When faced with the life changing process of becoming more self centered, you might ask yourself "Do people ACTUALLY say and do these things? What does life REALLY look like in the midst of carving out this path?"

In this episode, we share with you our personal experience of what life felt and looked like as we learned to set boundaries, sit with challenging emotions, redefine vales, and stay in our seats. It's not always a pretty path, but the life you create is worth it.

IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN:

• Tools and strategies to support you on your journey to becoming more self centered
• Approaches to visualizing emotions
• Distinguishing between distraction and avoidance tactics
• When might therapy make sense
• What therapy modalities should you look for in a mental health professional to assist with becoming more self centered
• How to love yourself through the pendulum swings of growth

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DISCLAIMER: The views, opinions, and content expressed on this podcast are for entertainment purposes only and do not represent the official positions or practices of the fields of psychotherapy, coaching, or personal training. This podcast does not provide medical, mental health, or professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and should not be relied upon as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals.

Listeners are strongly encouraged to seek advice and guidance from licensed healthcare providers, coaches, or mental health professionals regarding any medical, mental health, or personal concerns. The hosts and creators of this podcast disclaim all liability for any actions taken by listeners based on the content of this podcast or materials linked to it. Use of this podcast is entirely at the user’s own risk.”

How do you maintain your self-esteem when people have negative perceptions of you and, even worse, spread gossip and make other people see you negatively, too?

In this episode, we cover strategies for dealing with negative perceptions, smear campaigns, family conflicts, and the importance of setting healthy boundaries so you can stay true to and feel good about yourself amidst it all.

IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN:

• How to cope when others judge you negatively or convince others that you're bad/selfish/crazy, etc.
• That people might misunderstand you because of their own insecurities and psychological state.
• How unconsciously (unintentionally) reacting to conflict and disagreements with a victim mindset keeps you stuck in the "Drama Triangle", and how to respond more effectively to stop drama in its tracks.
• About the complexities of narcissism and that you can have empathy for narcissists, emotionally immature, and toxic people while also protecting yourself with boundaries.
• The difference between constructive feedback and disempowering judgment.
• How to give yourself grace and remember that being imperfect is part of being human.

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DISCLAIMER: The views, opinions, and content expressed on this podcast are for entertainment purposes only and do not represent the official positions or practices of the fields of psychotherapy, coaching, or personal training. This podcast does not provide medical, mental health, or professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and should not be relied upon as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals.

Listeners are strongly encouraged to seek advice and guidance from licensed healthcare providers, coaches, or mental health professionals regarding any medical, mental health, or personal concerns. The hosts and creators of this podcast disclaim all liability for any actions taken by listeners based on the content of this podcast or materials linked to it. Use of this podcast is entirely at the user’s own risk.”

SOURCES:

Website of Psychiatrist and Creator of the "Drama Triangle" Framework, Stephen Karpman, MD

"'We Can Bury Anyone': Inside a Hollywood Smear Machine" by the New York Times

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:

"Escaping the Drama Triangle" by University of South Carolina Human Resources

"Justin Baldoni Sues Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds for Defamation" by The New York Times

We all aspire to live a life with no regrets. So what exactly DO people regret when they've come face to face with the end? And how can we avoid experiencing these regrets ourselves?

In this episode, we discuss Bronnie Ware's The Top 5 Regrets of the Dying and how these regrets occur when your life doesn't truly center you. We also discuss connections between physical health and emotional suppression as presented in Gabor Maté's The Myth of Normal. This episode will empower you to realign your life with the priorities that matter most to you so you can live a happy and healthy life with no regrets.

IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN:

• 5 common deathbed regrets and how you can avoid them
• the potential connection between cardiac health, chronic illness, and suppressed emotions
• the evolution of friendships as we age and the importance of nurturing aligned relationships
• how conditions of worth shape our core beliefs and thoughts
• how personal choice and an internal locus of control can help you reclaim your power and change the trajectory of your life

New episodes launch every Tuesday. Click SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode!

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DISCLAIMER: The views, opinions, and content expressed on this podcast are for entertainment purposes only and do not represent the official positions or practices of the fields of psychotherapy, coaching, or personal training. This podcast does not provide medical, mental health, or professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and should not be relied upon as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals.

Listeners are strongly encouraged to seek advice and guidance from licensed healthcare providers, coaches, or mental health professionals regarding any medical, mental health, or personal concerns. The hosts and creators of this podcast disclaim all liability for any actions taken by listeners based on the content of this podcast or materials linked to it. Use of this podcast is entirely at the user’s own risk.”

SOURCES:

Bronnie Ware IG/FB: @bronnie.ware YT: Bronnieware1

Gabor Maté IG: @gabormatemd

Who Americans spend their time with, by age

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This is your comprehensive masterclass on exactly how to set and follow through on boundaries, say no, and set expectations for what you want and need in relationships. This is a crucial skill you MUST learn and use in order to be self centered, especially if you have trouble being assertive or you've been made to feel bad for putting yourself first.

This episode has tons of real world examples of exactly what to say to set boundaries in the first place AND what to say when people push back on them so you can stand firm with confidence.

Tune in and then save this episode for the next time you need to set boundaries!

IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN:

• A clear and concrete description of what boundaries are
• A 4 part template for what to say and how to say it
• A customizable affirmation to validate yourself so you feel confident setting boundaries
• How to deal with guilt and fear of hurting people's feelings
• What's beneath the surface when people try to manipulate you into giving up on your boundaries and how to stick with them instead of getting derailed
• How to respond when other people set boundaries with you

New episodes launch every Tuesday. Click SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode!

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DISCLAIMER: The views, opinions, and content expressed on this podcast are for entertainment purposes only and do not represent the official positions or practices of the fields of psychotherapy, coaching, or personal training. This podcast does not provide medical, mental health, or professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and should not be relied upon as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals.

Listeners are strongly encouraged to seek advice and guidance from licensed healthcare providers, coaches, or mental health professionals regarding any medical, mental health, or personal concerns. The hosts and creators of this podcast disclaim all liability for any actions taken by listeners based on the content of this podcast or materials linked to it. Use of this podcast is entirely at the user’s own risk.”

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It's New Year Resolution time! This popular annual ritual can be a valuable tool for prioritizing health, finances, and personal alignment with the start of a fresh year. But unfortunately, even with the best intentions, less than 1 in 10 individuals will achieve their new year goals.

IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN:

• How to set goals that truly matter to YOU
• Habit stacking and tools to combat common resolution pitfalls
• Leveraging mindset and delusion
• How self awareness and emotional honesty can make or break your goals
• Letting go of perfectionism while working towards a goal

New episodes launch every Tuesday!

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REFERENCED STUDIES:

Kurth, F., Gaser, C., Sánchez, F. J., & Luders, E. (2022). Brain Sex in Transgender Women Is Shifted towards Gender Identity. Journal of clinical medicine, 11(6), 1582. https://doi.org/10.3390/jcm11061582

Transgender brains are more like their desired gender from an early age: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2018/05/180524112351.htm

Bastos, A.P.M., Houghton, Z.N., Naranjo, L. et al. Soundboard-trained dogs produce non-accidental, non-random and non-imitative two-button combinations. Sci Rep 14, 28771 (2024). https://doi.org/10.1038/s41598-024-79517-6

DISCLAIMER: The views, opinions, and content expressed on this podcast are for entertainment purposes only and do not represent the official positions or practices of the fields of psychotherapy, coaching, or personal training. This podcast does not provide medical, mental health, or professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and should not be relied upon as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals.

Listeners are strongly encouraged to seek advice and guidance from licensed healthcare providers, coaches, or mental health professionals regarding any medical, mental health, or personal concerns. The hosts and creators of this podcast disclaim all liability for any actions taken by listeners based on the content of this podcast or materials linked to it. Use of this podcast is entirely at the user’s own risk.”

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In this episode, Katie and Allie discuss the concept of finding your center across the 8 dimensions of wellness, exploring what it means to thrive versus merely survive. This episode is especially helpful for you if you feel off-balance, want to understand what it means to live authentically, or are seeking a practical framework to improve your overall well-being.

Join Katie and Allie in this deep, reflective conversation that will inspire you to align with your authentic self and create a life where you feel centered, empowered, and thriving.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN:

• A framework for finding your center

• The 8 dimensions of wellness and how they shape your well-being

• How to assess where you are thriving versus surviving in your life

• Personal stories from Katie and Allie about navigating challenges and finding balance

• How to move closer to your center

• How to trust your intuition and use it as a guide for decision-making

New episodes usually launch every Tuesday, except for Christmas and New Year’s week, when they launch a day early on Monday so you have time to listen and stay centered through the holidays!

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DISCLAIMER: The views, opinions, and content expressed on this podcast are for entertainment purposes only and do not represent the official positions or practices of the fields of psychotherapy, coaching, or personal training. This podcast does not provide medical, mental health, or professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and should not be relied upon as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals.

Listeners are strongly encouraged to seek advice and guidance from licensed healthcare providers, coaches, or mental health professionals regarding any medical, mental health, or personal concerns. The hosts and creators of this podcast disclaim all liability for any actions taken by listeners based on the content of this podcast or materials linked to it. Use of this podcast is entirely at the user’s own risk.”

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In this episode, Katie and Allie discuss common limiting beliefs and the patterns that consciously and sub-consciously get in the way of being self-centered. This episode is helpful for people who feel "stuck" in unhealthy patterns, self sabotage, or relationships that cause you to leave your seat.

IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN:

• Examples of limiting beliefs
• Understanding objectification and its impact on the quality of your relationships
• Common responses that signal potential relationship imbalance (J.A.D.E)
• How limiting beliefs prevent you from being self centered
• Questions to ask yourself to help work through your limiting beliefs
• How practicing self-centered builds trust

New episodes launch every Tuesday!

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Email your thoughts, questions, & requests for episode topics: selfcenteredthepod@gmail.com

DISCLAIMER: The views, opinions, and content expressed on this podcast are for entertainment purposes only and do not represent the official positions or practices of the fields of psychotherapy, coaching, or personal training. This podcast does not provide medical, mental health, or professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and should not be relied upon as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals.

Listeners are strongly encouraged to seek advice and guidance from licensed healthcare providers, coaches, or mental health professionals regarding any medical, mental health, or personal concerns. The hosts and creators of this podcast disclaim all liability for any actions taken by listeners based on the content of this podcast or materials linked to it. Use of this podcast is entirely at the user’s own risk.”

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In this episode Allie and Katie share a practice that will put an end to overextending, abandoning, and burning yourself out, "staying in your seat". This practice is especially helpful if you have a big, empathetic heart, have difficulty setting boundaries, and tend to overfunction and do too much for others.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN:

• What it means to "stay in your seat" and 3 steps to do it
• Strategies for identifying your needs and boundaries
• How to prevent one-sided, imbalanced relationship dynamics
• How to stay true to yourself
• How to deal with the guilt and fear of saying no and putting yourself first

New episodes launch every Tuesday!

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Email your thoughts, questions, & requests for episode topics: selfcenteredthepod@gmail.com

DISCLAIMER: The views, opinions, and content expressed on this podcast are for entertainment purposes only and do not represent the official positions or practices of the fields of psychotherapy, coaching, or personal training. This podcast does not provide medical, mental health, or professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and should not be relied upon as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals.

Listeners are strongly encouraged to seek advice and guidance from licensed healthcare providers, coaches, or mental health professionals regarding any medical, mental health, or personal concerns. The hosts and creators of this podcast disclaim all liability for any actions taken by listeners based on the content of this podcast or materials linked to it. Use of this podcast is entirely at the user’s own risk.”

MUSIC CREDIT: "Glow " by LiQWYD

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Music by LiQWYD:

http://www.soundcloud.com/liqwyd

http://www.bit.ly/liqwyd-youtube

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