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The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
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An essential exploration of why and how women's sexuality works - based on groundbreaking research and brain science - that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.
Researchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a "pink pill" for women to function like Viagra does for men. So where is it? Well, for reasons this book makes crystal clear, that pill will never exist - but as a result of the research that's gone into it, scientists in the last few years have learned more about how women's sexuality works than we ever thought possible, and Come as You Are explains it all....
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2015 Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. All rights reserved. (P)2015 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.Listeners also enjoyed...
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- By: Shannon Boodram
- Narrated by: Shannon Boodram
- Length: 7 hrs and 50 mins
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For younger generations, dating is a complicated mystery. Apps like Tinder and Bumble are supposed to foster connection but instead serve as a reminder of how painfully single we are. Certified sexologist and intimacy coach Shan Boodram - the most sought-after sex educator on the internet - is about to change all that. In this essential how-to guide, she addresses the realities of life today - when the rules of love and attraction are fluid - and teaches a group of young women how to become master daters in just 60 days.
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Hey it’s me...you
- By Shan Boody on 09-25-19
By: Shannon Boodram
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
- Creating a Marriage That's Both Holy and Hot
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 6 hrs and 46 mins
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Whether you're about to walk down the aisle or you've been married for decades, this revised and expanded edition of The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex by popular blogger and award-winning author Sheila Wray Gregoire will lead you on a wonderful journey of discovery toward the amazing sex life God designed you for.
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Wish I’d had this sooner
- By Amazon Customer on 05-26-23
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The Big Stick
- Collected and Applied Wisdom from the Teachings of Dr. Robert Glover
- By: Tony Endelman, Dr. Robert Glover
- Narrated by: Todd McLaren
- Length: 14 hrs and 12 mins
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The Big Stick is truly a man's guide to (almost) everything, from dating and relationships to career success and happiness. You'll learn how to: overcome Nice Guy Syndrome; become more attractive; develop interpersonal skills; live with integrity; improve your dating skills; navigate relationships and marriage; heal sexual shame; overcome heartbreak; deal with infidelity; discover your passions and purpose; experience more joy; and so much more.
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Valuable book, good compendium
- By Anonymous User on 01-20-24
By: Tony Endelman, and others
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Pussy
- By: Regena Thomashauer
- Narrated by: Regena Thomashauer
- Length: 9 hrs and 32 mins
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Get ready to encounter a book that will change your experience as a woman in a powerful new way. Author, educator, and School of Womanly Arts founder Regena Thomashauer has been working with women for the past 25 years, and what began as just a few women in her living room has since grown into a global movement with thousands of graduates worldwide.
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Hippy Trippy Dilight
- By Steff Doles on 04-27-17
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Existential Kink
- Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power; A Method for Getting What You Want by Getting Off on What You Don't
- By: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Narrated by: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 33 mins
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Each of us has a dual nature: we are light (conscious) and dark (unconscious). The dark side of our personality - the “other,” the shadow side - is made up of what we think is our primitive, primal, negative impulses - our “existential kink.” Our existential kink also drives the dark or negative repeating patterns in our life: always choosing the abusive partner or boss, settling for less, thinking that we’re undeserving, not worthy. But it also is the source of our greatest power.
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Personal Experience Based Pseudoscience
- By The Humble Housewife on 11-02-21
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What Happened to My Sex Life?
- A Sex Therapist’s Guide to Reclaiming Lost Desire, Connection, and Pleasure
- By: Kate Balestrieri
- Narrated by: Robin Siegerman
- Length: 8 hrs and 13 mins
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At some point in nearly every person's life, they experience a loss of desire. Sometimes there's a catalyzing event—stress at work, a fight with your partner, or sexual harassment—often, the problem is internal as a person loses touch with themself and what they want. Dr. Kate Balestrieri, licensed sex therapist, founder of Modern Intimacy, and host of Get Naked with Dr. Kate, is here to help. In this book, Dr. Kate identifies the twenty most common reasons people show up in her therapy room, asking What Happened to My Sex Life?
By: Kate Balestrieri
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The Erotic Mind
- Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment
- By: Jack Morin PhD
- Narrated by: Matthew Boston
- Length: 12 hrs and 52 mins
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Challenging accepted theories about what makes for terrific sex, The Erotic Mind is a breakthrough exploration of the least understood dimensions of human sexuality - the psychology of desire, arousal, and fulfillment. Sex therapist Dr. Jack Morin offers a new perspective that celebrates the joys of Eros without denying its risks. Based on an in-depth analysis of over 1,000 provocative stories of peak sexual experiences, The Erotic Mind offers clear, accessible guidance on how anyone can utilize their own peak encounters and fantasies as powerful tools of self-discovery.
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The BEST book in sex and psychology
- By Jesse Malan on 09-07-24
By: Jack Morin PhD
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Dark Seduction Psychology & Female Mind Control Tactics
- By: Sarah Levi
- Narrated by: Don Keedik
- Length: 3 hrs and 21 mins
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The controversial and thought-provoking book "Dark Seduction Psychology & Female Mind Control Tactics" by Sarah Levi explores the psychology of attraction and offers tactics that she says can control and influence women's perceptions and behaviors during seduction. Expanding upon her earlier writings, Levi delves into the darker side of psychological manipulation with the goal of giving listeners a toolkit of approaches that go beyond morally acceptable seduction.
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Very Interesting
- By Loretta on 06-09-24
By: Sarah Levi
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Beyond Shame
- Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms
- By: Matthias Roberts, Tina Schermer Sellers - foreword
- Narrated by: Timothy Andrés Pabon
- Length: 5 hrs and 3 mins
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We all carry sexual shame. Whether we grew up in the repressive purity culture of American Evangelical Christianity or not, we've all been taught in subtle and not-so-subtle ways that sex (outside of very specific contexts) is immoral and taboo. Psychotherapist Matthias Roberts helps listeners overcome their shame around sex by overcoming three unhealthy coping mechanisms we use to manage that shame.
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Good info, but author is close minded
- By Anonymous User on 04-07-22
By: Matthias Roberts, and others
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Arousal
- The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies
- By: Dr. Michael J. Bader
- Narrated by: Eric Altheide
- Length: 8 hrs and 49 mins
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Sexual fantasies. Everyone has them, but no one knows what they mean. People are curious about and often confused by the things that arouse them, yet they are often too ashamed to reveal their most private fantasies to their partners or even their therapists. In this fascinating and provocative book, Dr. Michael J. Bader offers a groundbreaking new theory of sexual desire, one that will liberate men and women and enable them to better understand their sexual preferences.
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Esther Perel's Where Should We Begin?: The Arc of Love
- By: Esther Perel
- Narrated by: Esther Perel
- Length: 4 hrs and 38 mins
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For her latest Audible Original, Where Should We Begin?: The Arc of Love, Esther Perel invites you to listen to private and intimate conversations exploring the evolution of relationships. Hear six sets of people at different points in their quests for romantic and familial love, including a young couple whose immigration status has forced them to consider marriage, a stepmother trying to put the pieces back together for four children whose mother died by suicide, a nonbinary child desperate to connect with their single mother, and more.
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Not Nearly as Good as the Podcast
- By LAX2NRT on 10-09-18
By: Esther Perel
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The Couple at Table Six
- By: Daniel Hurst
- Narrated by: Deirdra Whelan, Harriet Dunlop
- Length: 5 hrs and 29 mins
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Max and Nadine Murphy have a tradition. Friday night is date night and it's always at their favorite restaurant. But that regular routine means somebody at the restaurant has become fond of them . . . Hannah is the waitress who has found herself drawn to the couple at Table Six and the more she observes them, the more she wants to know everything about them. What is their home life like? What do they do for work? Why does Mrs. Murphy look agitated? And could Mr. Murphy ever be interested in becoming romantically involved with his waitress?
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One of my favorites
- By claire bronster on 10-04-23
By: Daniel Hurst
Would you listen to Come as You Are again? Why?
YES! I finished it and the next day started at the beginning again.Any additional comments?
I have read about six books on the topic of "sex self help" in the past several months and this one changed EVERYTHING! Emily is funny and smart and relatable and nonjudgmental. Her advice completely changed the way I think about my sexuality and may just end up saving my marriage. I am SO grateful. Buy this book! Buy it now!BUY THIS BOOK!
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For ladies, the men that love them and couples. Some language is extremely redundant, which becomes annoying by the third chapter.
Arthur does an extraordinary job of crushing myths and b*******.
GREAT, but if she said the feels one more time.
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Required Reading for EVERYONe
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New Perspective.
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Life changing
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Feeling proud of your sexuality
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Excellent!
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I highly recommend it for anyone who was born with a vagina or wants to be in a relationship with someone who has a vagina, or even those to relate more to women in general.
Thank you Emily Nagoski for this. Really, thank you.
Life changing
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Read this book!
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Important
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