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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLERAn intimate memoir of love, desire, and personal growth that follows a happily married mother as she explores sex and relationships outside her marriage • "This book about open marriage is going to blow up your group chat"—The Washington Post

Molly Roden Winter was a mother of small children with a husband, Stewart, who often worked late. One night when Stewart missed the kids’ bedtime—again—she stormed out of the house to clear her head. At a bar, she met Matt, a flirtatious younger man. When Molly told her husband that Matt had asked her out, she was surprised that Stewart encouraged her to accept.

So began Molly’s unexpected open marriage and, with it, a life-changing journey of self-discovery. Molly signs up for dating sites, enters into passionate flings, and has sex in hotels and public places around New York City. For Molly it’s a mystery why she wants what she wants. In therapy sessions, fueled by the discovery that her parents had an open marriage, too, she grapples with her past and what it means to be a mother and a whole person.

Molly and Stewart, who also begins to see other people, set ground rules: Don’t date an ex. Don’t date someone in the neighborhood. Don’t go to anyone’s home. And above all, don’t fall in love. In the years that follow, they break most of their rules, even the most important one. They grapple with jealousy, insecurity, and doubts, all the while wondering: Can they love others and stay true to their love for each other? Can they make the impossible work?

More is an electric debut that offers both steamy fun and poignant reflections on motherhood, daughterhood, marriage, and self-fulfillment. With warmth, humor, and style, Molly Roden Winter delivers an unputdownable journey of a woman becoming her most authentic self.©2024 Molly Roden Winter (P)2024 Random House Audio
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"Breathtakingly candid"—Alexandra Alter, The New York Times

"An intimate portrait of a woman on an earnest search to reclaim her passion...This story is a balm for those with unmet yearnings and a triumph for those who have made their own first steps toward getting more out of life."—Christie Tate, bestselling author of Group and BFF

"An intimate glimpse into an open marriage with all its glorious imperfections. What a gift to witness Molly and her husband fumble through this relationship evolution and offer us a front row seat to their growth as a couple, and her breakthroughs as an individual. For anyone who's ever been curious about open marriage, this engrossing, achingly honest memoir is a must-read."—Emily Morse, founder and host, Sex With Emily

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Interesting take

On the whole, I liked it. Molly is a good writer, and I knew nothing about open marriages so I liked reading about it from her perspective and learning about the topic. At times it lost my interest, and I also felt that her husband sometimes was manipulative to her for his own personal benefits (he wanted to sleep with other women, so he pressed her on opening the marriage) and this made me feel icky for her. I hope this is what she truly wants.

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Not my usual genre, but an interesting

This book held my attention over the three days I read it. The writer moved along and told her story well.

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Excellent Read

So insightful, warm, and relatable even if you haven’t experienced non-monogamy. Would absolutely recommend!

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Touching, Raw, Relatable

Loved this book. It was so honest and vulnerable and gives such important insight into the pressures of being a woman becoming/being a mother in pursuit of her own happiness and desires. I learned about as much about myself while reflecting on Winter’s words as I did about her. Highly recommend

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How real!

how can molly be so familiar to me?? the resemblence is amazing..thank you for the most amazing book in my life..it is a bir illuminator

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Raw & Honest

I wanted to listen to the whole book in one sitting! It changed the way I think about love & finding fulfillment in life! Thank you Molly for sharing your story with such honesty & vulnerability.

If you’re thinking about opening up your relationship and overwhelmed by trying to learn all the concepts like ENM & compersion, this book will be so comforting to you!
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Listened in a day!

This was such a quick, well-paced, engaging memoir! This is exactly the kind of book that will get you out of a reading slump, and just the jolt you need in the new year. More memoirs need to be like this one. This is a story that moves and includes all the most important details without going overboard or feeling long/drawn out.

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Many Honest Insights About Love

I thoroughly enjoyed this insightful, blisteringly honest reflection on life and love. I have learned similar lessons about the expansiveness of the human heart and think, as a general principle, that the love we bring into the world is our primary source of real hope.

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Great insight

Fantastic psychological insight in to the adventures of living this sort of life style. So many emotional ups and downs. Thank you for sharing so much. I couldn't stop listening. Seems like it's an always fleeting situation that inevitably ends. Makes me believe that we are more monogamous beings that sometimes just need a way to reduce the stress of life. I hope there is a follow up book in ten years.

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Talk about finding yourself!

Husband pushed her into it. What do your children think of this? It must be humiliating - but it was interesting and well-written for me as a voyeur.

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