
I Decided to Live as Me
An Illustrated Checklist for How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others So You Can Learn to Love Yourself
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The million-copy internationally bestselling life guide about how to stop comparing yourself to others—especially on social media—and how to find the strength to be yourself
In a world where it can seem impossible to feel that you are ever good enough, and where it’s easy to judge yourself by the unrealistic standards of social media, I Decided to Live as Me offers guidance and encouragement for celebrating yourself and feeling comfortable in your own skin.
With words of comfort Kim Suhyun has reached millions of people—including Jung Kook from the K-pop band BTS—who have found inspiration in her journey of self-love. She offers a checklist to guide you on your own journey, with advice including:
- Don't be kind to those who aren't kind to you.
- Remember that no one lives a perfect life.
- Don't be swayed by others' opinions.
- Crack corny jokes sometimes.
- Don't try too hard to get along with everyone.
Through these tips and more, I Decided to Live as Me teaches you that by freeing yourself from the pressure of other people's expectations, you can focus on what truly matters: living not for anyone else, but for yourself.
©2024 Kim Suhyun (P)2024 Penguin AudioCritic reviews
“This motivational book is a favorite of BTS’s Jin. . . . [Its] messages align with BTS’s consistent encouragement for fans to love themselves and pursue their unique journeys.”—Times Now
“A collection of heartfelt advice to live yourself as you. This self-help book became extensively popular after Jungkook recommended it to the Army.”—Jagran
“We live in a highly anxious world, and I can personally attest that this book has helped me in dealing with stress, social anxiety and existential dread—it is comforting, invigorating, and liberating, all at the same time.”—Anton Hur, translator of I Decided to Live as Me
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