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How My Attitude Created the Best Kind of Trouble
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Deesha Dyer
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Deesha Dyer
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Without credentials, connections or a college degree, a hip-hop journalist and community leader conquered her imposter syndrome while landing one of the most exclusive, sought-after and fun positions in the White House.
From the most unlikely person to end up as a senior official to President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama comes a candid, incredible and inspiring story. Moved by the election of the country’s first Black president, Deesha Dyer applied for a White House internship in 2009 as a thirty-one-year-old part-time community college student, taking a leap that carried her through being hired in a full-time position, followed by two promotions landing her at the epicenter of politics.
But in spite of the little voice in her head telling her she didn’t deserve to be there, Deesha thrived and rose to the highly coveted role of White House social secretary, giving her a front row-seat to executing events that communicated defining moments in history while curating some of the flyest parties 1600 Pennsylvania has ever seen. With humor and realness, she peels back the curtain, revealing the hard truth about why she spent years trying to hide behind it. Undiplomatic is a deeply personal narrative about combating the feeling of self-doubt while being on top of the world. Deesha reflects on how imposter syndrome threatened her self-esteem, proven aptitude and survival until she realized that it was neither her fault nor her responsibility.
In this vivid portrayal from a true “around the way girl” on the personal impact of the Obama presidency, Deesha shares her road map from imposter to impact. In Undiplomatic, she invites you on a journey of self-discovery where she overcame doubt, unearthed true love for herself and learned that your unique worth is not something to be earned, but something inherently deserved. Uplifting, funny and candid, Deesha’s story shows you how to embrace your authenticity at all costs, and the joy and freedom that awaits on the other side.
©2024 Deesha Dyer (P)2024 Legacy Lit
Interview: "Undiplomatic" is a deeply personal memoir from the Obama White House’s social secretary
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Raw and uncut
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ExcellentExamples of Imposter Syndrome
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You did that Neesha!
Unbought and Real
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Her endurance.
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Loved watching self doubt leave and
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Her journey is incredible, inspiring, vulnerable and really honest throughout it, it made me feel less alone and like I can move through all of the things. I really commend her for sharing the way she did.
10/10 recommend especially if you’re in need of a little recentering and inspiration on your own journey.
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Adiós impostor syndrome
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