
The Deep-Rooted Marriage
Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight
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Narrated by:
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Dr. Dan B. Allender
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Dr. Steve Call
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Becky Allender
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Lisa Call
About this listen
Read by the authors with Becky Allender and Lisa Call.
What if you could experience a marriage that is not just good, but truly life-giving? Therapists Dan Allender and Steve Call show how deeper intimacy can bring more healing and delight.
Every relationship has its highs and lows, but we often don't know what to do with our "lows," or how we ended up there. What is creating friction, exacerbating our pain, and standing in the way of intimacy?
More often than not, it is the stories of our past drifting into the present. But if we are willing to look at them closely, we will be able to write a new story for the future.
With more than seventy years of therapeutic experience combined, Dan Allender and Steve Call demonstrate how God is inviting you and your partner to a wild faith journey with the hope of transformation. With personal stories, key psychological insights, and practical advice, The Deep-Rooted Marriage will help you:
- Address past trauma, giving you greater courage and compassion to engage your present struggles.
- Disrupt cycles of conflict based on shame, judgment, and resentment.
- Create safety when feeling threatened and offer attunement, empathy, and honor toward differences.
- Adopt humility, honesty, kindness, curiosity, defiance against what divides, and intention to bless.
- Learn practices that cultivate emotional intimacy, generating new goodness between you and beyond you.
Marriage is not about merely getting along or resolving conflict through compromise. It reveals who you are and invites you to who you can become. Marriage offers a space for you to experience what you are made for—honor and delight. And it is the ground from which redemption is meant to grow, where, together, you can reflect God's image more and experience a taste of heaven.
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When Ron and Nan Deal suffered the devastating loss of their child, their marriage was nearly shattered by their destructive cycles. At wits' end, they sought the help of pioneering therapists Dr. Terry Hargrave and Sharon Hargrave, LMFT, whose transformational Restoration Therapy has helped millions through the practice of emotional mindfulness. Now, the Deals and Hargraves introduce listeners to this proven method that challenges popular beliefs about how relationships work.
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RT is so valuable
- By Visitor on 03-06-25
By: Ron L. Deal MMFT, and others
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The Marriage You Want
- Moving Beyond Stereotypes for a Relationship Built on Scripture, New Data, and Emotional Health
- By: Dr. Keith Gregoire, Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Narrated by: Dr. Keith Gregoire, Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 5 hrs and 50 mins
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Based on the findings of their meticulous research, Sheila Wray Gregoire and Dr. Keith Gregoire dispel the pervasive myths about what makes a happy marriage. Rather than relying on gender stereotypes, they look at what actually creates intimacy, emotional health, and connection, asking deeper questions that lead to real healing and growth in your relationship with your spouse.
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Best marriage book
- By E. Wiers on 04-14-25
By: Dr. Keith Gregoire, and others
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God, Sex, and Your Marriage
- By: Dr. Juli Slattery
- Narrated by: Dr. Juli Slattery
- Length: 4 hrs and 59 mins
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Many Christian books talk about sexual issues within broader works on marriage, but few resources comprehensively and biblically guide couples specifically on sexual intimacy. God, Sex, and Your Marriage challenges the common assumptions couples have about sexuality and presents the richer biblical narrative of sex as a metaphor of God’s covenant love. Dr. Juli Slattery applies that biblical framework to the practical challenges in sexual intimacy. Godly sexuality extends far beyond sexual purity and calls us to sexual integrity.
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From a sex addict: this book changed my heart
- By Amazon Customer on 07-21-22
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Becoming the Pastor's Wife
- How Marriage Replaced Ordination as a Woman's Path to Ministry
- By: Beth Allison Barr
- Narrated by: Connie Shabshab
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
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As a pastor's wife for 25 years, Beth Allison Barr has lived with assumptions about what she should do and who she should be. In Becoming the Pastor's Wife, Barr draws on that experience and her expertise as a historian to trace the history of the role of the pastor's wife, showing how it both helped and hurt women in conservative Protestant traditions. While they gained an important leadership role, it came at a deep cost: losing independent church leadership opportunities that existed throughout most of church history and strengthening a gender hierarchy that prioritized male careers.
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History of Women in Pastoral Ministry
- By Fred La Plante on 03-26-25
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Sabbath
- The Ancient Practices Series
- By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, Phyllis Tickle - foreword
- Narrated by: Henry O. Arnold
- Length: 5 hrs and 5 mins
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Dan Allender's lyrical book about the Sabbath expels the myriad myths about this "day of rest," starting with the one that paints the Sabbath as a day of forced quiet, spiritual exercises, and religious devotion and attendance. This, he says, is at odds with the ancient tradition of Sabbath as a day of delight for both body and soul. Instead, the only way we can make use of the Sabbath is to see God's original intent for the day with new eyes. In Sabbath, Allender builds a case for delight by looking at this day as a festival that celebrates God's re-creative, redemptive love.
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JOY!
- By Kim on 02-13-23
By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, and others
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The Cry of the Soul
- How Our Emotions Reveal Our Deepest Questions About God
- By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, Dr. Tremper Longman III, Joni Tada - foreword
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 9 hrs and 3 mins
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All emotion - whether positive or negative - can give us a glimpse of the true nature of God. We want to control our negative emotions and dark desires. God wants us to recognize them as the cry of our soul to be made right with Him. Beginning with the Psalms, Cry of the Soul explores what Scripture says about our darker emotions and points us to ways of honoring God as we faithfully embrace the full range of our emotional life.
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Challenging and insightful.
- By Miriaculous on 09-12-21
By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, and others
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Healing the Wounded Heart
- The Heartache of Sexual Abuse and the Hope of Transformation
- By: Dan B. Allender
- Narrated by: Arthur Morey
- Length: 9 hrs and 20 mins
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First published in 1989, Dan Allender's The Wounded Heart has helped hundreds of thousands of people come to terms with sexual abuse in their past. Now, more than 25 years later, Allender has written a brand-new book on the subject that takes into account recent discoveries about the lasting physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual ramifications of sexual abuse.
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Beautiful!
- By Amber on 10-25-17
By: Dan B. Allender
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Healing What's Within
- Coming Home to Yourself—and to God—When You're Wounded, Weary, and Wandering
- By: Chuck DeGroat
- Narrated by: Chuck DeGroat
- Length: 5 hrs and 36 mins
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We can’t always control what happens to us. But we can discover how to heal the hidden hurt it leaves behind. Not knowing what to do with your suffering and fearing you'll be hurt again, you’ve learned to cope, to numb and suppress the ache within. It doesn’t have to be this way. In Healing What’s Within, therapist and professor Chuck DeGroat invites you on a compassionate journey inward to return and retune to the life God created you to live.
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How worldly this book is
- By Gretchen B. on 10-18-24
By: Chuck DeGroat
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The Wounded Heart
- Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse
- By: Dan B. Allender
- Narrated by: Arthur Morey
- Length: 10 hrs and 11 mins
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Sexual abuse knows no religious or social boundaries. The Wounded Heart is an intensely personal and specific look at this form of abuse. Dr. Allender explores the secret lament of the soul damaged by sexual abuse and lays hold of the hope buried there by the one whose unstained image we all bear. Includes information about false memory issues.
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Not what I was hoping for ...
- By Kelly Cea on 05-09-17
By: Dan B. Allender
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Sacred Marriage
- What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy?
- By: Gary Thomas
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas
- Length: 7 hrs and 43 mins
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What if God designed marriage to make you holy instead of happy? What if your relationship isn't as much about you and your spouse as it is about you and God? In Sacred Marriage, best-selling author Gary Thomas uncovers the ways that your marriage can become a doorway to a closer walk with God and with each other. Join over one million others who have already uncovered Thomas's tips for fostering a sacred marriage. In Sacred Marriage, Thomas invites you to see how God can use your relationship with your spouse as a discipline and a motivation to love God more.
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just when I wanted to give up
- By Nestor on 01-10-18
By: Gary Thomas
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How to Stay Married
- By: Harrison Scott Key
- Narrated by: Harrison Scott Key, Lauren Key
- Length: 8 hrs and 43 mins
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One gorgeous autumn day, Harrison discovers that his wife—the sweet, funny, loving mother of their three daughters, a woman “who’s spent just about every Sunday of her life in a church”—is having an affair with a family friend. This revelation propels the hysterical, heartbreaking events in How to Stay Married, casting our narrator onto “the factory floor of hell,” where his wife was now in love with a man who “wears cargo shorts, on purpose.” What will he do? Kick her out?
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A book that holds the details of your marriage
- By Karla on 07-16-23
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The Sacred Romance (Revised and Updated Edition)
- Coming Home to the God Who Pursues Your Heart
- By: John Eldredge, Brent Curtis
- Narrated by: John Eldredge
- Length: 9 hrs and 6 mins
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We have lost touch with our hearts. In the pursuit of efficiency, success, and the busyness of our lives we have only been left with emptiness and longing. If you're feeling lost, disconnected, wounded, broken, or if your heart just aches for something more, you’ve come to the right place. In The Sacred Romance, bestselling authors John Eldredge and Brent Curtis invite you to join them as they explore the greatest love of our lives: a relationship with the God who pursues us.
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This book changed me 27 years ago
- By Laura on 01-04-25
By: John Eldredge, and others
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Her Freedom Journey
- A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy
- By: Juli Slattery, Joy Skarka
- Narrated by: Joy Skarka
- Length: 5 hrs and 28 mins
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We are all sexually broken. And we are all invited to participate in the love, forgiveness, and healing of Jesus. Have you ever experienced the fear and shame that follows the vortex of graphic movies, erotica, promiscuity, or porn sites? You may think you’re alone and feel like hiding. But you’re not alone—and there is hope and healing.
By: Juli Slattery, and others
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- Will
- 02-07-25
Fantastic Work
A must-read for all couples. And the audio version is a wonderful listen with the authors and their spouses.
This is one I’ll return to again and again!
- Ivy
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- Robert Ragland
- 01-31-25
The absolute truth of every word, and hope that it pours into every one who will read!
I have read a many books on marriage. With that being said I would say wholeheartedly, The Deep Rooted Marriage is the best one! I was so overtaken with the goodness of God as He has been teaching my husband and myself these principles all along and to read or “hear” it so eloquently explained renewed my faith in Christ, my faith in marriage and my faith in the beauty of every human believer who walks so bravely this path of becoming one flesh.
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- Bill Valley
- 04-03-25
Great insights
I appreciate the vulnerability of the people who shared these insights, they give hope to us in our marriages.
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- Susan
- 02-13-25
Amazing!
What a wonderful, rich and valuable book. I’m so glad to have read it and can’t wait to begin the companion guide!
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- Christian Ferguson
- 04-09-25
Incredibly beautiful, healing, and hope-giving
Aside from the fact that the authors, especially Dr allender, are masters of the English language and unbelievably eloquent... the content of this book is astounding. Being the child of multiple broken marriages, and being about to marry for the first time myself, this book fills me with hope that there is indeed a path to be different. To last. The concept of not just trying to talk through issues, but acknowledging and honoring the trauma from your families of origin, which is the true root of the issues and may not be solvable but must be embraced, is a totally new concept to me and really feels like a powerful tool to build a marriage different from my family's. Thank you to the authors for sharing this incredible resource.
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