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Matchmaker Maria's No-Nonsense Guide to Finding Love
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Maria Avgitidis
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Maria Avgitidis
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Written and read by renowned fourth-generation matchmaker Maria Avgitidis, comes a fresh, modern dating audiobook that helps anyone navigating the world of dating and relationships attract and grow the partnership of their dreams.
In today's world, dating can feel like a never-ending cycle of swipes and small talk, where real connections are hard to come by. But the dream of meeting “The One” isn’t out of reach. Blending personal stories and professional insights, Maria Avgitidis, or Matchmaker Maria, offers the kind of straight-talking, no-nonsense advice that only a true friend can give, guiding you to understand your dating options in a whole new way. By covering everything from personality typing systems to compatibility to Maria’s own developed rules and theories, Ask a Matchmaker equips you to diagnose your own relationship dilemmas and address them with confidence.
A Macmillan Audio production from St. Martin’s Press Essentials.
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"Blunt, funny, and actually helpful, Avgitidis could be the last dating expert you’ll ever need."—Bustle
"Maria is the sane and loving but realistic friend or auntie that you want at your side as you sort out the practical landscape of dating. Her book forces readers to reckon with their fantasies about love and relationships and provides the practical and realistic guidance we need to make decisions about relationships that are about growth, companionship, collaboration, respect, and yes–fun. If you follow her well-honed guidance from years in the matchmaking trenches, you can steer clear of some of the toxic potholes on the road to a healthy committed relationship."—Ramani Durvasula, Ph.D., Psychologist and New York Times Bestselling Author of It’s Not You: Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Relationships
"Ask a Matchmaker is one of my favorite books to hit the market in years. This book combines science and academia with insights only a fourth generation matchmaker would have. The result is a book that makes you laugh, makes you feel empowered, and inspires you to find love."—Melissa Hobley, CMO of Tinder
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If you're tired of the games and guesswork, Ask a Matchmaker will ground you, guide you, and inspire you to approach dating with clarity and self-respect. A must-read for anyone serious about finding lasting love.
This is the only dating book you’ll ever need
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WOW! Top notch dating advice
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Timeless and life changing advice for all!
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Love matchmaker Maria
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Clear concise guidance
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Superb!!
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The recommended exercises are straightforward and easy to follow, making it manageable to put the book’s advice into practice in real time.
I highly recommend the audiobook, Maria’s voice is so soothing! It truly feels like I’m getting advice from a wise friend.
I’m so grateful for Maria, this book, and the huge impact she’s making on the dating world 🙏🏻
All Hail Matchmaker Maria!
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Great advice
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Really valuable dating advice, but a bit too political at times.
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wow! I didn't need a lecture. I just wanted to hear about match making! Bummer!
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