
The Deep-Rooted Marriage
Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight
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Narrated by:
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Dr. Dan B. Allender
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Dr. Steve Call
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Becky Allender
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Lisa Call
About this listen
Read by the authors with Becky Allender and Lisa Call.
What if you could experience a marriage that is not just good, but truly life-giving? Therapists Dan Allender and Steve Call show how deeper intimacy can bring more healing and delight.
Every relationship has its highs and lows, but we often don't know what to do with our "lows," or how we ended up there. What is creating friction, exacerbating our pain, and standing in the way of intimacy?
More often than not, it is the stories of our past drifting into the present. But if we are willing to look at them closely, we will be able to write a new story for the future.
With more than seventy years of therapeutic experience combined, Dan Allender and Steve Call demonstrate how God is inviting you and your partner to a wild faith journey with the hope of transformation. With personal stories, key psychological insights, and practical advice, The Deep-Rooted Marriage will help you:
- Address past trauma, giving you greater courage and compassion to engage your present struggles.
- Disrupt cycles of conflict based on shame, judgment, and resentment.
- Create safety when feeling threatened and offer attunement, empathy, and honor toward differences.
- Adopt humility, honesty, kindness, curiosity, defiance against what divides, and intention to bless.
- Learn practices that cultivate emotional intimacy, generating new goodness between you and beyond you.
Marriage is not about merely getting along or resolving conflict through compromise. It reveals who you are and invites you to who you can become. Marriage offers a space for you to experience what you are made for—honor and delight. And it is the ground from which redemption is meant to grow, where, together, you can reflect God's image more and experience a taste of heaven.
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Challenging and insightful.
- By Miriaculous on 09-12-21
By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, and others
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The Wounded Heart
- Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse
- By: Dan B. Allender
- Narrated by: Arthur Morey
- Length: 10 hrs and 11 mins
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Sexual abuse knows no religious or social boundaries. The Wounded Heart is an intensely personal and specific look at this form of abuse. Dr. Allender explores the secret lament of the soul damaged by sexual abuse and lays hold of the hope buried there by the one whose unstained image we all bear. Includes information about false memory issues.
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Not what I was hoping for ...
- By Kelly Cea on 05-09-17
By: Dan B. Allender
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Healing the Wounded Heart
- The Heartache of Sexual Abuse and the Hope of Transformation
- By: Dan B. Allender
- Narrated by: Arthur Morey
- Length: 9 hrs and 20 mins
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First published in 1989, Dan Allender's The Wounded Heart has helped hundreds of thousands of people come to terms with sexual abuse in their past. Now, more than 25 years later, Allender has written a brand-new book on the subject that takes into account recent discoveries about the lasting physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual ramifications of sexual abuse.
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Beautiful!
- By Amber on 10-25-17
By: Dan B. Allender
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Sabbath
- The Ancient Practices Series
- By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, Phyllis Tickle - foreword
- Narrated by: Henry O. Arnold
- Length: 5 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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Dan Allender's lyrical book about the Sabbath expels the myriad myths about this "day of rest," starting with the one that paints the Sabbath as a day of forced quiet, spiritual exercises, and religious devotion and attendance. This, he says, is at odds with the ancient tradition of Sabbath as a day of delight for both body and soul. Instead, the only way we can make use of the Sabbath is to see God's original intent for the day with new eyes. In Sabbath, Allender builds a case for delight by looking at this day as a festival that celebrates God's re-creative, redemptive love.
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JOY!
- By Kim on 02-13-23
By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, and others
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To Be Told
- God Invites You to Coauthor Your Future
- By: Dan B. Allender PhD
- Narrated by: William Sarris
- Length: 6 hrs and 51 mins
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God wants to reveal himself through your story. Discover how he has written your life so far and how he is leading you into the rest of your story. Everyone wants clearer guidance from God on what to do with their future. In this insightful book, therapist and Professor Dan Allender shows you how to listen to the stories of your life and identify the themes that God has written there.
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Thought Provoking and Inspiring
- By michelle deuz on 04-10-21
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The Flirtation Experiment
- Putting Magic, Mystery, and Spark into Your Everyday Marriage
- By: Lisa Jacobson, Phylicia Masonheimer
- Narrated by: Lisa Jacobson, Phylicia Masonheimer
- Length: 4 hrs and 17 mins
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From popular Christian voices Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, The Flirtation Experiment encourages strengthening your marriage by using a fun and lighthearted approach.
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Mehhh....
- By Yadira Peets on 09-06-24
By: Lisa Jacobson, and others
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A Good Apology
- Four Steps to Make Things Right
- By: Molly Howes PhD
- Narrated by: Molly Howes PhD, Maggi-Meg Reed
- Length: 8 hrs and 20 mins
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We've all done something wrong or made a mistake or insulted someone - even if by accident. We've all been hurt and wanted the other person to help us heal. It may be surprising, but the breaches themselves aren't the real problem; our inability to fix them is what causes us trouble. In A Good Apology, Dr. Molly Howes uses her experiences with patients in her practice, research findings, and news stories to illustrate the power and importance of a thorough apology. She teaches how we can all learn to craft an effective apology with four straightforward steps.
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The book I’ve been searching for
- By Kellie on 04-08-21
By: Molly Howes PhD
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People Fuel
- Fill Your Tank for Life, Love, and Leadership
- By: John Townsend
- Narrated by: John Townsend
- Length: 6 hrs and 14 mins
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We all need more energy, the vitality that helps us stay motivated, focused and productive in life. We know we receive energy from good nutrition, along with working out, adequate sleep and maintaining positivity. But there is another major source for the energy we need: having the right kinds of relationships with others. Not the ones that drain us, but the ones that refuel us.
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Started off great - then it got religious
- By Amazon Customer on 08-05-19
By: John Townsend
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The Mindful Marriage
- Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself
- By: Ron L. Deal MMFT, Nan Deal BSE, Terry Hargrave PhD - foreword, and others
- Narrated by: Pete Straub
- Length: 5 hrs and 52 mins
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When Ron and Nan Deal suffered the devastating loss of their child, their marriage was nearly shattered by their destructive cycles. At wits' end, they sought the help of pioneering therapists Dr. Terry Hargrave and Sharon Hargrave, LMFT, whose transformational Restoration Therapy has helped millions through the practice of emotional mindfulness. Now, the Deals and Hargraves introduce listeners to this proven method that challenges popular beliefs about how relationships work.
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Must read
- By scarlott42 on 06-03-25
By: Ron L. Deal MMFT, and others
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The Toxic War on Masculinity
- How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes
- By: Nancy R. Pearcey
- Narrated by: Susan Hanfield
- Length: 14 hrs and 29 mins
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How did the idea arise that masculinity is dangerous and destructive? Bestselling author Nancy Pearcey leads you on a fascinating excursion through American history to discover why the script for masculinity turned toxic—and how to fix it. Pearcey then turns to surprising findings from sociology. Religion is often cast as a cause of domestic abuse. But research shows that authentically committed Christian men test out as the most loving and engaged husbands and fathers. They have the lowest rates of divorce and domestic violence of any group in America.
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A lot of good stuff, with one issue.
- By Jared Hageman on 07-26-23
By: Nancy R. Pearcey
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Misreading Scripture with Western Eyes
- Removing Cultural Blinders to Better Understand the Bible
- By: E. Randolph Richards, Brandon J. O'Brien
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 8 hrs and 27 mins
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Biblical scholars Brandon O'Brien and Randy Richards shed light on the ways that Western readers often misunderstand the cultural dynamics of the Bible. They identify nine key areas where modern Westerners have significantly different assumptions about what might be going on in a text. Drawing on their own cross-cultural experience in global mission, O'Brien and Richards show how better self-awareness and understanding of cultural differences in language, time, and social mores allow us to see the Bible in fresh and unexpected ways.
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Not at all what you think. Not at all helpful for Christian Faith
- By Jammie B. on 04-18-24
By: E. Randolph Richards, and others
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What Your Mother Couldn't Tell You and Your Father Didn't Know
- Advanced Relationship Skills for Better Communication and Lasting Intimacy
- By: John Gray
- Narrated by: George Guidall
- Length: 14 hrs and 32 mins
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The rules of relationships have changed. In our generational movement toward wholeness, women want to be more than mothers and homemakers, and men aspire to loving relationships rather than simply being warriors and work machines. The age-old distinctions between male and female roles have blurred, and the rules of relationships have not yet caught up, creating confusion and frustration.
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Never had something so informative!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- By JKM on 11-09-17
By: John Gray
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The Marriage You Want
- Moving Beyond Stereotypes for a Relationship Built on Scripture, New Data, and Emotional Health
- By: Dr. Keith Gregoire, Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Narrated by: Dr. Keith Gregoire, Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 5 hrs and 50 mins
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Based on the findings of their meticulous research, Sheila Wray Gregoire and Dr. Keith Gregoire dispel the pervasive myths about what makes a happy marriage. Rather than relying on gender stereotypes, they look at what actually creates intimacy, emotional health, and connection, asking deeper questions that lead to real healing and growth in your relationship with your spouse.
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Excellent
- By Rowena on 06-16-25
By: Dr. Keith Gregoire, and others
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Reconnected
- Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Marriage
- By: Erin Smalley, Dr. Gary Smalley
- Narrated by: David Cochran Heath, Ann Richardson
- Length: 7 hrs and 38 mins
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Over time, the business of life creeps in and even the most deeply committed couples can feel like they're living parallel lives rather than enjoying life together. Their once happily-ever-after can quickly turn into an endless grind of work, chores, errands, and carpool. And the pull of social media becomes more compelling than engaging with one's spouse. In this book, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley offer practical ways to rekindle the passionate, intimate, heart-to-heart spark of connection between husbands and wives.
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Not the best
- By Eden’s Branch on 10-31-24
By: Erin Smalley, and others
This is one I’ll return to again and again!
- Ivy
Fantastic Work
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The absolute truth of every word, and hope that it pours into every one who will read!
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Great insights
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Amazing!
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Incredibly beautiful, healing, and hope-giving
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Insightful and practical.
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