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This Is How Your Marriage Ends

A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships

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This Is How Your Marriage Ends

By: Matthew Fray
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Good people can be bad partners.

One night during his divorce, after one too many vodkas and a phone-in-therapist's advice to 'journal his feelings', Matthew Fray started a blog. On it, he tried to piece together how his ex-wife went from the college freshman who adored him to the angry woman who thought he was an asshole. It turns out that even though he was a decent guy, he was kind of a shitty husband.

As he shared raw, uncomfortable and darkly humorous stories about the lessons he'd learned from his failed marriage, Matthew started to gain a following. Then he wrote a post titled 'She Divorced Me Because I Left the Dishes by the Sink'—it went viral and was read over four million times.

This Is How Your Marriage Ends offers immediately actionable advice to help listeners identify toxic behaviour patterns in their own lives and break them out of the cycles of dysfunction that ruin relationships. Good people can be bad partners—this book is how you change that.

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Critic reviews

"This Is How Your Marriage Ends is the book we have been waiting for—an entertaining, honest and truly practical guide for saving our relationships." (Justin Baldoni, best-selling author of Man Enough: Undefining My Masculinity)

"Funny and poignant...a beautiful exposition on partnerships, love and unpaid labour." (Eve Rodsky, New York Times best-selling author of Fair Play)
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What an amazing voice Matthew is to the very situation that exists in absolutely everyone I knows marriage. This book calls for some hard self reflection and hard conversations between two people in a relationship, a must read for both parties that will hopefully bring hope and ultimately a closer, more considerate and long lasting relationship. A slightly repetitious but important read for anyone who wants to have meaningful relationships in their lives.

Should be mandatory reading in schools

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