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How to Love Better

The Path to Deeper Connection Through Growth, Kindness, and Compassion

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How to Love Better

By: Yung Pueblo
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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The beloved author of Lighter offers a blueprint for deepening your compassion, kindness, and gratitude so you can truly grow in harmony with another person and build stronger connections in all your relationships.

“A beautiful offering from the heart, to the heart.”—Elizabeth Gilbert

“Yung Pueblo holds a mirror to the relationships we have and offers clear directions to the relationships we desire.”—Simon Sinek

How to Love Better is destined to change your life.”—Lena Waithe

“Everyone enters relationships with imperfections and negative patterns that block the flow of love, but when you embrace growth, the new harmony within you will flow into your relationship.”

Love enters our lives in many forms: friends, family, intimate partners. But all of these relationships are deeply influenced by the love we have for ourselves. If we see our relationships as opportunities to be fully present in our healing and growth, then, Yung Pueblo assures us, we can transform and meet one another with compassion instead of judgment.

In How to Love Better, Yung Pueblo examines all aspects of relationships, from the rose-colored early days when you may be hesitant to show your full self, to the challenges that can arise without clear communication, to dealing with heartbreak and healing as you close a chapter of your life. The power of looking inward remains at the core of Yung Pueblo’s teachings. Ego and attachment can become barriers in a relationship, so the more self-aware you become, the more you can support both your partner and yourself.

How to Love Better includes:

• How to build harmony in a relationship

• How to see each other’s perspective

• How to find the right partner

• How to heal from heartbreak

• How to overcome attachment

• How to form commitments

• How to argue

Yung Pueblo’s insights on embracing change, building a foundation of honesty, and learning to listen selflessly will resonate regardless of where you are in your healing journey. And his unique combination of poetry, personal experience, and thoughtful advice will help you grow and strengthen all of your relationships.

©2025 Yung Pueblo (P)2025 Random House Audio
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“Get ready to underline and highlight so many pages of this beautiful book. In the time we are living in today, we are all on a growth journey. I always say the hardest part is showing up. Yung Pueblo serves as an unpretentious and pertinent guide for how to participate compassionately in your own growth, lean into your healing era, and set yourself up to be of service to others.”—Adriene Mishler, creator of Yoga with Adriene, artist, and actor

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Helpful w examples and tools it was helpful clear and easy to read will buy one as gift to my son

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Title says it all

Offers great insight into what has worked and what hasn’t in Diego’s experiences. His emphasis on finding what fills your cup, meditation in his case, is great advice and a general guideline for a life well lived.

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please allow choices of voice narration

It was so hard to get through such a good book because narrator's voice was so mundane and uninteresting 😭 Siri sounds more interesting than this guy. Penguin house should definitely offer choices for narrators.

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I was hooked at the title.

I really enjoyed the ease of listening. The lesson was encased in wonderful story telling.

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Amazing!!!!!!

I listened to this after a breakup and it was what I needed to hear. Inspired me to take another 10 day Vipassana course. Such a gift of wisdom and love. Thank you for sharing Diego & Sara!!

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Inspiring and impactful

Thank you for the beautiful and practical insights on love. It’s a masterpiece of beautiful insights on a critically important topic, love.

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Great book

love every part of the book and learned a lot. I am able to apply these learnings to my life. Great book 🤎

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Is he crying

Mediocre. The narration is so soft spoken. I get it, you’re enlightened after years of meditation, but still.

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Impostor

Ironically, despite his advice to the contrary, Pueblo sounds egotistical. His lists are juvenile and condescending (Do such-and-such obvious things, but not too much and not too little), and his sentences read like a personal essay for school. If anyone in the author’s camp actually reads these reviews, you might want to advise the author not to say “the both,” as in, “It worked for the both of us.” I realize this is hardly meant to be a literary publication— and, in this, it succeeds— but “the both” undermines Pueblo’s authority. He claims to be an author— a poet, no less. He positions himself as an expert. He can do better than “the both.”

Pueblo talks about relationships as if he’s been married for 50 years. Show some humility, dude. (Wasn’t that one of the commandments in one of his dumbed-down lists?)

Counting one’s hours of meditation is amateur, at best, but, more importantly, it’s also a sign that the meditation isn’t working. Pueblo sounds like he has an addictive personality and is going through a hipster-pop-psychology phase. I’d guess he and I might align politically on a whole bunch of issues, but Pueblo’s delivery and packaging of these values and ideals are hard to stomach. His glossy, pseudo-scientific jargon comes across as practiced, New-Agey, and fake.

I feel for Pueblo’s partner, who is, not surprisingly, his manager. The introverted, “perfectionistic” woman does the dirty work for the attention-seeking man-child and claims she doesn’t need attention, herself. While Pueblo virtually self-describes as enlightened, his relationship sounds sort of Mad Men, 1950s traditional. (Might want to meditate on that.) My sense is that she’s caught in the undertow of his wave. I found it predictable, for example, that she provided for him for a period. I suspect that, while he might currently be the breadwinner financially, she’s still providing for him now.

His whispery voice and sharp “s’s” felt like an affectation but very cleanly echoed his prose— all shine, little substance. This book is an amalgamation of lingo packaged as a serious work. In ten years, the author will know he’s grown up if he comes to realize that this book is like a bad tattoo, a regrettable part of his past he can’t easily erase.

Overall, listening to Pueblo is like submitting to a tween whose persona is a composite of memes and influencer takes: unoriginal, recycled, and ultimately self-interested. Pardon the pun, but he comes off as really young.

The book is marketed as a self-help text, but it reads more like self-promotion. People think they can write like Hemingway, but most can’t. People think they can write like Yung Pueblo, and they can! But please don’t!

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Didn’t realize this was less science-based and more autobiography

A lot of parts didn’t apply to me. The message of the book I didn’t feel was very clear. The title is a promise made to the reader, and I feel this book was more of an autobiography than teaching someone how to love better. As someone who is not familiar with Yung Pueblo, I found myself wondering who is this person and why should I listen to them? Not in a cruel way; I just found myself questioning why this person’s life and experience would be something I want to listen to. It turns out, it wasn’t really for me. It wasn’t a terrible listen/read, just not what I thought I was in for when reading the title. Not what I expected based on marketing.

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