
The Blind Spot Effect
How to Stop Missing What's Right in Front of You
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Coleen Marlo
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Kelly Boys
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At home or work, do you find yourself in similar conflicts or situations again and again? Do your relationships seem fine - but you sometimes wonder if those around you might disagree? On an immediate level, have you ever wished for greater clarity, depth, and delight in all of your experiences? "It's much easier to see the unconscious and self-defeating habits of others than our own," Kelly Boys notes, "and perceptually, to miss so much that's happening around us."
In this compelling book, listeners will explore our many kinds of "blind spots", from the physical to the interpersonal: how we get them, how to reveal them, and how to work with our newfound awareness. Drawing upon neuroscience, meditation research, true personal accounts, and more, The Blind Spot Effect invites us into this hidden world.
What unfolds is both a learning journey and a practice guide to bring our own unseen dimensions to light, learn from them, and help others along the way.
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- Steven
- 10-19-24
Well written and compelling
Kelly Boys is a great meditation teacher. This book, and her guided meditations on YouTube and the Waking Up app, are very worthwhile.
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- Krishna Pendyala
- 12-09-18
Great collection of research & real-life examples
Having read many of the same books and worked on a parallel path as Kelly Boys for over 20 years, I still relished the book and learned a lot about myself. That's a gift and I am grateful to Kelly for that.
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