
The Collapse of Parenting
How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them like Grown-Ups
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Leonard Sax
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Leonard Sax
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In this New York Times bestseller, one of America’s premier physicians offers a must-listen account of the new challenges facing parents today and a program for how we can better prepare our children to navigate the obstacles they face
In The Collapse of Parenting, internationally acclaimed author Leonard Sax argues that rising levels of obesity, depression, and anxiety among young people can be traced to parents abdicating their authority. The result is children who have no standard of right and wrong, who lack discipline, and who look to their peers and the Internet for direction. Sax shows how parents must reassert their authority - by limiting time with screens, by encouraging better habits at the dinner table, and by teaching humility and perspective - to renew their relationships with their children. Drawing on nearly thirty years of experience as a family physician and psychologist, along with hundreds of interviews with children, parents, and teachers, Sax offers a blueprint parents can use to help their children thrive in an increasingly complicated world.
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Critic reviews
"[Sax is] sounding some alarms that we'd do well to heed, and for our kids' sakes, I think sooner is better than later."—Chicago Tribune
"A comprehensive breakdown of where parents have gone awry and how they can get back on track to teach virtue and character to their children."—Kirkus
Excellent
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A much needed reminder in today’s challenging culture!
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Spend time with your kids
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Highly Recommended
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Must read!
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Parents BUY THIS BOOK
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Very useful Insights on Modern Parenting
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Practical and informative
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One of the most compelling arguments in the book is that long-term success in adulthood isn’t primarily determined by academic performance but by conscientiousness—a trait that includes self-discipline, responsibility, and perseverance. Dr. Sax presents extensive research showing that children who develop these qualities are more likely to thrive in their careers and relationships than those who simply excel in school.
Through real-life examples and practical advice, Dr. Sax challenges parents to reclaim their authority, prioritize family values, and guide their children toward becoming respectful, resilient, and well-rounded individuals. His perspective is both convicting and encouraging, offering a much-needed wake-up call for parents who feel overwhelmed by societal pressures.
This book is an eye-opener and a game-changer. Whether you’re a new parent or have teenagers, The Collapse of Parenting will shift the way you think about raising children in today’s world. I highly recommend it to all parents—it’s a book that could truly make a difference in your family’s future.
Parenting Wake-Up Call: Raising Respectful, Resilient Kids
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well written
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