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Kimberly Loftus
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Evie Vane
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This and Better Bondage for Every Body are the only two books on getting tied up, from bedroom play to advanced suspensions. You'll learn all about finding the right partner for rope bondage (aka shibari or kinbaku), types of rope bondage scenes, avoiding injuries, pain processing, and the seven helpful skills of rope bottoming, including mindfulness, being prepared, and communicating with your rope top. You'll also learn how to evaluate a suspension hardpoint for safety, and much more! Sprinkled throughout are photos plus true stories of rope bondage scenes that went wrong and scenes that went right. You'll also find a list of valuable rope bottoming resources. If you're interested in rope bondage, shibari, or kinbaku, whether in the bedroom, at a BDSM club or dungeon, or even in front of an audience, this guide is a must-listen.
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- Marcy
- 04-01-25
Rope Bottoms Understood
Good book, very informative! She has a nice voice to listen to and makes it not boring to listen to like some of the AI voices. If you want a better understanding of being tied up, this is the book for you.
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- Mary
- 01-08-23
really informative
if you're interested in rope bondage, read this first! this is an excellent resource, shedding light one things to consider when engaging in rope play. in fact, even if you're not interested in rope bondage, I think anyone could gain a lot of insight into how to communicate, navigate intimate and vulnerable situations, and maintain personal boundaries from this book.
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- Thomas J. Lawrence Jr.
- 01-14-24
Excellent information.
The subject is laid out thoughtfully and at just the right level for beginners. The narrator does a great job of keeping things clear and engaging, and the resources in the Appendices are an excellent addition.
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- Jose Olagues
- 01-09-20
Excellent book great info
I am only 3 chapters in but so far the book is great it is a great intro to rope. Looking forward to the rest of the book.
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- Alyssa A.
- 03-17-22
great beginnger book!
i really enjoyed listening to this book!! its great for beginners and renforces safety as the number one point of this book. very good read! highly recommend every beginner to read this book before engaging in rope!
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- SummerDT
- 04-19-22
Too short! Great References!
I loved it!!!! It was definitely too short. but I loved her stories examples and all the useful references I can hardly wait to get to after work!! 😁😁😁😊
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- Leonard H.
- 01-02-23
A lot more personal that I imagined
I felt like I was sitting in a coffee shop listening to Evie rather than dry instruction on the topic.
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