How I Survived My Borderline Girlfriend
The Only Thing That Cures Narcissistic Abuse
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Michael William Denney
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In this audiobook, I will show you exactly what really is going on with your borderline boyfriend or girlfriend and his/her connection to you. I will show you why you can’t forget her no matter how hard you try, and I will show you the one thing you can do to completely heal from the unbelievable pain this relationship has given to you.
If you are interested in this audiobook, it is likely that you have been in this crazy rollercoaster with your borderline for a long time, and you believe that all of your research into BPD has given you significant insight into your relationship. But, I am here to tell you, as someone who has completely healed myself of the trauma of a BPD relationship, that no matter how much research you have done into this tragic mental illness and no matter how much work you have done on yourself, you still have no clue who she is, what her connection to you is, and what is eventually coming for you if you don’t achieve real healing.
That is what this audiobook will do for you. If you listen to it and follow my suggestions, you will find a very simple method that anyone can use to completely, once and for all, heal yourself of the lingering pain from this kind of narcissistic abuse. What have you got to lose? If you don't like what I write in this audiobook, you can go back to your borderline girlfriend and I will refund your misery 100 percent.
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- Gabriel
- 01-15-23
Best material on BPD abuse I’ve found
Denney’s YouTube channel and this book is the best material I have found on overcoming BPD abuse. It is very important reading for anyone who has allowed themselves to get into such a relationship.
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- Anonymous User
- 09-11-23
Funny and very helpful
I’ve read a lot about BPD recently, but this book has been the most helpful resource yet. I would recommend this book for some unfiltered truth about being in a relationship with a pwBPD, in order catapult recovery into progress.
I did’t realize how deep into me my BPD’s barb was, how much emotional abuse I had been subjected to and how unhealthy codependent I had become, nor how to start healing myself after the horrible experience of the “final discard”….
I know what I need to do now, and will commence the work to be done today.
Thanks Michael.
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- Lily
- 05-21-23
This will help you!
This might be the best book on dealing with a borderline. Very much rings true and brings so much clarity to the confusion and craziness. The advice is sound and what you need to move on and break the addiction to your borderline and get your life and happiness back.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-26-23
Mike's insights are fantastic and raw
Best insights on BPD I have found...by far!! He provides his real life experience and years of therapy to provide us what is really happening in the mind of a BPD and BPD relationships. I also recommend his youtube channel. Great stuff for understanding, dealing with and healing from any cluster - B in your life. Thanks Mike!
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- elizabeth craig
- 01-15-23
FANTASTIC! A must for anyone dealing with a BPD
I am a psychologist-I have been in my own therapy for years and years and years, and I have been in psychic pain for most, if not all, of my life because of my mother. I have a borderline mother-severe. I couldn’t TRULY see it or let myself know it-I don’t know why or how or what, but I finally after 57 years get it because of this book and his youtube channel. I was so traumatized by my mothers behavior-and the way that Mike conceptualized BPD and more importantly delivered exactly what a borderline is-kicked open the door for my healing. This is crucial to heal from ANY BPD in ur life. Outstanding. Sounds extreme but Mike helped me regain my life and take control. My fear is lifting for the first in YEARS.
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- "boatsongs2"
- 02-03-23
It was as if he was decrying my BPD ex.
BPD is one of the most misunderstood mental illnesses. It is often diagnosed or even thought of as bipolar. If I had. a dollar for every person that that said, “yeah I knew someone who’s
Bipolar” after to fell them my ex was BPD, I’d be a millionaire. Mike his the nail on the head with this one. Mine wasn’t a cheating one but she did make me second guess everything I did and was very violent. She had me falsely arrested four times for domestic violence even though I was the one with the bloody face. Cops don’t get it.
Trust what he says about no-contact. It’s the only way. They can manipulate you and you’ll take them back every time. It’s almost as hard or harder being away from them as it is being with them. As a good friend who experienced a similar relationship once told me, ‘it’s the sadness of the world.”
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- Ryan Pittman
- 04-13-23
great book
this book helped me regain my confidence. i wasnt crazy, i was the victim. i found this guys youtube and it is the most insightful channel with people suffering through this trauma
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- Anonymous
- 05-24-24
Wow
Absolutely to the point and spot on. Wow I will go try the 12 steps
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