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Getting Past the Affair

A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On - Together or Apart

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Getting Past the Affair

By: Kristina Coop Gordon PhD, Donald H. Baucom PhD, Douglas K. Snyder PhD
Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
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Discovering that a partner has been unfaithful hits you like an earthquake. Long after the first jolt, emotional aftershocks can make it difficult to be there for your family, manage your daily life, and think clearly about your options. Whether you want to end the relationship or piece things back together, Getting Past the Affair guides you through the initial trauma so you can understand what happened and why before deciding how to move forward. Based on the only program that's been tested - and proven - to relieve destructive emotions in the wake of infidelity, this compassionate book offers support and expert advice from a team of award-winning couple therapists. If you stay with your spouse, you'll find realistic tips for rebuilding your marriage and restoring trust. But no matter which path you choose, you'll discover effective ways to recover personally, avoid lasting scars, and pursue healthier relationships in the future.

©2007 The Guilford Press (P)2017 Tantor Divorce & Separation Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Mental Health Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Social Sciences
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I can see how this can help if someone had this challenge in their life.

Great info

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I was betrayed. I have read many books. This one is my favorite so far.

Best Affair Book So Far, for me...

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Great book for someone who has been cheated on and for the cheater. It’s a must read as soon as you found out about the affair.

Affair

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Not for people who do not want to reconcile. This book doesn’t help those who do not want to stay with the cheating spouse

Not for people who do not want to reconcile

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Some reviews say they didn’t like the stories about the infidelity because it was painful. Truth is, the only way out is through and feeling those emotions that arise when you think about what happened. I liked the examples and it helped me understand and relate. There were a lot of hard truths but I think it’s necessary for true change to happen and to heal. This book encourages you to go deep within to find out the root cause of your behavior and talks on behalf of the guilty party and the hurt party. I loved this as you can try to understand how the other partner is feeling and what they are going through.

I gave it 4 instead of 5 because it would be so very helpful if there was a pdf that can be printed to do the work along with listening to the book. It would also be helpful if the chapters were named rather than just the chapter number.

Needs pdf for doing the work

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A good read for those trying to rebuild their relationship after an affair. However, both partners need to be willing and put in the work to do so.

Good read for rebuilding

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The book gave very good tips. I only wish that audible required PDF that noted the exercises that was referenced in the book

AudioBook needs PDF file

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My husband was unfaithful for some time, and when I found out he stopped it and decided to work on our marriage. I love this book because it focuses on the hurt person and helps us get through it. I am a mental health clinician and think this book is excellent.... I have not bought the actual book to go through the questions with him....

Excellent Book

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Great advice. Simple easy to follow. Definitely speaks directly to you and your spouse. Very informative.

Definitely worth listening to

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