
When the Past Is Present
Healing the Emotional Wounds That Sabotage our Relationships
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Narrated by:
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Tom Pile
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By:
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David Richo PhD
About this listen
In this audiobook, psychotherapist David Richo explores how we replay the past in our present-day relationships - and how we can free ourselves from this destructive pattern. We all have a tendency to transfer potent feelings, needs, expectations, and beliefs from childhood or from former relationships onto the people in our daily lives, whether they are our intimate partners, friends, or acquaintances. When the Past Is Present helps us to become more aware of the ways we slip into the past so that we can identify our emotional baggage and take steps to unpack it and put it where it belongs. Drawing on decades of experience as a psychotherapist, Richo helps listeners to:
- Understand how the wounds of childhood become exposed in adult relationships - and why this is a gift
- Identify and heal the emotional wounds we carry over from the past so that they won't sabotage present-day relationships
- Recognize how strong attractions and aversions to people in the present can be signals of own own unfinished business
- Use mindfulness to stay in the present moment and cultivate authentic intimacy
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The Five Longings
- What We've Always Wanted - and Already Have
- By: David Richo
- Narrated by: Brett Barry
- Length: 7 hrs
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If you've ever had a vague sense that something's missing from your life, congratulations. That longing for something better is a sign of being fully human, fully alive. But what's even more wonderful, according to Dave Richo, is that when you identify and carefully examine the things you long for - like love, meaning, freedom, happiness, and growth - not only do you discover deep truths about yourself but you also find that the things you long for were never really missing at all.
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Definition of longing
- By sierra mimi on 12-31-23
By: David Richo
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The Five Keys to Mindful Communication
- Using Deep Listening and Mindful Speech to Strengthen Relationships, Heal Conflicts, and Accomplish Your Goals
- By: Susan Gillis Chapman
- Narrated by: Gabra Zackman
- Length: 6 hrs and 38 mins
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Good communiation is essential to any healthy relationship, whether it's between spouses, family members, friends, or co-workers. In this book Susan Chapman, a marriage and family therapist and a longtime meditation teacher, explains how mindfulness can be brought to bear in the way we speak and listen to each other so that we can strengthen our connections and better accomplish our goals.
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Caution: Textbook Madness!
- By Randolph on 04-02-15
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Can't Stop Thinking
- How to Let Go of Anxiety and Free Yourself from Obsessive Rumination
- By: Nancy Colier, Stephan Bodian - foreword
- Narrated by: Kitty Hendrix
- Length: 5 hrs and 45 mins
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Psychotherapist and spiritual counselor Nancy Colier offers the key to breaking free from the repetitive and obsessive thinking that is causing your stress, anxiety, worry, and unhappiness: Change your relationship with your thoughts. Using a powerful blend of mindfulness and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), you'll learn how to surrender your thinking mind, and end repetitive thinking, rumination, and self-criticism - freeing you up to discover a life of self-compassion, presence, peace, and joy.
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this was anxiety inducing
- By Anonymous User on 01-16-22
By: Nancy Colier, and others
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How to Be an Adult in Relationships
- The Five Keys to Mindful Loving
- By: David Richo
- Narrated by: David Richo
- Length: 9 hrs and 20 mins
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"Most people think of love as a feeling," says David Richo, "but love is not so much a feeling as a way of being present." In this audiobook, Richo offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships - one that focuses not on finding an ideal mate, but on becoming a more loving and realistic person. Drawing on the Buddhist concept of mindfulness, How to Be an Adult in Relationships explores five hallmarks of mindful loving and how they play a key role in our relationships throughout life.
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very insightful and eye opening
- By Justine Laliberte on 05-09-18
By: David Richo
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The Breakup Bible
- The Smart Woman's Guide to Healing from a Breakup or Divorce
- By: Rachel Sussman
- Narrated by: Susan Boyce
- Length: 12 hrs and 6 mins
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Psychotherapist and breakup expert Rachel A. Sussman, LCSW, reveals the secrets every woman needs to get her life back on track. Drawing on hundreds of counseling sessions she's conducted with women at all stages of recovery, Sussman developed a proven three-phase process for healing from a breakup.
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lifesaver!
- By Dawson on 11-30-17
By: Rachel Sussman
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Dreaming Yourself Awake
- Lucid Dreaming and Tibetan Dream Yoga for Insight and Transformation
- By: B. Alan Wallace, Brian Hodel - editor
- Narrated by: Tom Pile
- Length: 5 hrs and 54 mins
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Some of the greatest of life’s adventures can happen while you’re sound asleep. That’s the promise of lucid dreaming, which is the ability to alter your own dream reality any way you like simply by being aware of the fact that you’re dreaming while you’re in the midst of a dream. There is a range of techniques anyone can learn to become a lucid dreamer - and this audiobook provides all the instruction you need to get started.
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Unfortunately unlistenable
- By MMore on 12-15-14
By: B. Alan Wallace, and others
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Stepping Out of Self-Deception
- The Buddha's Liberating Teaching of No-Self
- By: Rodney Smith
- Narrated by: Tom Pile
- Length: 10 hrs and 42 mins
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Anatta is the Buddhist teaching on the nonexistence of a permanent, independent self. It's a notoriously puzzling and elusive concept, usually leading to such questions as, "If I don't have a self, who's reading this sentence?" It's not that there's no self there, says Rodney Smith. It's just that the self that is reading this sentence is a configuration of elements that at one time did not exist and that at some point in the future will disperse.
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Brilliant
- By Andrew on 06-01-16
By: Rodney Smith
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The Imposter Solution
- 5 Steps to Ditch Self-Doubt and Stop Feeling Like a Fraud
- By: Cassandra Dunn
- Narrated by: Cassandra Dunn
- Length: 3 hrs and 59 mins
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Imposter Syndrome doesn’t just affect middle-aged suits in big board rooms. The typical thoughts, feelings and behaviours that are part of the imposter experience - things like overwork, perfectionism and procrastination, hiding out, playing small and holding back – are common for so many of us. This is not just a different name for self-doubt. It is pervasive and goes directly to your sense of self-worth and belonging. You don’t need a confidence hack. You need to go to the root cause of your feelings of unworthiness and learn to trust that you are enough.
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Insightful
- By Stephanie on 03-19-25
By: Cassandra Dunn
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Healing Developmental Trauma
- How Early Trauma Affects Self-Regulation, Self-Image, and the Capacity for Relationship
- By: Laurence Heller, Aline Lapierre
- Narrated by: Tom Perkins
- Length: 10 hrs and 29 mins
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Explaining that an impaired capacity for connection to self and to others underlies most psychological and many physiological problems, clinicians Laurence Heller, PhD, and Aline LaPierre, PsyD, introduce the NeuroAffective Relational Model™ (NARM), a unified approach to developmental, attachment, and shock trauma that emphasizes working in the present moment. NARM is a somatically based psychotherapy that helps bring into awareness the parts of self that are disorganized and dysfunctional.
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This book is not just regurgitation of popular self help pop psychology
- By Susan M. Davis on 06-06-16
By: Laurence Heller, and others
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Sensorimotor Psychotherapy
- Interventions for Trauma and Attachment
- By: Pat Ogden, Janina Fisher
- Narrated by: Paul Brion
- Length: 17 hrs and 11 mins
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The concepts and interventions introduced in this book are designed as an adjunct to, and in support of, other methods of treatment rather than as a stand-alone treatment or manualized approach. By drawing on the therapeutic relationship and adjusting interventions to the particular needs of each client, thoughtful attention to what is being spoken beneath the words through the body can heighten the intimacy of the therapist/client journey and help change take place more easily in the hidden recesses of the self.
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Heavily didactic but valuable for clinicians
- By Becca Powell on 09-13-20
By: Pat Ogden, and others
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The Intimate Connection
- Secrets to a Lifelong Romance
- By: Dr. Kevin Leman
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 8 hrs and 9 mins
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Creating a happy, lifelong marriage is about much more than physical compatibility. It's about a lifestyle of 24-7 intimacy that bonds couples in a mutually satisfying relationship. In The Intimate Connection, best-selling marriage expert Dr. Kevin Leman explores key secrets to the love life couples crave.
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Nah.
- By Shmombie on 06-20-23
By: Dr. Kevin Leman
Great Book
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Very Eye Opening
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Book is great reader volume is so low
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Great
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While I found much of it to be on point, I very greatly disagree with the Freudian model that brings every psychological reasoning for our actions to a foundation of sex and Mother or Father interactions. I cannot agree that every end goal of relationships is ultimately for the intent of procreation and I don't agree that every time we have sex, there are four people in the room including his mother and her father. While I indirectly see the correlation between our sexual preferences and interactions with an intimate partner reflected as that between us and our gender opposite parent, I don't necessarily agree with the idea that how we make love is dependent upon our relationship with them.
I found this book to excel in presenting the idea of transference and how our past so greatly and often unconsciously effects our perception of the world around us. it addressed the importance of recognizing when we are using the idea of transference to use clues to "assume" something must be true based on similar patterns and outcomes when we should be assessing every relationship with new eyes and with hope expecting, good from it.
I note that I gave it five stars, not necessarily because I agree with the views of all the material presented but because I believe what is presented is beneficial to anyone wishing to gain a greater understanding of the many things discussed. As open as the views presented were, they were unbiased and the material, while inclusive of any religion with which to take up and cast one's hopes upon is from a psychological perspective beneficial no matter who or what one believes in.
Spiritual and Scientific. Unexpectedly so.
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How I’ve lived my life not knowing the past is the present
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MUST READ!!!!
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Insightful
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Phenomenal Read!
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Beautiful
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