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How to Know When to Go and When to Stay
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Davis Brooks
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David Richo
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The guide to finding your perfect timing for life’s biggest decisions—whether to stay or go in relationships, jobs, locations, and everything that matters most.
Do we stay in what we know? Or is it the right time to leave and make a change? In more than 50 years as a psychotherapist David Richo has been asked versions of this question more than any other, coaching countless people of all ages through agonizing decisions related to their partnerships, their career, their home, their faith. In Ready, he shares the deep wisdom we need to make these decisions—and feel confident in following through. The book looks at the mystery of timing, why we stay too long, why we leave too soon, and what it feels like when the timing is right.
Richo shows that readiness is about more than just making a choice. Being ready means we understand ourselves deeply—we are prepared to take action (and staying is an action!), and we are equipped with what it takes to follow through. Filled with relatable stories and helpful practices, including meditation, self-inquiry, journaling, and affirmations, Ready helps us understand our own perfect timing to stay or to go.
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"Most people think of love as a feeling," says David Richo, "but love is not so much a feeling as a way of being present." In this audiobook, Richo offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships - one that focuses not on finding an ideal mate, but on becoming a more loving and realistic person. Drawing on the Buddhist concept of mindfulness, How to Be an Adult in Relationships explores five hallmarks of mindful loving and how they play a key role in our relationships throughout life.
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very insightful and eye opening
- By Justine Laliberte on 05-09-18
By: David Richo
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Power of Grace
- Recognizing Unexpected Gifts on Our Path
- By: David Richo
- Narrated by: Tom Pile
- Length: 8 hrs and 16 mins
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Perhaps you've had one of those moments when everything, quite unexpectedly, simply falls into place; or, when you've been puzzling over an impossible question and - pow! - the answer suddenly arises, seemingly out of nowhere. These and other such experiences are not caused by our efforts. They are moments of grace, the gift dimension of life. Grace is generally associated with religion, but, as Dave Richo shows, you don't need to be religious to notice - and benefit from - this help from outside yourself that's being offered to you in every moment.
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An interesting subject - in depth
- By Hilary Whatley on 04-13-19
By: David Richo
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When the Past Is Present
- Healing the Emotional Wounds That Sabotage our Relationships
- By: David Richo PhD
- Narrated by: Tom Pile
- Length: 10 hrs and 20 mins
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In this audiobook, psychotherapist David Richo explores how we replay the past in our present-day relationships - and how we can free ourselves from this destructive pattern. We all have a tendency to transfer potent feelings, needs, expectations, and beliefs from childhood or from former relationships onto the people in our daily lives, whether they are our intimate partners, friends, or acquaintances.
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For developing self-awareness..
- By Hilary Whatley on 04-13-19
By: David Richo PhD
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Making Love Last
- How to Sustain Intimacy and Nurture Genuine Connection
- By: David Richo
- Narrated by: David Richo
- Length: 2 hrs and 35 mins
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Intimacy is one of the great powers and joys of life, yet all too often it gets clouded by miscommunication, a loss of affection, and a lack of mutual support. Here therapist David Richo shows us how to use mindfulness to better understand ourselves and our partners.
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Shadow Dance
- Liberating the Power and Creativity of Your Dark Side
- By: David Richo
- Narrated by: Russell Bentley
- Length: 12 hrs and 7 mins
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Our “shadow” is the collection of negative or undesirable traits we keep hidden—the things we don't like about ourselves or are ashamed of, but it also includes our positive, untapped potential. The shadow is often a source of creative inspiration and greater self-acceptance. Befriending the shadow makes fear an ally and enables us to live more authentically. It also automatically improves our interpersonal relationships, because we are freed from the need to project our own negativity onto others, and we become more acutely aware when theirs is projected onto us.
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potential plagued by left-wing bias
- By H.B. on 06-25-24
By: David Richo
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- PALMIRA PENA SALAZAR
- 08-12-24
Great book very soothing
Very soothing. a great guide to find yourself in the world’s different situations. I recommend this book
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- Drew T. Moore
- 12-29-23
Life Saving
A friend suggested I read this book during a time of huge transition and upheaval for me. I’ve listened to the whole book in less than a week and have repeated many sections and passages multiple times. Love this book!!
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- Amazon Customer
- 02-25-24
Practical and powerful insights
Grateful for the practical and powerful insights in this book, especially the unique thoughts on timing. I highly recommend this book.
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- Marshall Bewley
- 10-31-22
Misleading
I was unpleasantly surprised by how much religious doctrine was throughout the book. There was no suggestion that bible verses would be used throughout.
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