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Patrick King
About this listen
Do you want to be able to walk into a room of strangers and instantly befriend everyone?
How do some people end up with friends anywhere they go and make amazing impressions on everyone? What really makes people connect, open up, and just...click with others?
It's something we never learn in school...a shame because connecting instantly with others just might be the most important skill you'll ever learn.
The first minute of an interaction is the gatekeeper of friendship and relationships.
It determines whether people will invest time and energy in you...and simply care about you. Nail it, and you'll be given the benefit of the doubt in any situation.... Fail to click instantly, and you'll fall into the dreaded zone of apathy and "who cares about them?" We don't get second chances in a reality that deals largely in snap judgments.
Connect Instantly was written specifically to deal with those crucial first moments of interaction and make sure that you control 100 percent that you click and make a great impression and reap the rewards of it.
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conversation. great for career & personal life.
great tips for the detailed person
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How to stay on track with your conversation.
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Solid and to the point
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Quantity vs Quality
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Great tips on human interractions. Very useful.
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Hits the highlights for conversational "dummies"
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What would have made Connect Instantly: 60 Seconds to Likability, Meaningful Connections, and Hitting It Off With Anyone better?
The author doesn't go into much detail. This is a very odd book and gave me no insight on how to make powerful connections.IDK what this book is about...
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The author stresses storytelling, to which I agree with, and there is lots of information and advice but very few examples and stories of that advice in action! It makes the content feel dry and lifeless. Either the author lacks experience or doesn't take his own advice about being a good storyteller! Kind of funny really.
The narrator has a pleasing voice, which lacks all forms of enthusiasm. He should narrate for meditation tapes! This book I do not recommend listening to while driving so you don't doze off.
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I give it two stars because this book is indeed useful. About as useful as digging a ditch with a spoon, though. Other then being a waste of money it doesn't get one star because there is nothing in it which I find offensive.
meh...
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