms Spring Ph.D., Michael Spring
- Narrated by: Janis Abrahams Spring Ph.D.
- Length: 2 hrs and 57 mins
- Abridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
Many times infidelity is the death of a relationship - but an affair doesn't have to mean the end. Realistic ways of coping with pain, restoring self-esteem, and rebuilding trust and intimacy are available for the first time on audio in this guide by Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring. Dr. Spring is one of the few clinical psychologists in the US who specializes in infidelity. She offers original and proven strategies to those seeking guidance, sympathy, and solutions, laying to rest blame and recrimination and focusing instead on recovery.
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OW vs. Lover
- By Sculpturades on 01-27-16
By: Janis Abrahms Spring Ph.D., and others
-
Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder
- The Six Stages of Healing
- By: Dennis C. Ortman PhD
- Narrated by: Paul Brion
- Length: 9 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The phrase "broken heart" belies the real trauma behind the all-too-common occurrence of infidelity. Psychologist Dennis Ortman likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and flashbacks. Dr. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. He also offers exercises to deepen recovery, such as guided meditations and journaling.
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Religious Slant Takes Away from Seriousness
- By Mr. Xtabay on 07-16-20
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Infidelity
- The Best Worst Thing that Could Happen to Your Marriage: The Complete Guide on How to Heal from Affairs
- By: Talal H Alsaleem LMFT
- Narrated by: Daan Stone
- Length: 5 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
Infidelity: The Best Worst Thing That Could Happen to Your Marriage was written to help couples navigate their way to healing after experiencing the devastating impact of physical and emotional affairs. Listening to this book will allow you the opportunity to process the affair, assess the damage, and make an informed choice about the future of your relationship.
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night time bed story
- By BrownGuy78 on 09-20-22
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The Betrayal Bind
- How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst
- By: Michelle Mays LPC CSAT-S
- Narrated by: Sarah Welborn
- Length: 10 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
What happens when your partner, your primary person, in an instant, becomes a source of danger and pain? The Betrayal Bind introduces new language, concepts, and imagery to explore the crucial relational dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect to, yet connection is the key to healing.
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Sex With a Cheating Person?! NO!
- By Primetime on 12-19-23
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Not 'Just Friends'
- Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
- By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.D., Jean Coppock Staeheli
- Narrated by: Laural Merlington
- Length: 15 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.
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WORST to Read/Listen to if you are well past D Day
- By K on 02-04-17
By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.D., and others
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After a Good Man Cheats
- How to Rebuild Trust & Intimacy with Your Wife
- By: Caroline Madden PhD
- Narrated by: Cathi Colas
- Length: 2 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
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This audiobook is a practical action plan that will walk you through the first stages after your wife has discovered your infidelity. Learn the tools to fix your marriage. Avoid the (sometimes fatal) mistakes I've seen so many men make.
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Horrible, but with some helpful information
- By A reader on 10-15-21
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The State of Affairs
- Rethinking Infidelity
- By: Esther Perel
- Narrated by: Esther Perel
- Length: 11 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
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An affair: It can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. Adultery has existed since marriage was invented, and so, too, the prohibition against it - in fact it has a tenacity that marriage can only envy. Iconic couples' therapist and best-selling author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel returns with a groundbreaking and provocative look at infidelity, arguing for a more nuanced and less judgmental conversation about our transgressions.
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A compassionate approach
- By Anonymous User on 10-16-17
By: Esther Perel
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Living and Loving After Betrayal
- How to Heal from Emotional Abuse, Deceit, Infidelity, and Chronic Resentment
- By: Steven Stosny
- Narrated by: Arthur Morey
- Length: 6 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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Betrayal has many faces, including anger, abuse, deceit, and infidelity. These feel like betrayal because they violate the implicit promise of emotional bonds, that your loved one will care about your well-being and never intentionally hurt you. If you've recently left a relationship where you felt betrayed by your partner, you may have difficulty moving on. In fact, it can seem impossible to view the world without the shadow of past betrayal hovering over you. As a result, you may struggle to create meaning in your life and to build new, loving relationships.
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Best of the best with honors.. sir!
- By Joe Davis on 09-02-16
By: Steven Stosny
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I Love You but I Don’t Trust You
- The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship
- By: Mira Kirshenbaum
- Narrated by: Emily Durante
- Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
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Is my relationship worth saving? Will the trust ever come back? How can things be good between us again? Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged.
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for betrayed women - not men!
- By annonymous on 07-22-18
By: Mira Kirshenbaum
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Forgiving What You Can't Forget
- Discover How to Move On, Make Peace with Painful Memories, and Create a Life That's Beautiful Again
- By: Lysa TerKeurst
- Narrated by: Lysa TerKeurst
- Length: 8 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
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Have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of unresolved pain, playing offenses over and over in your mind? You know you can't go on like this, but you don't know what to do next. Lysa TerKeurst has wrestled through this journey. But in surprising ways, she’s discovered how to let go of bound-up resentment and overcome the resistance to forgiving people who aren’t willing to make things right. With deep empathy, therapeutic insight, and rich Bible teaching coming out of more than 1,000 hours of theological study, Lysa will help you stop suffering because of what other people have done to you.
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Heartfelt and practical
- By Michelle on 12-26-20
By: Lysa TerKeurst
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Attached
- The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love
- By: Amir Levine, Rachel Heller
- Narrated by: Robert Petkoff
- Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
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We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.
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Good book - just not a good one for Audible
- By Mark on 02-01-20
By: Amir Levine, and others