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  • I Love You but I Don’t Trust You

  • The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship
  • By: Mira Kirshenbaum
  • Narrated by: Emily Durante
  • Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (807 ratings)

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I Love You but I Don’t Trust You

By: Mira Kirshenbaum
Narrated by: Emily Durante
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Is my relationship worth saving? Will the trust ever come back? How can things be good between us again? Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged.

In this complete guide, couples therapist Mira Kirshenbaum will also help you understand the stages by which trust strengthens when the rebuilding process is allowed to take place. And you will learn how the two of you can avoid the mistakes that prevent healing and discover how to feel secure with each other again.

©2012 Mira Kirshenbaum (P)2016 Tantor
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must read

This book is a must-read. It had many helpful tools and included many questions to ask yourself when considering leaving or staying in a relationship. The questions are tough, to the point and very succinct.

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Thumbs up!

Very informative and a great help. Overall I loved the book!
The only issue I had was the few, occasional swearing.

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If you are struggling with a betrayal, LISTEN!

This book has been extremely helpful. I never thought I could regain trust once betrayed, but this book has given me a completely different perspective. I am so thankful to have found it when I was in such a bad place. It is a good balance between real life stories and counseling. If you are hurt and betrayed, or if you betrayed someone and cannot fully understand why that person is so hurt, listen to this book. I felt like it was my support for the way I was feeling, and it gave me hope for a trusting future.

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Very Insightful

Explained well and great tools to combat the issues... just picked up her book "Why Couples Fight"

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Great read

a very good book for someone that holds grudges for a long time explains why not to do that and how to heal quick as possible after I misunderstanding

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Thankful to have read this

This book was so easy to listen to and absorb the information on my hour long commute to work each day. I feel like I learned so much about my own trust issues and how to enable and heal trust in relationships. I feel like I can be a better partner after this book, now I just need to get my partner to listen to it! :) I am tempted to buy the paper version so I can have it for quick reference. I would recommend this book to anyone who has experienced a betrayal or is dealing with any sort of trust issue with their partner. Many relationship problems can be rooted with trust issues and as she says in the book, love is nothing without trust.

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Great book

This book was very helpful. I would recommend this to anyone who wants to rebuilt trust in relationships. A lot of key points and very easy to follow and understand.

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opened my eyes.

great read, males you realize you are not alone and the world is not ending. it's ok to be angry, for a while anyway. good book!!

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perspective and understanding

I really appreciate how this has helped me with perspective and understanding of myself and my other relationships.

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Helpful

this book basically put into words exactly how I was feeling and gives real practical steps on how to get through your emotions and get to the other side of a devastating blow to trust in a relationship

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