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A Memoir of Loving and Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church

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The activist and TED speaker Megan Phelps-Roper reveals her life growing up in the most hated family in America

At the age of five, Megan Phelps-Roper began protesting homosexuality and other alleged vices alongside fellow members of the Westboro Baptist Church in Topeka, Kansas. Founded by her grandfather and consisting almost entirely of her extended family, the tiny group would gain worldwide notoriety for its pickets at military funerals and celebrations of death and tragedy. As Phelps-Roper grew up, she saw that church members were close companions and accomplished debaters, applying the logic of predestination and the language of the King James Bible to everyday life with aplomb - which, as the church’s Twitter spokeswoman, she learned to do with great skill. Soon, however, dialogue on Twitter caused her to begin doubting the church’s leaders and message: If humans were sinful and fallible, how could the church itself be so confident about its beliefs? As she digitally jousted with critics, she started to wonder if sometimes they had a point - and then she began exchanging messages with a man who would help change her life.

A gripping memoir of escaping extremism and falling in love, Unfollow relates Phelps-Roper’s moral awakening, her departure from the church, and how she exchanged the absolutes she grew up with for new forms of warmth and community. Rich with suspense and thoughtful reflection, Phelps-Roper’s life story exposes the dangers of black-and-white thinking and the need for true humility in a time of angry polarization.

©2019 Megan Phelps-Roper (P)2019 Audible, Inc.
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Not what I expected

To cheer myself up during this COVID powerlessness I thought I would listen to a gotcha expose about WBC and sneer at their vile. Nope. MPR humanizes the proudly demonized in a way that both respects their victims and beliefs. I found this book more touching and teaching than anticipated, and loved it

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Unfollow

Brilliantly written book and beautifully narrated. This story is one of sadness and of great happiness. Megan‘s story draws you in and does not let you go until the end. This book needs to be read by all so you can understand the insight of a church and the bravery it took to leave and stand on your own.

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Heart and Mind

This book stirs both my heart and mind.
Truly a story to pass along and learn from.

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Illuminating

I really liked this book. Megan is very insightful. I grew up in KS and the WBC were on the news a lot. Although I don’t agree with their beliefs or practices, she helped me understand where they were coming from. This is an excellent read. I’d recommend to anyone of any faith.

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incredible story, well told

Megan does an amazing job of working through the many thoughts and feelings about what she went through. it was compelling to get an inside view and heartbreaking to think about having to lose the family you love because of different beliefs. the last chapter of the book does an incredible job of discussing why it is so important for us to seek understanding and articulate clearly our disagreements instead of just shutting others down when we disagree.

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Amazing story of humanness

Her story is incredible. She’s so whole heartedly honest in this book, and you crab hear the twinges if pain in her voice. This really is a story of hope that anybody can change with gentleness and love.

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Eye opening

I remember hearing about WBC years back. I had no idea just how strict they were. Listening to this I was overwhelmed at her bravery and choice to leave. The biggest thing that stuck out to me was how she said everyone thinks they’re religion is the one. That is probably one of the truest things I have ever heard. I recommend this book to everyone.

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A beautiful and painful story of courage

Megan shows what a painful, agonized decision of leaving her life was. The torment of battling with her beliefs. Making the break from her isolated life in the church. How she intelligently navigates her way in mind and world. Speaking out against the dogma of the church after her departure. What an amazing story that you can't help but understand and put yourself in her place. I can only hope that more people are so open to change and compassion.

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A Hymn of Hope

A hymn of hope amidst the hatred of fundamentalism and the spitefulness so characteristic of our times. Megan Phelps-Roper makes a heartfelt and eloquent case for compassion, the efficacy of reasonable argument, and the possibility of love to grow, change, and warm even the hardest of hearts.

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I highly recommend this read.

Unfollow is one of the best listens I have had on Audible. The narrator, who is also the author, does a wonderful impassioned job of telling her story. Not only does she give a vivid description of her childhood and adult experiences with the Westborough Baptist Church but she equally describes the developmental thought process that she went through which led to her leaving the church. The final chapter has one of the best descriptions of the importance of absolute free speech, and the essence of group think that I have ever heard. You will enjoy this listen I highly recommend it.

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