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Gender Transition Redefined for Adults
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Gwyn Clark
About this listen
Can I tell you something? It’s possible to live dysphoria free. To be seen. To no longer feel afraid. To look in the mirror and feel alive, free, confident…and not 20 years from now!
This book will help to empower you to own who you are, even if you feel afraid. To reclaim yourself. To own your identity unapologetically. To heal and to grow.
This book will help you learn and understand:
- What is gender dysphoria, what is gender identity, the main ways gender dysphoria manifests, the unpredictable nature of dysphoria, and the effects of dysphoria on your life.
- Learn how to break the cycle of negative self-talk by reframing the stories you tell yourself, from "fear is a sign I will fail" to "my partner won't let me transition", and many others.
- Shift your perspective as I share the key factors you must consider taken from my over 17 years of working solely with transgender and nonbinary adults such as: how to trust yourself, how to be more confident, how to work through shame and guilt, and other important factors to aid you in your gender evolution!
- Take powerful steps to own who you are, whether you decide to go through a gender transition or not. Steps such as: setting boundaries, learning how to stop apologizing for who you are, owning your life script, and many more!
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The provocative best seller She's Not There is the winning, utterly surprising story of a person changing genders. By turns hilarious and deeply moving, Jennifer Finney Boylan explores the territory that lies between men and women, examines changing friendships, and rejoices in the redeeming power of family. Told in Boylan's fresh voice, She's Not There is about a person bearing and finally revealing a complex secret.
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Inspiring novel of MTF transition
- By Jamie on 03-01-18
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The T in LGBT
- Everything You Need to Know About Being Trans
- By: Jamie Raines
- Narrated by: Jamie Raines, Shaaba Lotun
- Length: 5 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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Hey, I'm Jamie, a 29-year-old trans guy from the UK. I've been transitioning for 12 years now after realising I was trans (by accident!) at sixteen years old. I knew I was a boy since the age of four, but realised whilst growing up that I was different. It was only in my teens that I found the words to express who I was and what I needed to do. Since then, I've been on testosterone for more than a decade - I know, I can't believe it either - I've also had top and bottom surgery and legally changed my sex, so I know a few things about the transitioning process and being trans!
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Amazing
- By Victor Rhodes on 08-03-24
By: Jamie Raines
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The T Guide
- Our Trans Experiences and a Celebration of Gender Expression—Man, Woman, Nonbinary, and Beyond
- By: Gigi Gorgeous, Gottmik (a.k.a Kade Gottlieb), Swan Huntley
- Narrated by: Gigi Gorgeous, Gottmik (a.k.a Kade Gottlieb)
- Length: 4 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
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In this fabulous, fashion-forward guide, transgender icons Gigi Gorgeous and Gottmik discuss the ins and outs of being transgender with their honest, hilarious, and GORGEOUS tales of what it means to be true to oneself—and they've picked up a few friends along the way. Whether you're embarking on your own transgender journey or seeking the knowledge to be the best ally you can be, there is something to be learned from every story they tell.
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Very Interesting
- By sccergirl22 on 12-06-24
By: Gigi Gorgeous, and others
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How to Understand Your Gender
- A Practical Guide for Exploring Who You Are
- By: Alex Iantaffi, Meg-John Barker
- Narrated by: Robyn Holdaway
- Length: 7 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
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This down-to-earth guide is for anybody who wants to know more about gender, from its biology, history and sociology, to how it plays a role in our relationships and interactions with family, friends, partners and strangers. It looks at practical ways people can express their own gender and will help you to understand people whose gender might be different from your own. With activities and points for reflection throughout, this book will help people of all genders engage with gender diversity and explore the ideas in the book in relation to their own lived experiences.
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Good performance. Poor Content.
- By Jessica Hagerman on 01-17-24
By: Alex Iantaffi, and others
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Feminizing Men
- A Guide for Males to Achieve Maximum Feminization
- By: Barbara Deloto, Thomas Newgen
- Narrated by: Ruby Rivers
- Length: 1 hr and 38 mins
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This is not for those who wish to permanently change their gender, but rather for those who wish to feminize temporarily, though sometimes repeatedly and regularly, in order to proficiently crossdress as a woman.
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Narrator is very condescending.
- By Tabitha Billings on 01-16-19
By: Barbara Deloto, and others
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It Never Goes Away
- Gender Transition at a Mature Age
- By: Dr. Anne L. Koch
- Narrated by: Dr. Anne L. Koch
- Length: 7 hrs and 51 mins
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If you are transgendered, the feeling of wanting your body to match the sex you feel you are never goes away. For some, though, especially those who grew up before trans people were widely out and advocating for equality, these feelings were often compartmentalized and rarely acted upon. Now that gender reassignment has become much more commonplace, many of these people may feel increasing pressure to finally undergo the procedures they have always secretly wanted.
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Typical upper class trans-snobbery
- By jon rios on 05-03-20
By: Dr. Anne L. Koch
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- DK
- 06-29-24
Concise and helpful
I didn’t agree with some of content at the beginning of the book, but about midway through there were lots of gems. A lot of the content applies to living a good life in general.
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- JRae
- 12-08-23
Must Read!
During the early days of the pandemic, with absolutely nowhere to go, I found my public self face-to-face with my authentic self. I could no longer hide. There I was. I kind of stumbled into the field of learning new language - or, did I know it's where I needed to tread all along? Either way, I found Dr. Z's YouTube channel and other social media outlets. Her no-nonsense way of discussing the ideas of gender, gender dysphoria, and breaking down the consequences of not dealing with such helped me find the courage to take the new-to-me labels and begin sharing bits of the real me with the world. For three years, I've continued to visit her work and find encouragement, comfort, affirmation, and confidence. I've only just now been able to listen to this book and it is one I will also buy in physical copy. It's stellar! And anyone who knows, loves, or is curious about people of transgender and/or nonbinary experience should read these words. She does an amazing job shedding light into the realities of gender and will help those light bulbs of understanding kick on! Absolutely a must read if you yourself are navigating gender dysphoria and needing to understand what's happening and be guided forward.
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- Jules
- 08-18-23
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A book with for those of us on the fence when we know damn well we’re not on it, a loving kick in the butt is more like what it feels like but with CLEAR definitions and examples.
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- Aline
- 06-05-24
life saver
awesome for trans people in transition and facing the terrible challenges. But also for people struggling with doubt about their own gender
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