
How Not to Fit In
An Unapologetic Guide to Navigating Autism and ADHD
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’The lack of information around how ADHD and autism shows up in adults means that many of us have been assuming we were anxious, not working hard enough, or just entirely failing altogether.’ – Jess Joy and Charlotte Mia
Written by two late-diagnosed neurodivergent women and the founders of fast-growing online community @IAmPayingAttention, HOW NOT TO FIT IN is an handbook-meets-rallying cry.
Foregrounding real experiences with autism and ADHD, this book explores the journey of discovering, accepting and flourishing with your neurodivergent brain. It explores why getting a diagnosis can be so fraught and gendered, and how to navigate a world which centres neurotypical brains in the realms of relationships, careers, friendships and finances.
By reading this book, you’ll:
- Start to understand why so many people are being diagnosed with ADHD and autism right now
- Learn the impact that not knowing your own brain can have on your mental health
- Find the confidence to ask for accommodations and adjustments at work – without apologising
- Have the chance to note down how this journey is evolving for you in chapter-by-chapter workbook sections.
- … and, most importantly, get to know yourself and your needs better.
Featuring the latest research and thinking on neurodivergence, contributions from dozens of experts and the real stories of people just like you, this innovative book – which has been written and designed especially for *spicy* brains – is essential listening for anyone whose brain seems to see the world in a different way.
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The Neurodivergence Skills Workbook for Autism and ADHD
- Cultivate Self-Compassion, Live Authentically, and Be Your Own Advocate
- By: Jennifer Kemp Mpsych, Monique Mitchelson Mpsych, Sonny Jane Wise - foreword by
- Narrated by: April Doty
- Length: 7 hrs and 29 mins
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As an autistic person or neurodivergent individual with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), you may sometimes feel as if you're living in a world that wasn't designed for you. You may have sensory sensitivities, social difficulties, struggles with executive functioning, sleep issues, depression, anxiety, burnout and meltdowns, and trauma from a lifetime of marginalization and microaggressions.
By: Jennifer Kemp Mpsych, and others
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Unlearning Shame
- How We Can Reject Self-Blame Culture and Reclaim Our Power
- By: Devon Price PhD
- Narrated by: Devon Price PhD
- Length: 9 hrs and 28 mins
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Systemic Shame is the socially engineered self-loathing that says we are solely to blame for our circumstances. It teaches that our consumption is moral and personal choice is our only tool of change. Systemic Shame tells us that poverty is remedied by hard-working people pulling themselves up by their bootstraps, that marginalized people are responsible for their own oppression, and that massive global crises like climate change can be solved by switching to paper straws. When we inevitably blame ourselves for failing to do enough to combat structural injustices, we feel Systemic Shame.
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not about shame
- By Anonymous User on 06-15-24
By: Devon Price PhD
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The Unmasking Workbook for Autistic Adults
- Neurodiversity Affirming Skills to Help You Live Authentically, Avoid Burnout, and Thrive
- By: Jessica Penot LPC-S
- Narrated by: April Doty
- Length: 4 hrs and 8 mins
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Written by a therapist who is actually autistic, this neurodiversity-affirming workbook offers skills to help you cultivate self-acceptance, manage intense emotions, and be your own advocate when needed. You'll take a good look at the situations or people that caused you to mask in the first place.
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Validating!
- By Kristen on 01-27-25
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The Autistic's Guide to Self-Discovery
- Flourishing as a Neurodivergent Adult
- By: Sol Smith
- Narrated by: Sol Smith
- Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins
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In this first-of-its-kind book, Sol Smith combines current research, his personal experience as a late-diagnosed autistic adult, and lessons learned as an educator to show how you can transcend common mischaracterizations, overcome shame, and gain the skills to flourish. Sol knows that neurodivergent people often feel that nothing they have been taught relates to how they experience the world. To resolve this conflict, they try to change or mask who they are, which can cause isolation, depression, and anxiety. He advises the opposite: Understand yourself, accept yourself, and reduce conflict.
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Great for late-diagnosed Autistics
- By Cassie on 05-06-25
By: Sol Smith
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Autism in Heels
- The Untold Story of a Female Life on the Spectrum
- By: Jennifer Cook O'Toole
- Narrated by: Jennifer O'Toole
- Length: 12 hrs and 39 mins
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This intimate memoir reveals the woman inside one of autism’s most prominent figures, Jennifer O'Toole. At the age of 35, Jennifer was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome, and for the first time in her life, things made sense. Now, she exposes the constant struggle between carefully crafted persona and authentic existence, editing the autism script with wit, candor, passion, and power. Her journey is one of reverse-self-discovery not only as an Aspie but - more importantly - as a thoroughly modern woman.
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Somewhat relatable but not really.
- By M Bond on 02-26-23
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Always Bring Your Sunglasses
- And Other Stories from a Life of Sensory and Social Invalidation
- By: Becca Lory Hector
- Narrated by: Virtual Voice
- Length: 2 hrs and 54 mins
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What does growing up with autism truly feel like, and how can a parent best support their autistic child? Always Bring Your Sunglasses is a poignant, insightful guide written by Becca Lory Hector, aimed at providing neurotypical parents with a deeper understanding of the autistic experience. This book is a treasure trove for parents, especially for those seeking to comprehend and cater to their child’s unique needs. Becca Lory Hector shares her personal journey with autism, offering an intimate glimpse into the sensory sensitivities, social intricacies, and the often-misunderstood aspects...
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Appreciation for sharing your perspective and your mother’s too.
- By Lisa Smith on 05-27-25
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Laziness Does Not Exist
- By: Devon Price PhD
- Narrated by: Em Grosland
- Length: 7 hrs and 50 mins
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From social psychologist Dr. Devon Price, a conversational, stirring call to “a better, more human way to live” (Cal Newport, New York Times best-selling author) that examines the “laziness lie” - which falsely tells us we are not working or learning hard enough.
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An Absolute Waste of Time. Not practical at all.
- By Graham Austin on 07-25-21
By: Devon Price PhD
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Divergent Mind
- Thriving in a World That Wasn’t Designed For You
- By: Jenara Nerenberg
- Narrated by: Tegan Ashton Cohan
- Length: 6 hrs and 37 mins
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A paradigm-shifting study of neurodivergent women - those with ADHD, autism, synesthesia, high sensitivity, and sensory processing disorder - exploring why these traits are overlooked in women and how society benefits from allowing their unique strengths to flourish.
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Provided no insight
- By Somebody on 06-24-20
By: Jenara Nerenberg
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Dirty Laundry
- Why Adults with ADHD Are So Ashamed and What We Can Do to Help
- By: Richard Pink, Roxanne Emery
- Narrated by: Richard Pink, Roxanne Emery
- Length: 4 hrs and 2 mins
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What if you stopped feeling ashamed of constantly being late or of getting so hyperfocused on a task that you drop everything else you had to do? How can you as a partner, parent, or friend better understand your neurodivergent loved one’s way of moving through the world? In Dirty Laundry, life partners Rich Pink and Rox Emery unapologetically guide you through the ups and downs of life with ADHD. Every chapter starts with a common symptom of ADHD, like impulsivity or struggles with finances, and an earnest moment from their own lives to show you how they navigate the symptom together.
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Perfect. Should be mandatory reading in middle school for the entirety of our neurodiverse world!!
- By Debra F. Wiens on 03-07-24
By: Richard Pink, and others
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Looking After Your Autistic Self
- A Personalised Self-Care Approach to Managing Your Sensory and Emotional Well-Being
- By: Niamh Garvey
- Narrated by: Lara Hutchinson
- Length: 8 hrs and 33 mins
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It is a myth that autistic children grow into 'less autistic' adults. In fact, many autistic adults feel more overwhelmed as they age as the stresses of social demands such as relationships, parenting, or the work environment increase. Niamh Garvey offers tips and tricks designed to reduce sensory and emotional stress and look after your autistic self. From understanding what's happening when the stress response kicks in to using the 'detective habit' to spot your individual strengths and triggers.
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Relatable - Insightful - Helpful
- By Cfrazier on 10-20-23
By: Niamh Garvey
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NeuroTribes
- The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity
- By: Steve Silberman
- Narrated by: William Hughes
- Length: 18 hrs and 46 mins
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What is autism: a lifelong disability or a naturally occurring form of cognitive difference akin to certain forms of genius? In truth, it is both of these things and more - and the future of our society depends on our understanding it. Wired reporter Steve Silberman unearths the secret history of autism, long suppressed by the same clinicians who became famous for discovering it, and finds surprising answers to the crucial question of why the number of diagnoses has soared in recent years.
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The long hard road to proper identity on the Autistic spectrum.
- By Lorijorn on 10-29-15
By: Steve Silberman
Affirming and real
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