
Secure Relating
Holding Your Own in an Insecure World
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Ann Kelley
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Experienced mental health professionals and hosts of the Therapist Uncensored podcast offer a groundbreaking new clinical perspective that integrates modern attachment theory, relational neuroscience, and current cultural context to create a hopeful framework for deeper and more permanent change, growth and connection in all types of relationships.
Secure Relating offers a refreshing and innovative approach to understanding and improving relationships in today's increasingly polarized world. Drawing on over thirty years of professional clinical experience, authors Ann Kelley, PhD and Sue Marriott, LCSW, CGP integrate modern attachment theory, relational neuroscience, and depth psychology into practical tools for deepening self-awareness and navigating closeness with strength in even the most challenging relationships.
Instead of the popular broad attachment categorizations, Secure Relating presents a nuanced understanding of attachment and interpersonal defensive patterns, allowing listeners to delve into the complexities of their own experience and apply the specific skills they need.
Refreshingly, Kelley and Marriott make complex concepts accessible and relatable, emphasizing the realistic capacity for neural change and psychological growth. They provide contemporary concepts and interactive tools such as the Modern Attachment Regulation Spectrum, a new framework that helps listeners identify their unconscious defensive patterns, update and revise their personal narratives, and cultivate a secure state of mind amid chaos and adversity.
Secure Relating delivers hope, connection, and empowerment amidst the many barriers to emotional closeness and provocations towards self-protection by offering a comprehensive approach to understanding and transforming all kinds of relationships into more secure and satisfying bonds.
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The content is great and the book is well written. BUT…
- By Melissa Rae on 08-26-24
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Attachment Theory in Practice
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Individuals, Couples, and Families
- By: Susan M. Johnson EdD
- Narrated by: Mary Conway
- Length: 11 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged
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Drawing on cutting-edge research on adult attachment—and providing an innovative roadmap for clinical practice—Susan M. Johnson argues that psychotherapy is most effective when it focuses on the healing power of emotional connection.
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Disappointing
- By Pink Amy on 12-18-24
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Healing Your Attachment Wounds
- How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships
- By: Diane Poole Heller
- Narrated by: Diane Poole Heller
- Length: 6 hrs and 6 mins
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From our earliest years, teaches Diane Poole Heller, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our intimate relationships, with our children, and at work. And traumatic events can deeply affect that core relational blueprint. With Healing Your Attachment Wounds, a pioneer in attachment theory and trauma resolution brings together these two fields to help us understand and benefit from their complementary principles and methods.
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u mean i’m not doomed to self inflicted suffocating loneliness?
- By SidVid on 01-20-20
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To Be Loved
- A Story of Truth, Trauma, and Transformation
- By: Frank G. Anderson MD
- Narrated by: Frank G. Anderson
- Length: 10 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
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Known for his magnetic and radiant personality, Frank spends his time training thousands of clinicians around the world on how to help clients with complex trauma make sense of their suffering. But underneath this charismatic exterior are his dark family secrets, including the marks of child abuse from his father and the invisible scars of shame.
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a brilliant memoir
- By Cliente Amazon on 09-22-24
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No Bad Parts
- Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
- By: Richard C. Schwartz PhD, Alanis Morissette - foreword introduction
- Narrated by: Charlie Mechling
- Length: 8 hrs and 10 mins
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Dr. Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems (IFS) model has been transforming psychology for decades. With No Bad Parts, you’ll learn why IFS has been so effective in areas such as trauma recovery, addiction therapy, and depression treatment - and how this new understanding of consciousness has the potential to radically change our lives.
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Superb content, but painful dramatizations
- By January on 12-02-21
By: Richard C. Schwartz PhD, and others
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Nonviolent Communication
- Create Your Life, Your Relationships, and Your World in Harmony with Your Values
- By: Marshall Rosenberg PhD
- Narrated by: Marshall Rosenberg PhD
- Length: 5 hrs and 9 mins
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On Nonviolent Communication, this renowned peacemaker presents his complete system for speaking our deepest truths, addressing our unrecognized needs and emotions, and honoring those same concerns in others. With this adaptation of the best-selling book of the same title, Marshall Rosenberg teaches in his own words.
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This is an amazing life changing book!!!
- By Olesya on 08-03-16
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- sucks
- 07-11-24
Life changing
I’ve been in therapy (trauma) for over a year. DV for 20…this book was recommended to me by my therapist, I listened to half the book and used it with my 22yr old..within the same week and explained why and how I reacted to him. He is now going to listen and try and relate in the green… two ripples!!!!Thank you, it was like magic when then thought hit me. (You are wanting to engage right now to prove that you’re right, he’s not hearing you…the speed of how he was talking indicated his activation) so I rolled back to green and within 10 minutes, he said he was sorry and didn’t understand why he reacted that way. Which opened the conversation about book, and what I learned.
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- Heather B.
- 02-01-25
thorough reasearch
I enjoyed the recognition that we are all complex beings that can not be described in 60 words or fewer.
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- Megan
- 11-03-24
The little narratives within really strengthened the continent. 🫶🏼
I love this book. It has changed my nervous system to lean more securely. I’m on a great journey due to Sue and Ann!
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- Trena H. Peckham
- 05-08-24
Comprehensive look at attachment and relationships
I liked the way the authors simplified and expanded the look at attachment styles and ways the reader could reduce disconnection in their own relationships by understanding themselves and others
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