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Simple Truths for Our Complex Lives
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Gretchen Rubin
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Gretchen Rubin
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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The author of The Happiness Project and Better Than Before distills her key insights into simple truths for living with greater satisfaction, clarity, and happiness.
The right idea, invoked at the right time, can change our lives. Drawing from her long studies of happiness, and also from the challenges she’s faced herself, writer Gretchen Rubin has discovered the “Secrets of Adulthood” that can help us manage the complexities of life. To convey her conclusions, she turned to the aphorism—the ancient literary discipline that demands that a writer convey a large truth in a few words.
Perhaps you’re paralyzed by indecision, struggling to navigate a big change, fighting a temptation, or puzzled by the behavior of someone you love; whatever you face, the right aphorism can help. From procrastination to the pursuit of happiness, Secrets of Adulthood is filled with witty and thought-provoking reflections such as:
- “Recognize that, like sleeping with a big dog in a small bed, things that are uncomfortable can also be comforting”
- “Accept yourself, and expect more from yourself”
- “Easy children raise good parents”
- “What can be done at any time is often done at no time”
For anyone undergoing a major life transition, such as graduation, career switch, marriage, or moving, or for those just encountering everyday dilemmas, these disarming aphorisms will inspire you by articulating truths that you may never have noticed but instantly recognize.
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By: Gretchen Rubin
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Forty Ways to Look at Winston Churchill
- A Brief Account of a Long Life
- By: Gretchen Rubin
- Narrated by: Gretchen Rubin
- Length: 6 hrs and 21 mins
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Warrior and writer, genius and crank, rider in the British cavalry’s last great charge and inventor of the tank - Winston Churchill led Britain to fight alone against Nazi Germany in the fateful year of 1940 and set the standard for leading a democracy at war. Like no other portrait of its famous subject, Forty Ways to Look at Winston Churchill is a dazzling display of facts more improbable than fiction, and an investigation of the contradictions and complexities that haunt biography.
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Great Content
- By Sean P. Whiteley on 07-01-20
By: Gretchen Rubin
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Millionaire from the Heart
- How I Did It, How You Can Do It Too
- By: Anne-Claire Meret
- Narrated by: Anne-Claire Meret
- Length: 5 hrs and 12 mins
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To the wild hearts, anything is possible! It’s not either or, it’s both: heart choices and abundance. This book is about shifting and aligning our ways of being, our thinking, acting from our hearts and generating a lot of money with it.
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Such a good book ! MUST READ
- By Anonymous User on 01-19-24
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Your Worry Makes Sense
- Anxiety and Burnout are Logical (and You Can Overcome Them)
- By: Dr Martin Brunet
- Narrated by: Dr Martin Brunet
- Length: 5 hrs and 52 mins
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On the surface, anxiety and panic seem to make no sense at all. But if you dig a little deeper, you can understand why we need some anxiety to survive and how it can escalate to become a problem. And once you learn that it really does make sense, you can learn how to overcome it! Written by GP Dr Martin Brunet, who has over 30 years of professional experience and is well known online for his popular mental health videos, Your Worry Makes Sense explores the logical basis for the common experiences of both anxiety and burnout.
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Highly empathic
- By Anonymous User on 04-09-25
By: Dr Martin Brunet
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The English Understand Wool
- Storybook ND Series
- By: Helen DeWitt
- Narrated by: Lucy Raynor
- Length: 1 hr and 16 mins
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Raised in Marrakech by a French mother and English father, a 17-year-old girl has learned above all to avoid mauvais ton ("bad taste" loses something in the translation). One should not ask servants to wait on one during Ramadan: they must have paid leave while one spends the holy month abroad. One must play the piano; if staying at Claridge’s, one must regrettably install a Clavinova in the suite so that the necessary hours of practice will not be inflicted on fellow guests.
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The wild and crazy story, narrated brilliantly!
- By AudiobookMaven on 11-24-24
By: Helen DeWitt
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How to Be Enough
- Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists
- By: Ellen Hendriksen
- Narrated by: Ellen Hendriksen
- Length: 9 hrs and 14 mins
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Dr. Ellen Hendriksen—clinical psychologist, anxiety specialist, and author of How to Be Yourself—charts a flexible, forgiving, and freeing path, all without giving up the excellence your high standards and hard work have gotten you. She delivers seven shifts—including from self-criticism to kindness, control to authenticity, procrastination to productivity, comparison to contentment—to find self-acceptance, rewrite the Inner Rulebook, and most of all, cultivate the authentic human connections we’re all craving.
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Revealing
- By Anonymous User on 05-21-25
By: Ellen Hendriksen
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Shatterproof
- How to Thrive in a World of Constant Chaos (and Why Resilience Alone Isn't Enough)
- By: Tasha Eurich
- Narrated by: Tasha Eurich
- Length: 7 hrs and 33 mins
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We’ve been taught that resilience is the secret to navigating life’s most difficult moments. According to New York Times bestselling author and organizational psychologist Dr. Tasha Eurich, there is just one problem with this assumption. Scientifically, resilience isn’t an unlimited resource, especially with the growing pressure, uncertainty, and chaos we’re experiencing today. But what if, instead of merely “bouncing back” from stressors and setbacks, we could harness them for forward growth?
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Profound and simple and practical
- By C. L. Johnson on 06-07-25
By: Tasha Eurich
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Good Stress
- The Health Benefits of Doing Hard Things
- By: Jeff Krasno, Schuyler Grant - contributor
- Narrated by: Jeff Krasno
- Length: 11 hrs and 23 mins
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Jeff Krasno, the founder and CEO of the global wellness platform Commune Media, thought he was pretty healthy. Though he suffered from brain fog, chronic fatigue, and bouts of insomnia, those symptoms seemed utterly normal in today’s society. When he learned he had diabetes, his first thought was, How can that be? I run a wellness company! His diagnosis propelled him to consult every expert at his disposal and engage in intensive “me-search” in order to turn his health around. On this journey, he began to form a larger picture of what’s wrong with our health in the modern world.
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Packed with Digestible Info
- By KThor on 04-13-25
By: Jeff Krasno, and others
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No New Things
- A Radically Simple 30-Day Guide to Saving Money, the Planet, and Your Sanity
- By: Ashlee Piper
- Narrated by: Ashlee Piper
- Length: 7 hrs and 35 mins
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For nearly two years, Ashlee Piper challenged herself to buy nothing new. And in the process, she got out of debt, cut clutter, crushed her goals, and became healthier and happier than ever—all the things she’d always wanted to do but “never had time to” (because she was mindlessly scrolling, shopping, spending, and stressing). After a decade of fine-tuning, No New Things guides listeners through the same revolutionarily simple challenge that has helped thousands of global participants find freedom and fulfillment in just thirty days.
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An eye opening book
- By June Lapidow on 05-21-25
By: Ashlee Piper
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Wild Courage
- Go After What You Want and Get It
- By: Jenny Wood
- Narrated by: Jenny Wood
- Length: 8 hrs and 4 mins
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To be successful you need to be Weird, Selfish, Shameless, Obsessed, Nosy, Manipulative, Brutal, Reckless, and Bossy. And that takes courage. As a former Google leader and top career coach who chased an attractive stranger off the subway and later married him, Jenny Wood knows her way around courage. In this book, Wood shatters conventional wisdom about achieving your goals. She gives you permission to ditch your fear and chase after what you want, unapologetically.
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Liberal Views
- By RP on 04-07-25
By: Jenny Wood
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Mindsight
- The New Science of Personal Transformation
- By: Daniel J. Siegel M.D., Daniel Goleman - foreword
- Narrated by: Daniel J. Siegel M.D., Darren Joel
- Length: 13 hrs and 37 mins
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A Harvard-trained physician, Dr. Siegel is one of the revolutionary global innovators in the integration of brain science into the practice of psychotherapy. Using case histories from his practice, he shows how, by following the proper steps, nearly everyone can learn how to focus their attention on the internal world of the mind in a way that will literally change the wiring and architecture of their brain.
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i like it
- By David on 04-11-25
By: Daniel J. Siegel M.D., and others
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The Narrowing
- A Journey Through Anxiety and the Body
- By: Alexandra Shaker PhD
- Narrated by: Alexandra Shaker PhD
- Length: 7 hrs and 51 mins
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Most of us are intimately familiar with anxiety, and with its increasing hold on our minds, our hopes and plans, and our bodies. But how well do we really understand it, and what can we do to transform it into something new—into resilience, or courage, or creativity? In this extraordinary book, Dr. Alexandra Shaker, a clinical psychologist, takes us on a journey through the body—from brain to blood to heart to guts—to examine the connections between our emotional, psychological, and physical lives.
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A must read for anyone interested in and/or experiencing anxiety!
- By George S. on 05-02-25
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Ordinary Magic
- The Science of How We Can Achieve Big Change with Small Acts
- By: Gregory M. Walton PhD
- Narrated by: Gregory M. Walton PhD, Hattie Tate
- Length: 14 hrs and 26 mins
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The emotional questions we face can define our lives. If you’re expecting an interaction to go wrong, that expectation can make it so. That’s spiraling down. But as esteemed Stanford psychologist Greg Walton shows, when we see these questions clearly, we can answer them well. Known to social psychologists as wise interventions, these shifts in perspective can help us chart new trajectories for our lives. They help us spiral up. This is ordinary magic: The ordinary experiences that help us set aside the ordinary worries of life to unleash extraordinary change.
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So simple and so profound
- By S. Ma on 05-17-25
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Some reviewers have expressed disappointment with the length of the production. They have it all wrong! The whole point of aphorisms is to be short and memorable.
This book is loaded with concise value. If you benefit from a handful of these sayings, you’ll be miles ahead. Thanks Gretchen & team!
Big Truth, Compact Packaging!
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Insightful!
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Great format
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A short collection of platitudes collected from Christmas Crackers
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this is just an audiobook of someone saying phrases that other people have already said.
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Not like others
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